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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
**help**
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ok there are lots of ways to express your feelings
depending on your personality.
1. Direct Talk. which means you tell him straight out in person (but it would be good when you guys are like alone, well not at school just in case)
and that works good if you are a well talking person. like if you are really confident person.
2. Let letter do the talk. which means what it says. writing a letter to him. which most girls prefer, if they are kinda shy and if you can write good.
and if you are kinda unsure, then it will save a embarrasment , which i dont think it will happen
because it sounds like he likes you too.
i mean talking on the phone everyday, even couples dont talk that long so you have really good chance.
so have a faith in you and remember
guys hates it when girls ask other girl to do the talking for them , because they might think its just a trick.
so i hope i helped and hope it works out~ =)
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hey there, if you dont want to come out & ask him your self get a friend, but not a real close one, to ask him for you or e-mail him or call him! just find a way that works for you! I hope everything works out! GOOD LUCK!!!!!! if ya need nething else just ask me!
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well what you can do is for the seeing if he likes you part just be like "hey ____, i like you alot and i wanted to know if you like me? i know we have been friends for awhile now and we have talked on the phone almost everyday and the more i got to know you the more i liked you so i just wanted to know if you liked me?" and for the meeting him.. see if he can go to the movies but DONT GO ALONE because anything could happen.. so invite a couple friends to go with you so it can be like a group hang out.. hope i helped! <3*Nicole
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I think you should meet and see what he is like in "real life" first. Some people can type a good line but can't necessarily talk to you face to face. Do not meet him alone, take a friend. Meet in a public place where plenty of people are. And don't go anyplace with him alone until you know him better. Same as if you'd met on the net. :)
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WEll You liek a guy more than a friend and you want to knwo i he likes you the way you like him! well i think you should ask him straight forward just be like look " WE have been talking n the phone for a while now and weve gotten to know eatchother alot better now and over the time i have seem to created feelings for you well stronger feelings and i was wondering if you happen to fel the same. It might be kinda hard but i personlally thin that it would be easier that way ... well i hope i helped ohh about the meeting thing im not quite sure meeting someone you have only talked to on the phone kinda freky but its yoiur calL
Amanda
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Okay, I have been in this situation before, just flat out ask him, are you attracted to me or something like do you have feelings for me or just flat out say do you like me or not man.
If you have never seen him before do not going anywhere alone with him. Go in a group or with a friend, just don't go alone
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Okay i have a friend in the same position as you..i will tell you what i had told her..While your talking you can mention something like let's ask each other question's and we both have to answer with the truth.That or you can just come rigth out and ask him if he like's you, and if you wanna see him some where maybe talk to him about it and figure something out but before you do that make sure you completely trust him if it's a guy you've met online.I hope i helped
~SilentTears
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ok this is wat i've done ok when ur talking to him on da phone say"ok you can ask me one question and i'll answer it truthfully and then i get to ask you one if i don't answer truthfully i'll pay you 10 bucks same for you k?" then be that as your question it usually works!
much love
x3 mari
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Im in the same situation tell him you like him. at least that worked for me i finally met him and we have been goin out for 4 months!! Anyway if he doesnt feel the same way u never have to deal with him again!!
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Go to a park or something... that's always a lot of fun.. or get ice cream, and just hang out with him. Maybe say, "So, I've been thinking and I really like hanging out with you because I think you're (then say what you like about him)... and I think I might like you as more than a friend." Say something along those lines. If he likes you as more than a friend, then good for you! But if not, just let him know that he shouldn't let this affect your friendship and that you didn't mean to weird him out or anything.
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You should see this guy first before you make any decisions on whether or not you should ask him if he likes you. If you met him online (which I am assuming so I might be wrong) then be VERY careful when you choose a meeting place. If however you are sure he is not a creepy old man off the internet, then suggest hanging out at the mall or a public place. I definitely do not suggest seeing a movie together because you will not have the chance to talk and get to know each others personality in person. You should ask him very casually if he would like to hang out. When you ask him, do not act nervous or unsure. Act as if it is very normal and not a big deal so it will not be uncomfortable. When you hang out with him it should be easier to tell if you likes you as a friend or as more than a friend. Might we also suggest going on a double date or something along those lines. Tell him to bring a friend and so will you and yall can all hang out together. If yall talk on the phone a lot then you probably already know he is not some creep, but still be careful! Guys can be very tricky! Just try out your luck and remember when you ask him to hang out be very casual and if for some reason he rejects it be ready for it and say something like "Aw that's too bad" then change the subject and start considering finding another potential boyfriend. Goodluck!!
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