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i've been playing softball since i was about 4 (T-ball then) and now im 13. i recently tried out for a travel team, but didnt make it. i've always been a great athlete and great softball player. im totally upset i didnt make it. what can i do to make me get over the fact that i didnt make it? .. ps - im gonna go to mostly all the games because my twin sister made it. please help. its kinda stupid but ive always been told not to cry about little things like this :-/ (link)
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There are gonna be more tryouts right? Well, start getting ready now! Watch your sister's softball games and pay attention to the way she plays. Ask her for help with anything you need. After all, she made it right? Is there anything that you are struggling with in particular like batting or fielding? Ask your sister about it, I'm sure she will be more than happy to help you out.
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I RATE 5s!!!
okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah
and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!! (link)
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Hey, I play volleyball too! :) so i went thru the same thing as you are going thru now. Find someone on your team that is good at it and ask them 4 help. but dont ask your teammate that is bossy. she wont help much. another option is: go to your coach and ask her for some help individually or just during practice. I mean, thats what the coach is there for right? to teach you. maybe you and him/her cud set up a time to work on your overhand hits. If you have any more questions, e-mail me at MyGoodies6485@aol.com I will be glad to answer any more questions that you have about volleyball.
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Tonight my guy friend is bringing his friends from another school to this community festival. They are really hot, and I'd like to get to know them. What things should I say or do to get their attention? Should I go with a casual look (jeans and a black cami) or should I wear short shorts with a tight top? (link)
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Well, as far as what to do or say, just act yourself but be flirty. As far as what to wear, it depends on what kind of attention you want. If you want a guy who will respect you for who you are, wear the jeans and the black cami. But, if you are trying to get attention from a guy or any of them at all in a sexual way, wear the short shorts and tight top. I would advise that you wear the casual look though.
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I am 16 years old and have this wanting of sex...My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 3 months now...We have talked about it and both really want to do it. ... But were scared of gettin pregnant...and scared that our parents will find out and we want be able to date each other any more..what do we do?
Signed, Wanting (link)
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Dear Wanting,
If you and your boyfriend have talked about it and really want to do it, then there's no stopping you. My advice is to get tested for STDs first. BOTH of you. Its just safer this way. Although, with a condom there is a chance that you can still get pregnant because nothing is 100% effective. There's always risks with sex but if you are willing to take those risks, then I say go for it. As far as your parents, I would think it would be a better idea to not tell them. They might get a little upset with the whole idea.
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ok i haven't had my period yet but when i feel in my vagina its always wet and stuff wat is that and also sometimes like when i'm watching people makeout or reading about stuff like that my bagina feels all tingly wat is this
PLEEZ HELP i'll rate 5's for a any answer! (link)
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This is perfectly normal. All it is is discharge. You may be about to begin your period very soon.
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In November, this guy liked me. I liked him too. We didnt become a couple until January. We've been together since the 12th of January, and Ive fallen in love. Hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. But I have a problem. Ive been having some family issues, and i wasnt myself for the past 2 weeks. Its too late. Today was the last day of school, of 6th grade, were going on to middle school, and he doesnt love me as much. Were trying to decide whether to break up or not, but i really dont want to. I love him so much. It will be hard though. Were so young. No one has ever made me feel this way. I miss him so much and have been hysterical all night. I dont know what to do. Someone help me either get over him, make it work, or atleast calm down. Its gonna take more than that though. (link)
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You love him? Are you sure? When you are young, you don't really fall in love, its more of infatuation. You may really like this guy but you most likely dont LOVE him. Don't waste your time with this one guy. You have a long life ahead of you and you will meet new people. Who knows? Maybe in middle school, you will meet someone else that means just as much as this guy means to you right now.
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So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.
I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.
I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?
Thanks so much. (link)
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It sounds like this guy is just a player. I struggled with this same problem too. You just need to tell yourself that the guy that for you is out there and this guy right now is missing out on a great girl. Its time you met different people and if you just act yourself, guys will see you for what you truly are and like you for that and that is what really matters.
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I'm 13 yrs. old....I've never made out with any one.....Well lets cut to the chase I've never had a boyfriend at all....I've had alot of crushes but never an actual boyfriend....is that good or bad? (link)
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I, myself am 13, so I know exactly how you feel. I just got my first boyfriend a week ago and I have never made out with anyone either! Its not bad at all! Don't think that just because you are 13, you need to do all of those things. You will when you are ready. Don't attempt to make it happen. It will eventually. And everyone has crushes and a lot of them. You are definetely not alone, many girls your age haven't done any of those things yet.
What I mean is, its okay that you have never had a boyfriend or made out with one yet. I wasn't meaning that it was okay that you haven't done anything sexual. 13 is pretty young to be doing those things, so I wasn't talking about that.
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