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How do I get over him?
So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.
I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.
I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?
Thanks so much.
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Oh wow, I know how you feel.
Instead of thinking about him constantly, try noticing the other guys. There are guys that actually deserve your attention, guys that WiLL like you. Try going out to the mall or the beach with your friends, and talk to some guys. Flirt like mad, and you`ll get over this guy.
And since none of your friends know, try talking to them about it. They ARE your friends, and they are there for you when you need help and advice... Go to them. =)
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Honestly, the best way to get oveR someone is to find someone new.
ERGO, hit the mall in a mini skiRt.
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try to get interested in another guy i know it sounds wierd but hang out with more guyz and not him and you'll soon start thinking about them! lolz
much love
x3 mari
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aw.
all I can really say is to go out and meet other guys. you will eventually get over him but it doesn't help if you keep talking to him. cause if he's still in your life, he will still always be on your mind. Maybe you should take a break from talking to him until you are completely over him and know you can be just friends again without wanting him! goodluck ♥
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It sounds like this guy is just a player. I struggled with this same problem too. You just need to tell yourself that the guy that for you is out there and this guy right now is missing out on a great girl. Its time you met different people and if you just act yourself, guys will see you for what you truly are and like you for that and that is what really matters.
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Have you dated other guys? I think sometimes you just have to put your mind on someone else before you truly get over someone. Once you have someone else to spend time with and to think about he will just sort of fade away. :)
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