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How can i introduce myself.. without seeming so upfront... ?
SO yeah .. there's this guy. I'm not sure what grade he's in. But everytime I am near him ..walking past him or just standing there.. he always turns to look at me. Just stares at me.. dead in the eye..sometimes even smiles.
the thing is .. i know who this guy is. well i know who most of his friends are.
i told one of my friends about him .. "hey theres that 'creepy' guy that always stares at me.. thats him".. and shes like "ohh thats him? I know him!".. and she told me his name..."oh he thinks youre pertty!" and i said "really? how.. why what has he said?" and she said "um, we were in the bus and we saw you walking outside and he asked me 'hey do you think that girl is pretty?'..and I was like yeah." And she said that most likely he didnt just ask if he thought i was pretty because he didnt think i was! u know? Well thing is.. i always see him right.. and I WISH i had the courage to talk to him.
its so cute too.. this past thursday i was going to my 2nd period and there he was coming my direction..with his hair covering his face as he looked at me between the spaces of his hair.. and i moved to the side and i noticed he got nervous because he stopped to let me pass by. I smiled as i kept walking because i thought it was funny.
i would like to get to nkow him.. just talk to him.. man.. i need help...
thing is.. most of hsi friends KNOW ME (i dont know all theirnames).but they know who I am... and most of their CHICK friends dont like me because of this girl that started rumors about me because the guy that she liked.. liked me instead.(which i never went out with .. yet)..
i cant explain myself.. PLEASE HELP
[14 yr female gr10]
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You should just gather up your courage, you shouldn't care about what other people think of you. If he is influenced by what others think of you, then he really isn't worth it all. if you can't gather up your courage, then have your friend, from the story, talk to him for you and find out more about him.
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Don't let those other chicks get to you... Just get your courage and talk to him in the hallway, not so hard. I hoped i helped!! :)
xO Chelsea Ox
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Knowing a person is not defined by knowing his friends. Grow up who cares what people think. Are you gonna spend your whole life wondering what people think. High school comes and goes youll never see any of those people ever again. Trust me. If you like him talk to him or some other girl will befor you and you will lose your chance and most likly youll start some "drama" over it. My advice is be confident ignore other people and talk to him.
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well there are a few ways to do it.
theres the sneaky way...nest time you see him and hes staring at you drop somthing (make it look accidential) and when he helps you pick em up say "thanks i'm...." and introduce yourself.
not exactly fool proof but whatever.
or you could have that friend of yours introduce the two of you.
or if all else fails just make eye contact smile and say hi. trust me doll its a highly underrated appraoch.
good luck!!
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