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Is it the age difference?
I know a girl, who i played soccer with and who was in 1st period with all year during school, and it seems like we have a lot in common. The only problem is that she is a senior, and i am a freshman. I've always been nice to her, being that she is an upperclassman, and she has always been nice to me. I think we could be really good friends, but i feel like something is holding both of us back. Could it be because of the age difference? If anyone wants to know more to answer the question better, comment me back.
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Just be cool with her. My freashman year i made really good friends with a bunch of seniors, then they all took off for college and it was depressing. Then i had to go and patch friendships with people my age that thought i thought i was too cool for them.
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Yes it could be because of the age difference, but it could also be maybe you two have completely two different groups of friends so she is holding back on becoming good friends because of her friends? which shouldnt matter who is friends with who, but lets face it unfortunately it does matter in highschool to people for some reason. Try asking her to the mall or the movies or something if you want to become closer friends! ♥ if there is a reason you can't do that just ask me again telling more to the story.
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well.. have you tried talking to her? just be like i think we should be friends but i dont know if you want to? and just talk it out.. hope i helped <3*Nicole
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Yea it could be the age difference.. maybe because your younger to her and she's bout to be graduating and maybe going to some sort of college.. maybe she might think cause your alot younger that you might be immature.. ♥ Dez
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She probably would like to be your friend, but she's scared that her friends might make fun of her for having a friend younger than her. Popularity is a lot to people these days, I have had the same problem but we hung out over the summer and stuff, just not during school. Hope I Helped ...
Heatherx0x0x0
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Well, it could be the age difference. Some people can't accept that. But, age isn't everything. Its all personality, maturity, and immaturity. Maybe you should talk to her about it and tell her how you feel?
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It might not be so much of the age but the social problems with "dating a freshmen" you should ask her if she thinks different about you because you're a freshmen.
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touch her boobs.
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Yes,It may be the age differnce other than that im not really sure,unless she's not feeling this friend ship thing the same way you are.But,maybe you should ask her about it or try to hang out with her.
~SilentTears
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probably i have the same problem with the people onmy soccer team but there is only one year differnce! but hopefully we will hang out more which seems to help alot
hope i helped!
.:stalking roxy:.
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Hmm, it could deffinitly be an age difference or it could be that neither of you had suggested being friends. Ask to hang out with her sometime. It's cool to have older friends. And its good to make new friends no matter the age. Good Luck. Hope I Helped!
~Brina~
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