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In November, this guy liked me. I liked him too. We didnt become a couple until January. We've been together since the 12th of January, and Ive fallen in love. Hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. But I have a problem. Ive been having some family issues, and i wasnt myself for the past 2 weeks. Its too late. Today was the last day of school, of 6th grade, were going on to middle school, and he doesnt love me as much. Were trying to decide whether to break up or not, but i really dont want to. I love him so much. It will be hard though. Were so young. No one has ever made me feel this way. I miss him so much and have been hysterical all night. I dont know what to do. Someone help me either get over him, make it work, or atleast calm down. Its gonna take more than that though.
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well your a bit young to really love someone that way, but just tell him why you've been a total bee-otch and he should understand.
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all i have to say is your barely ending elementry school you will get over it soon i promise when you look back at this relationship you will laugh and remember all the goodtimes it brought you but there will be many of those good feeling great memories relationships trust me you have 6 more years of school you will have at least 8 more of these relationships good luck with junior high and high school
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Sounds to me like this Relationship is best at an end.
I mean, HONESTLY... what's the point in a Relationship when only ONE paRtneR holds Romantic feelings foR the otheR?? I hate to tell you this, but I think you should be faiR to YOURSELF by accepting and Respecting his feelings. Then I think you should tRy to gatheR up the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and keep tRuckin' on. Think of it this way: what's the point in giving youR heaRt away to somoene who won't give you theiRs??? 'Love' is RecipRocal, Hun; meaning, it's NOT just one-sided. Relationships RequiRe a 120% effoRt fRom *BOTH* paRtneRs, and without that.. you've got nothing. I wish you all of the best..
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You love him? Are you sure? When you are young, you don't really fall in love, its more of infatuation. You may really like this guy but you most likely dont LOVE him. Don't waste your time with this one guy. You have a long life ahead of you and you will meet new people. Who knows? Maybe in middle school, you will meet someone else that means just as much as this guy means to you right now.
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You need to talk with him and tell him how you're feeling. Let him know about the problems you have had with your family and make sure he knows that HE isn't the problem. You may have treated him differently without even realizing it. Then hopefully you will be better able to decide if you want to continue on as a couple. If he doesn't then go find another boyfriend. That's the easiest way to get over another. :)
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