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What does it mean if a guy says he will give you some face? And what does it mean when a guy asks when are you gonna give him a taste? (link)
I don't know about giving some face, maybe that means making out?

But I know that giving him a taste would translate to "when are you going to put out" which is asking when you're going to give him sexual favors.

Hope this helped!


Some of the songs on my Dance Dance Revolution game won't show up. This is the second time i've used it, and before they showed up after I did some stuff to it, but I can't remember what. It is used, and I bought it off the Internet. The type is DDR Supernova. Also, how do I make it stop autosaving? Thanks! (link)
Turning off autosave should be somewhere in the options.

To unlock songs you have to keep playing, the higher scores and more songs you play, the more songs you unlock.

Play different modes and explore the game entirely.

In no time you'll unlock a lot of songs.

Hope this helped!


how do you play hanky panky? i seen someone mention it in a answer for a question (link)
Hanky panky could be a sexual activity or something that is mischievous.

It's not an actual game, just sort of a description of an activity that remains unnamed.

Hope this helped!


wen my boyfriend asked me out i said yes thinking nothing of it. i really liked him, but wen he started going out with me he started acting different. I lovd the way he acted b4 we started goingg out. How can i get my old lover back?
f/12
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Unfortunately, guys act different with a girlfriend rather than with a friend.

Just try to convince him to be himself with you, he's trying to be a good boyfriend but in the process, he's becoming someone he's not.

Just mention things he used to do, and how much you like them. He may start them again.

Hope I helped!


ok my period is late by umm 3 weeks just about.
im not asking what it could be or why this is..

i just want to know..

how long would you suggest i wait until seeing a doctor? a few more weeks maybe?

thankyou x (link)
I would probably wait another week. Missing a whole month cycle can mean all sorts of things.

I'd recommend making an appointment now, just in case you don't get it by the middle of next week.

Hope I helped!


so theres this guy who lives next to me and we talk all the time and he said i was pretty and he always trys to impress me but idk if he likes me. what do you think? (link)
If he's trying to impress you, he wants you to like him.

It's really hard to tell if guys want girls to like them just because or because they like them.

Either way, if he wants you to like him, you can figure out if he likes you by playing into it.

Hope I helped!


does anyone know the gaelic translation for the word "blessed???" or know where i can find a translator for that on the internet? thanks (link)
Blessed in gaelic is beannaithe.

I found it here: http://help.berberber.com/forum26/9673-irish-gaelic-translation-english-i-am-able-do-17.html

Hope I helped!



I'm going to write a letter to my friend, and the only thing it'll say is "I like you." My issue is deciding which language to write it in. English? Spanish? French? Swedish? Portuguese? Haha, help me out. What would you think would be most "romantic"/ "cute"/ "whatever" if you got it? (link)
I think a great idea would to put it in all of those languages, and put some sort of note like...

"I used all these languages to try to explain how I feel about you, since just one of them isn't enough"

Or something corny like that.

Corny = Cute

Girls dig corny.

Hope I helped!


well, There is this boy i like him quite alot and i have since i met him. On that very night we both wanted to like pull each other but both thought the other wouldn't want to.

he has a girlfriend who hes trying to dump without hurting her, and its like "omg i'm trying to like leave my girlfreind"

he said he wanted to like get with me and like get to know me really well

and i was like hugging him for ages

and the thing is i think cheaters are the lowest of the low

and also i think laura likes him and come on its laura against me

i liek him alot

but now he says he likes my best friend

so, umm help..:( (link)
It sounds like he's playing the field. He is promising to leave his girlfriend, while not acting on it.

And saying that he likes you, while also liking your best friend.

He seems like bad news, try to get to know him better to see what his intentions are.

I hope it works out.

I hope I helped!


is a 14 yr. old to younng 2 date a 16 (link)
I don't think so, the way I see it is if the two people are both in high school, they are growing up in the same environment and both get the same information.

The 14 year old in the situation could be taken advantage of though, he/she may be unexperienced in relationships in comparison to the 16 year old.

The problem with age comes when one is 18 and the other is younger.

Hope I helped!


Is it right to ask your friend if they like you more than a friend? How will you do it? or should you wait for more signs?

I like her too but I dont want to look like a fool, when I ask. (link)
Just be careful, if you value the friendship more than a potential relationship, I wouldn't take any sudden measures.

Just be patient, be her friend, but give off hints that you wouldn't mind being more.

If she gives off enough hints that she wants to be more, you're in. But you have to wait until you're absolutely sure.

It's tricky with good friends because you don't want to ruin the friendship and if she doesn't feel the same way it will be awkward.

Hope you get her, good luck! Hope I helped!


okay i really need some advice.

15/F

I am really liking this boy Anthony he is perfect beautiful smile abs cute smart the perfect package and me and his sister met and she told me he liked me and i told her i really liked him. but i want to get him to tell me he likes me i told him how i felt about him completely and i just want to hear it from him.

His sister said he is scared to go into a relationship right now because his last girlfriend was a bitch and ruined everything and ah i just want to be with him but he doesnt show the same when we talk only when were together. i just need help to make him show forth to tell me he likes me or just things to do when we hang out. its always the same thing kissing cuddling and watching a movie i mean its perfect but i want to do stuff like go out places. any ideas please (:

i need help :( (link)
If you really like him, you can be patient for him.

Show him you can be patient, get to know him better. If you stick around, he'll have no choice but to make you his.

Hope it works out!

Hope I helped!


i didnt get the catagory thing so i picked randomly. any ways, hi im chinny and im 11/12 years old. i shaved my arms and i regret it soooooooooooo much!!!! how can i make the hairs grow back normal???? i need to now!! please!!! (link)
They grow back at a normal rate, it may take some time, just be patient, they'll come back quickly enough.

If it's itchy, that's just the hairs sprouting back out.

Shaving sensitive places can be a bad idea if you don't plan on doing it often.

Hope I helped!


okay, well there's this guy. he's almost a year younger than i am. but we're not going out. he's been liking me for almost a year now, and i didn't notice the things he's done for me since a few weeks ago. the last time me & him hung out, was at the mall & the theaters and stuff like that. and he held my hand ALOT. and every time if i let go, he wouldn't let go of my hand. he'd just keep holding onto it. so i might be able to like him. :] but then two days ago.. i think i accidentally blew up my chance. we got into an argument, it was our first argument ever. and i saw him comment his friend. "...ok now i don't have feeling for her anymore haha" and then he was like "dam chi im fucking piss off right now seriously fucking hate it when i help somebody and all of the sudden get fucking cussed at by one of your best friends man that fuck up man that fucking retarded right there shit don't know why the hell i help her fucking ass now shit just wasted my fucking time pretty much doing jack! argh! only if you were still on dam nobody to fucking talk to and chi i hope you never become like one of them fucker" and then later they comment him back and was like "whats wrong?" and then he was like "nothing just go piss off that all" cause me & him made-up and stuff.. and i felt bad.. but like.. he said i had no emotions or expression or whatever. and called me a rock. but i didn't mind the rock part, cause he was my rock. but it was the expressions and stuff like that, that made me blow up. but me & him apologized to each other, so we're good now. so after me & him made up, like i felt bad for blowing up on him. and then he was like i didn't have to feel bad.. but i still did.. cause that was our first fight ever. and then he was like "if i say i love u will u stop?" and then that's when i read the comment about the don't have feelings for me anymore. and besides.. i don't want him to say it if he doesn't mean it.. so then i was like "its okay.. you don't need to. don't worry i'll be fine." and then i stopped talking.... and i went to go watch tv. and then he kept aiming me and was like "...i love you mary."
"i love you awhole lot hunnnie"
"=["
"like you said people have their ups and down"
"it ok"
"you don't have to be mad"
"cmon mary"
"please"
"..."
"your not ok"
"cmon hunnie everybody have the moment they just have to burst its ok"
"mary please"
and then that's when he texted me & called me..... i didn't pick up his phone call though. and his text said "its ok hunnie you dont have to feel bad about it im threw with it now be happy hunnie bunny" i didn't answer that either. then he went back to aiming me. and was like
"hunnie!"
"common"
"im ok with it now"
"please"
"i love you mary please stop blaming yourself"
"mary you make me mad at myself"
"=["
"im srry i got you mad at yourself"
"im srry for everything that didnt go out right"
then his away message was like "im sorry for everything i did wrong...i love you"
and he still calls me "hunnie" and stuff like that, but i'm not sure if he still likes me. cause now, i'm acting kinda different, like if he says "i love you" to me, i keep thinking "does he really?"

can somebody tell me if he still likes me or what? i'm very confused right now. :[[[ somebody please help me?!

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He definitely still likes you, just let him know that what he's saying to you matters.

He seems to really care about you and fights bring out the worst in people.

He may have told his friend that he didn't have feelings for you but I bet he's regretting it now.

He doesn't want to lose you and that is made apparent by the massive amount of AIM messages and the call/text.

Let him know you appreciate him or he's gonna think he's wasting his time.

Let him know he isn't wasting his time on you. :P

Hope it works out, hope I helped!


I need to go shopping, so I'm wondering what styles of clothes will:
* Make your butt look bigger
* Make your chest look bigger
* Make your hips look wider
and camoflauge a muffin top, (a flabby stomach)
Thanks! (link)
Push up bras and non-thong underwear tend to bring out the butt and chest. Low cut jeans seem to bring out the best of the hips.

Just wear regular t-shirts, maybe get them a little bigger so your belly doesn't poke through them.

Sorry I'm not the best describing the clothes.

Hope I helped!


15/f. I'm not interested in dating right now, and I like someone way older. How do you make yourself get over it ? (link)
The best way to get over someone is to hate them.

If that doesn't work, just distance yourself from them, it will take time, but eventually you'll get over the person.

Finding someone better also helps.

Hope I helped!


heyy thanks for answering my question. but real quickly then adding on to what you said. how can you tell the difference between precum and cum. (link)
Precum is a clear liquid, while cum is white.

Precum also slightly oozes out, while cum spurts out.

Precum is a sort of lubrication that acts to clear the penis of dead sperm that was left the last time the person came.

Hope this helped!


ok, last time i wrote this, it wasn't written well. so i'm redoing it. it may be kinda long, but uhm please read?

ok, my friend mel, is dating this guy, and hes super nice and everything. but his friends like suck so bad. and my friend mel is going through alot of other stuff too. well, she hasnt been able to see her boyfriend in a long time. soo, she wanted to give him something. well they both have bunnies. and they always talk about there bunnies. well, so mel was gonna give him a little stuffed animal bunny. i mean, i dont know.. i thought it was kinda cute. anyways, so my friend mel, has a best friend named callie. and callie lives like a half hour away from the mall. so shes like, well fine, ill go up there and give it to him. well, callie is really really really shy around people she doesnt know. and like, i mean, she has nothing against kids that wear all black or anything, but i mean, come on, when you see those kids in the mall, and there not laughing and just look unhappy, its not like your getting the best vibe from them, yano? so she got kinda scared. so she left it like under this little table. and she called them and told them exactly where it was. and so then they were calling her allll of these mean names. like it was so bad. oh and mel wrote a letter to her boyfriend. and all of his friends were like, this is such bullshit, this sucks. how stupid. i thought it was gonna be better. so then mel felt really stupid. oh and her boyfriend never said thank you. so yeah. mel now thinks she should break up with him, because they were all being so mean to her best friend, and all that.

what do you think? (link)
She should express her disgust to her boyfriend. Maybe he can talk to them about it, but seeing as how her boyfriend didn't do the name calling, he isn't really to blame.

They should talk about it and if he defends his friends right to poke fun at her best friend, she should consider breaking up with him.

Hope this helped!



-how do you know when a guy is completly finished? ( I gave my boyfriend a handjob last night and he cummed but i kept going for a while and then i asked him if he wanted me to stop and he said no ) .. did he ever finish to begin with?

-what makes a guy go wild over a girl. lol i love my boyfriend soo much and i just wish i knew like he would choose no other girl over me.. like what could keep him wanting more of me. ( dont havta explain anything just some ideas.)

- can you tell when the guy precums?


thanks soo muchh! :] (link)
Usually when a guy comes, he's finished.

But some guys can go until they come twice.

Guys generally like really sexual girls, if you express a big interest in him sexually, he'll probably go wild. :P

And precum is the wetness that comes out of the penis before ejaculations, it's clear liquid.

Hope this helped!


ok so me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now. and like every three months we will play a game called who can last the longest without sex lol. its basically like 40 days and 40 nights. the thing that were allowed to do in this game is to tease the crap out of each other. I was just wondering from guys or girls what are some really good ways to tease the guy. any advice will help:) (link)
Just touch him in odd places, from what I remember, if a girl put her hands around my waist then pulled them back, I got this weird tingly sensation down my spine.

Tickle his sensitive areas and it may sound weird, but if you suck on his finger, he won't know what to do.

Hope this helped!




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