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Q: what would you do if you are only 14 and a girl wants to grab you there but you aint had puberty and it aint that big and youve been going out for almost 2 years what should i do just let her and get humiliated or just tell her to wait
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Well, you do what you think is good for you and whatever you choose, she should respect that and if she really loves you she'll respect that. hopei helped!
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Q: If someone smokes pot for about a week straight and stops 4 or 5 days before they are given a dip test for urine testing, will they pass the drug test?
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No, i think that it will be in your system for a quite awhile.. hope i helped
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Q: I care a lot about my friends but to some of them i kinda feel like im not that important to them and we always have fights and its really hard and i need to kno how to handle it cuz im tired of fighting and having to deal with it its really hard well plz give me some advice ill rate high
Thanx
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have you tried talking to them? try doing some things they like hang more with them, see what they love to do, but im not tryign to say pay all the attention to them and not to your other friends but jus try to get involved with them and talk stuff out..h ope i helped!
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Q: well at a family reunion i got to see my cousins that i havent seen in a long time. well i got to know a male cousin of mine and we became good friends. but the whole reunion i mostly hung out with this cousin and another female cousin and we been kinda tight. well i dont get to see this cousin very often because he lives in a different state. and so whenever i see him at church its kind of a surprise and i go talk to him. but i think i like him and it's weird and i cant help it. even though he's adopted into the family hes not really a relative and its not like hes my 1st 2nd or 3rd cousin. hes a little out there but hes still my cousin. and i dont want to seem nasty or anything but what should i do. because i think its kind of gross that im starting to like him. and i dont want this to go anywhere
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ok.. well so you think you maybe like your cousin, try not to think about it, and when your with him you can still hang out and be friends but i know you may not want to like date him because hes your cousin, i understand but just, see where it goes like i dont mean like how far with you and your cousin but like kind of, in life and when your around him, see where it goes and dont jump to any conclusions.. you may find out that it was just like a little temporary crush and nothing to get worked up over.. hope i helped!
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Q: ok i have this friend named sean and i like him more than a friend and i want to be with him all the time!
its not like a stupid crush like ive had befor when i like them because everyone else does...i like him because he respects me and everytime i talk to him i get butterflys in my stomach .
how can i get him to like me back ?
16/f
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aw.. well does he know you like him? if he doesnt then show him. do some stuff for him, invite him places.. etc.. hope i helped!
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Q: i just got a hair cut. it is like the first one on the page only a little shorter,do you think this looks good? --[[first one]] --
http://www.salonweb.com/hstyles/long.htm
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it depends on how you look.. but i bet it looks really cute! hope i helped!
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Q: I need to be more outgoing. I really want to be able to go up to people and just talk to them. I want to have more confidence. How do i do so? I keep missing my chances to meet new guys.
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why dont you have a party or maybe go to the movies and just walk up to them and be like "hey im have a party *whatever* night.. do you wanna come? its from _____ to _____" and just do that. hope i helped!
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Q: i`m 16 & my boyfriend is in jail i love him more then anything in this world .. he says hes gonna change but i dont know if i should believe him what should i do
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You should give him a chance because some people can really change so just give him a chance and see how it goes.. hope i helped!
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Q: OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do?
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well does she know you like him? and yes you should give him the number and if shes a real friend she'll talk this out with you and be understanding about the situation you in. hope i helped!
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Q: I'm 14/M & I'm about 5'2 (maby even 5'1) & I weaigh about 115
I was looking for a work out routie that I could get a 6 pack, arm mussels, & a muscular chest
I'd also need a diet that I wouldn't gain alot of weaight from
& could you also tell me about how long it would take to get a 6 pack from your routie?
since I'm 14 & I live in a small town in Texas, I can't get a gym member-ship or will my mom, dad, or step-dad do anything to help me with this (I don't mind going behind there backs & doing stuff, they don't need to know everything that I do), so I can't really buy a magazine or buy a video on this
I really appriciate your help, thank you
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make a workoutplan for yourself with doing situps n pushups n stuff n maybe your parents can order something off t.v. for you.. hope i helped!
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Q: my hair has been falling out like crazy but its not normal falling out i mean its a lot of hair but i dont know why and i dont know if i should tell my mom
16/f
thanks
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you should because yea some does fall out like thats normal but if ALOT is coming out then.. you might have cancer..=( so i would talk to your mom about it if i were you hope i helped
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Q: i've just gotten a modeling audition for a prestigious program. I'm average looking with brown hair,brown eyes,and skin. I'm 13 and i'm 5'1. Should I do the program or should I turn it down?
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Well think about it.. is it something you really want to do? and something you will want to commit to? make a list of the goods and bads. are you willing to sacrifice maybe some time with friends and/or family? hope i helped!
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Q: okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
**help**
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well what you can do is for the seeing if he likes you part just be like "hey ____, i like you alot and i wanted to know if you like me? i know we have been friends for awhile now and we have talked on the phone almost everyday and the more i got to know you the more i liked you so i just wanted to know if you liked me?" and for the meeting him.. see if he can go to the movies but DONT GO ALONE because anything could happen.. so invite a couple friends to go with you so it can be like a group hang out.. hope i helped!
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Q: Is there any way of convincing my mom to let me babysit? She says she wants me to wait awhile. She said she would consider it though. Anyway, I would be babysitting with my friend. So she may be more comfortable about that. So how can I convince her to let me? And any ideas about how I could spread my services (if she says yes)?
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Well.. you can be more helpful around the house, show her your responsible.. practice with an object such as a doll or something and pretend its real kid so she can kind of get an idea of how your babysitting techniques are.. hope i helped
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Q: a few months age i got into truble cuz i was datn a older guy by for years and was told that it was illegal now im bein told its not illegal but i euld like proof could sum1 plse give me a website for sex laws in maryland for a 17 yr old female i appreciate it i rate 5s if you can help ive lukd everywhere n cant find it
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Well.. yes i think it is because if your 4 years apart and he is 17.. that means your 13 right? so yea i think i might be illeagal but im not positive.. hope i helped
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Q: Is it possible to lose 10-20 pounds by July 20? If so, can someone please give me some tips? Thank you in advance.
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yea its possible just exercise and eat healthy but dont over do it ok? hope i helped
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Q: Ok, well my mom has REALLY bad mood swings when she's not on her PAXIL! and sometimes even when she is on it she completely loses her mind and cant control her temper. This ususally happens about once every month or two. But today she got upset because i didnt clean my room and she totally lost it! Well she didnt punch me in the face or anything, but she slammed my face on the floor, and was pulling my hair and was punching me on the back of my legs, and with all that happening, my lips were busted open, and i have a black eye, and it bled a little, and even make-up wont cover it completely! Also she keeps threatening to send me to live with my dad (who lives in a semi-nice house, but is addicted to marijuana, crack, cocaine, crystal meth, and he pops pills)...So i was wondering if this was considered Child Abuse.....Thanks Alot for reading this, and im sorry if its Long!
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omg hunnie that is child abuse and you cant live with your father because you wont be safe there either.. you need professional help!.. aw=( hope i helped
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Q: I know a girl, who i played soccer with and who was in 1st period with all year during school, and it seems like we have a lot in common. The only problem is that she is a senior, and i am a freshman. I've always been nice to her, being that she is an upperclassman, and she has always been nice to me. I think we could be really good friends, but i feel like something is holding both of us back. Could it be because of the age difference? If anyone wants to know more to answer the question better, comment me back.
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well.. have you tried talking to her? just be like i think we should be friends but i dont know if you want to? and just talk it out.. hope i helped
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Q: I RATE 5s!!!
okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah
and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!!
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maybe you can practice outside of volleyball practice.. and if it really bothers you then you can talk to the coach about it or something or talk to the girl and be like.. hey i dont like you bossing me around and you need to stop.. im sorrie im not the best player on the team but i try so GET OVER IT. and walk away hope i helped
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Q: i hate my sister and my mom so much ... they are just ughh i hate their guts 75 % of time they make me wanna cry or murder someone ! ughh ... it has gotten so bad i've started to cut again. my friends act more like my family then these 2! my dad i love him i just cant talk to him about these stuff ... like cutting class lol i thought ohh i'll share that with my sis we never talk about stuff like these so i might as well tell her something for once but no when i turn my fucking back she has to go and tell my mom ! then she comes to me giving me a speech and shit then i ask my sis why she told and she was like i dont want you to fuck up your life i dont wanna be taking care of you ! i hate her so much she doesnt know half of what i have been threw in the past year she doesnt know anythong about my life so i dont think she should be talkin about it ... my life isnt fucked up at all ... i just skipped a class (gym) on the last day of skool .. wow im really doing bad ! god i hate this ... what can i do to take my anger out cuz crying doesnt help + i dont wanna go back to cutting ! yes it gets me this mad/upset
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well.. since your friends mean so much to you, which is good, then when you get mad, get away and go to a friends house, or call them, do something with your friends so you dont turn to cutting. hope i helped
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Hey everyone, my name is Nicole and im 13 years old. im single and i love to hang out with my friends. im in 8th grade and go to a catholic school. i love singing, dancing, having fun, livin life, etc.. and whatever you need help with im here for you and everything will be confidential xo0x*love ya*xo0x
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Gender: Female Location: C*tOwN Occupation: Student and babysitter Age: 13 AIM: Member Since: June 26, 2005 Answers: 34 Last Update: June 27, 2005 Visitors: 3525
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