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Confused
All right, I have a friend Lizzie, and we are really close. She has a group of friends that I always knew didn't like me that much, and that never bothered me. but all of a sudden she's telling me that she can only hang out with me on the bus on Thursdays, and doesn't talk to me anymore. I know I should give up on her but she's my best friend!! Please tell me what to do.
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i know people are telling u to give up on ur friend and make new friends but i think thats the worst possible move. Maybe ur friend is just going through a "phase." Just talk to her whenever u can...sometimes friends try new people to hang out with to get their mind off something else going on..DO NOT GIVE UP ON HER..Good luck! (keep us updated)
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i wish i could tell you what to do, but belive me ive been there before. sometimes it is time to move on, and other times you no you guys should be best friends. talk to her, as hard as it is, and tell her how u feel. if she feels the same way, work on and u will ull through, if sh egets angery, maybe it is time to pull back a little, adn hang out with some of your own new friends, good luck
ps. i dont want to give your name away, but this is risas friend erica, and i think i know you, if this is the wrong person i am really sorry lol, if it is the right person, ask me a question anytime. :)
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well...i kno for sure a best friend would never juss say i can onli talk to u on da bus and on thursdays...i would for get bout her and move on coz a tru best friedn would never abandon u like dat..
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Yeah, I once had a situation like that. On Thursday, when she starts talking to you, have a very pained look on your face and start moaning. When she asks you what's wrong, look at her and say, "Ohhh, it feels like, like, I've been stabbed in the back." Then switch seats. Forget about her. It will be hard, and it will be painful, but honestly, girls like those are a HUGE waste of time. If she trys groveling, don't settle for one day of the week, but 24/7. Good luck in all you do. :) If you ever need to talk to someone, I have had experience, feel free to e-mail or Instant Message me. (My e-mail address and Screen name are both on my advice column)
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I know Lizzie is your best friends, but you have to forget about her! She is no friend of your if she just drops you like that!!! Get into more school activities and talk to other people in your classes and eventually will find a new best friend... I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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News Flash!!!! Hello the girl is not your best friend or even your friend. Maybe once upon a time she was. But things change and people change. She does not deserve a loyal friend such as yourself. Move on and let her know that you dont need her "friend ship".
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man that is really mean is lizzie! she shouldn't be doing that to you. She isn't strong enough to stand up for you to this group of friends because she wants to be a part of the group with them but she also wants to be your best friend. A good friend would stik up for you and maybe still hang out wit that other group. Tell her how you feel about it and that it's not nice of her at all to be doing this to you, if it keeps ypup id suggest finding a friend who treats you nicely and with resepct :)
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Well if she was that mean, maybe she isn't the person you thought she was. Girls are like that, they wanna show off to their friends. But you need to move on. Don't crawl back to her, because that's probably what she wants you to do. IF you say, "Fine whatever" that won't be the answer she wants. Maybe she'll react and crawl back to you. Ya never know, just hang out with other friends and see what happens. Good luck!
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