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i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do
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Ok well some people DO change but most stay the same. think about how he was before.
did he ever lied to you? about anything...even tiniest thing.
did he ever make you feel uncomfortable?
and when you go see him, look him in the eye
and if it is those eyes, trust me i've really changed eye. then you should trust him but if he does it again, then strike him out.
and hope i helped
and hope it works out for both of you~
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if he like killed someone, i would act really obnoxious to get him to hate you and then forget about him. i wouldnt want to be known as the criminals gf. so chose wisely.
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I think you should follow your heart. But I mean Sparky here aint looking like he's in too good of shape. He's in jail & you don't really wanna be drug down like that cause I know you're better than that, but it's hard to just abandon someone you really care about. So all I can tell you is to go with your gut on this one!
Kisses, Stephanie
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If you love him and trust him then i think you should stay with him becuase he is going to need you when he gets out more than anything. If you feel like you cant trust him then you have to tell him that
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Hey i had the same kind of situation with my ex tony i gave him chnce after chance cause i cared so much for him.. but what did he keep doin he kept fuckin up.. i would give him one chance for him to change his ways if i was you then if he messes up dont give him no more chances.. ♥ Dez
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Here's the thing: I doesn't matter what he says or that you love him at this point. He needs to prove himself. A person can say they will change and really mean it with all their heart, but the fact is people rarely find the strength to make those changes. He needs to grow up and do what he claims he wants to do before you should get back together with him. You are too young to throw yourself away for a promise that has nothing to back it up. Let him know you care and that you believe in him, but tell him this is something he needs to do on his own and for himself. That is the only way true change can occur. I wish you luck and love!
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i think you should give him another chance.. gettin put to jail isnt the most easiest thing to happen to you. like my cusion went to jail and he came back and like now he is a whole new person and a lot more respectful and everything. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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You should give him a chance because some people can really change so just give him a chance and see how it goes.. hope i helped! <3*Nicole
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I think you should give him a chance. My friend's brother is getting out of jail and hes a really good person. Everyone makes mistakes, and he might have learned from him. He payed his time in jail, your what he needs right now.
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My ex boyfriend told me a couple of times he was going to change but he ended up going back. He is out now and has been doing pretty good for a month or so. He has a job and everything. We don't go out anymore but are friends. But if you guys love eachother don't give up if you are willing to try to make it work. I hated everyone telling me to get over it and just go my own way.You can't just stop loving someone and give up on it. You never know how it might work out. Follow your heart and I think you should give him a chance. :D
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well...just belive him for now! when he comes out see how it works. it has happend that alot of people have changed and some did not change. but he probley loves you to. so why would he lie? well just see how it works out. hope i helped, <3 sunny411
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Hey some people can change and other people cant it all an the person
Good Luck
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