I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?
1anonymous answered Monday November 1 2004, 11:39 am: I dont think u should annoy her back or anything, just tell her that she was being annoying. Dont say it real seriously but say it casually. This isnt a big deal (i hope) so you shouldnt be all serious about it..hopefully ur friend will get the message..Good luck! [ 1anonymous's advice column | Ask 1anonymous A Question ]
xO_Chelsea_Ox answered Sunday October 31 2004, 5:39 pm: Yeah, that's natural... Try spending less time with eachother for a while and then get back together and everything will be back to normal! I hoped i helped!! :)
panther_grl03 answered Sunday October 31 2004, 5:26 pm: That's pretty much natural. I understand what that is like. You two are starting to run out of excitement and you are noticing more and more of her faults because you have hung out with her for so long. Don't worry though. It seems that you will be annoyed for ever, but that is not the case. My best advice is to try to brodden you topics of conversation. Talk about the serious stuff that you don't share with anyone, and things should get better. Once you know REAL stuff about eachother.
Ask_me_a_question answered Sunday October 31 2004, 3:27 pm: Just keep on being nice to her. It looks like the two of you are changing, and growing apart. You should gradually spend morer time with your other friends if it makes you comfortable. The best case scenario is the two of you stay friends, like she is one of your "other friends", but you are not necesarily attatched at the hip. Don't feel guilty for being annoyed at her. It's just a change in her character, or yours, or both.
Be nice, but spend lots of time with your other friends too.
Hope I helped ;-) [ Ask_me_a_question's advice column | Ask Ask_me_a_question A Question ]
charmed-cherry21 answered Sunday October 31 2004, 3:27 pm: Be like "whats into you? you have been acting really different" or something like that.
dramaqueenbabeiwb answered Sunday October 31 2004, 3:19 pm: Well, why is she annoying you? It might not really be a big deal. If she's your bestest friend then stick with her. Talking to her always helps. If you're really a good friend, you won't diss her or ditch her. That, or maybe you two shouldn't be BEST friends anymore. [ dramaqueenbabeiwb's advice column | Ask dramaqueenbabeiwb A Question ]
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