hey amanada well i thought u could give me some advice because my parents are spliting up and i dont know which one i should live with dad drinks and mom smokes and do u have any advice how to keep my family together...
dani
WEll dani
My family has split up to woth you know already but i was only like three years old or somethign like that. I dont know who you should live with its your call you should live with whomever you feel more comfortable with and who you think will provide the most care for you . Although you dad drinks and your mom smokes they both love you i think that it would be best to stick with your mom cause smoking has no effects and drinking does and we wouldent want your dads drinking to effect yalls relationship or put it in harm if he goes crazy with it . For me giving you advice on trying to keep them together once things go this far i think theres no stopping it. Everything happens for a reason and this is one of the mighty tough probloms that can happen . Thigs hapen and change is being created. i do know that it is hard for you but eventually they are both going to be really happy or they will go through some troubl e. I do wish you the best and sense your my friend i am always here to comfort you when you need it. WEll call one of us you know what i mean well i love you dani with all my heart im here and i hope i helped love ya much
Amanda***
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I am not sure if this is the correct area but maybe you can steer me the right way. I need to find some type of advocacy program in my area for Women Issues such as being charged with soliciting for the first time. I know there are agencies like that but I am not sure where to go. Any help would be most appricated.
Thank you,
Jennie Stevens
P.S. I am in Ft Wayne IN and also this is someone who REALLY wants to make a change in life. Thanks
I am only thirteen so i am not really sure of what to tell you but i will try to tell you whatever i can . I dont know what to tell you on helping you with finding a place for womans issiues and stuff caus ei personly think that you should find one on your own . Cause i mean its like me telling you a place but what if it doesent fit you every womens issuies place can fit a person and not all do so yea. WEll i am definatly glad that you are ready to change your life around not many people choose to do that theses days!!! WEll maybe on a start with that you could try to forget all the memories or whatever is keeping you here stuck in this spot that is making your life miserable. I usually do that and i breathe and i tell myself its a new start . Well if you hneed more help i am here for you so no worries hope i helped a little bit
Amanda***
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okay so me and my boyfriend where messing around( grinding) so anyways my mom walked upstairs and thought we were having sex she didnt freak out and i said something to her she didnt really respond.i usually just let things go with her like go to sleep or something and then she wont be mad anymore but i dont know???
i need opinions and i will rate high
sry for spelling errors
i tell everyone that they should be straight forward with everyone i know it sounds kinda weired but i th0in kthat they will take it better . I say you sit down with your mom and tell her exactly what happened and what she thought she saw was all wrong . Maybe sheel take it better if you just say hey mom me and you really need to tlak and then go from there. Its cool to speak your mind and you reaslly wouldent want to screw up a good relationship with your mom??? well that my opininon well like i said talk it wil help atleast it should help !!! Try your best and i hope that i helped
Amanda
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ok..when i was little i had cancer and so i had like 6 operations in the same spot. the scar is really really deep about like 2/3 of a cm. and thats deep for a scar! how do i get rid of it???? please help!!!!
Well i think tha tyou have either two options and the closest one youll get to is the cheapest witch is a product as (Scar Reducer ) its supposed to help atleast to minimize the scar or make it smaller les noticable!!! The second choice is get a scar removal by the doctors witch is bacically a lazor that lazos the scar away just like the machines that take away tatoos it wil hurt and probobly take alot of money so i think that your better off with the medicine well anywyas if that doesent work talk to a doctor for more options Hope i helped
Amanda***
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I liked basketball for a long time....but my coach made basketball seem so bad that i dont want to play!! How should i tell my parents i dont want to play it.....
LoL my advice is call xsummer love x3
WEll if you really cant stand basketball that much anymore Do your Parents really care about it That much??? well i think you shoudld be straight forward and tell them exactly what is on your mind tell them why basketball is such a drag and then ask them if yall can work out things . Maybe theyll understand more if you just talk to them straight forward. Well i hope i helpeda lil bit
Amanda***
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okay, ive been going out with my bf for a little over a week and i really like him and stuff. The problem is, i still am in love with my ex. But the thing is, my ex is beginning his first year of high school in the fall and i will be beginning 8th grade. He also lives really far away and his high school is pretty far away too. My current bf is really nice and everything but i still am in love with my ex. When my ex found out about the bf i have now, he got really jealous. I would dump my bf for him in a second, but i dont know if that would be the smart thing to do. What should i do? Please help me!
To me it sounds like you ar estuck in a pretty cruddy situation. Okay hmm Although your ex mens bacically the world to you i think you should stick with the boyfriend you have now for a while i mean things could get better. Your ex is going to highschool wich could change him in many ways . I say you wait and rty new relationships untill you get to highschool cause then you and him can see more of eatchother if you know what i mean. Stick with the boyfriend you have now and i know itll be hard but i think that you should actually talk to both of them if you can and tell them both how you fel cause you cant have someone more hounest than the ppl who love you and you love them Hope i helped
Amanda***
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okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?
ill give every one 5's who trys to help!
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WEll You liek a guy more than a friend and you want to knwo i he likes you the way you like him! well i think you should ask him straight forward just be like look " WE have been talking n the phone for a while now and weve gotten to know eatchother alot better now and over the time i have seem to created feelings for you well stronger feelings and i was wondering if you happen to fel the same. It might be kinda hard but i personlally thin that it would be easier that way ... well i hope i helped ohh about the meeting thing im not quite sure meeting someone you have only talked to on the phone kinda freky but its yoiur calL
Amanda
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I am new here and i have been looking at peoples advice colum and I was wondering how do you get those backgrounds and music on your colum?I alredy have an advice colum:)
I rate 5`s for good help:)
Well to start you could uhmm go to column settings on the side of your screen and itll bring up some weired crap well after you scroll al little bit you can see there sre two links if you read them one will be for color changing on your column adn the other will be for backgrounds !!! well i hope i helped
Amanda***
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I RATE 5s!!!
okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah
and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!!
I am 13 year sold and i play volleyball and i play on a summer team to . My class is like so advanced and yet i feel the exact same way so no stress!!! I think all ew need to do is practice i mean theres nthing wrong with practica and maybe if your stuck on over hand spiking am i right you should practice that more than you do anything else. I feel like the worst player on the team also but all i can do is practice. Well try your best and i hope that i helped
Amanda
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I'm 13 yrs. old....I've never made out with any one.....Well lets cut to the chase I've never had a boyfriend at all....I've had alot of crushes but never an actual boyfriend....is that good or bad?
Ther is so nothign wrong with the fact that you havent had a boyfriend and its not bad that you haevnt made out with anyone either. I am thirteen adn you want to find the perfect guy that will notice things that nonoe else would or even like say thiungs that make you want to scream because they make you fel good. You would want tomake out wiht the persont taht you lve and itll be beautifull knowing that it will replace the horrible memories with beautifull ones hope i helped
Amanda
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i have an eating disorder caused by extreme emetophobia, ive hardly eaten for 3 years. in this time i have only eat my "safe foods" which are tuna paste sandwhichs, toast, breakaways (chocolate buiscuits) and only drink fresh orange juice.
This has caused me to feel ill all the time, i'm always in pain and discomfort and regualry feel light headed and sick.
I know my eating disorder has caused damage to my body and has weakened my teeth and causing me to feel ill but my boyfriend and i are really worried about the long term effects this is doing to my body and if it will have any serious effects?
please reply, thank you
If you are so worried about yourself then why not make a change??I know that it is hard to just aLL OF A souden start to east again but maybe you could set yourself a goal or maybe jsut try doing things little by little. There are going to be Many challenges throughout this obstacle in your life but the best thing you can do is try to overcome it. You say you have aboyfriend if he is always by your side and he is also worrying maybe all he can do is try to help or convince you or somethign that can help you and keep you healthier. This is your choice though but i personaly tink there are healthier ways to keep in shape not just bacically starving yourself to death
Amanda
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I met this guy and hes like everyhting that i want.. But theres a catch He is my best friend and weve had feelings for eatchother sense teh day weve met but hes still going out with other people and i dont know why we cant get together or feel the same way of eatchtoher
Yall will always have feelings for eatchother no matter what and knowing that yall are best friends it ould be a harder relationship anyways, He is going to date otehr people and if you are stuck on him i think you should date other people to . That is okay maybe hes just not ready to date you or just wants to eb friends and let it stay that way. Tell him how you feel about hings sense he is your best friend and all!!! Amanda
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