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what do you think about white nail polish? is it cute, ugly, trashy, anything!! and please hurry!!! easy 5's for fast answers! (link)
hahah i think white nail polish is awesome!! use white out!! it can be for punk or prep!


My grandfather is a very old, sick, frail man. He is 93 years old, a cancer surviver, a husband, a father... He hasn't been doing so good lately. Last week he called the funeral parlour to make arrangements for himself, he told my grandmother what song he wanted to be played at the funeral, where he wanted to be burried, where he wanted the wake to be. I'm really upset, because I love my grandfather dearly, he's such a great man. When my other grandfather died when I was eight, I went to his funeral and I couldn't keep myself together at all, it was so scary for me to be there seeing him in a casket completely lifeless when he used to be this happy man who would joke around with my brother and me when we were younger, who would take us down to the corner store to get candy since my dad wouldn't take us.. I don't want to have to go through that again. I know it's the right thing to pay my respects, but I'm just so scared. How can I get over my fear of going to his funeral? I do want to be there to pay my respects, but I'm so so scared. Can anyone help? (link)
Ok well thimgs might not be as bad as it seems. I am a christian so i believe that THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON AND IT MIGHT SEEM BAD NOW BUT THINGS WILL WORK OUT FOR THE BETTTER!!! Right now spend as much time as you can with him. and when he should die go to the funeral its ok to be upset and scared!! Its a burden everyone has to go thru sometime or other!! just think, your granfather would want you to go to his funeral, and you owe it too him!! it WILL be hard, but YOU CAN DO IT!! I KNO YOU CAN!! and when you are there do yourself a favor and do not look in the casket no matter what!! and do not do anything dramatic to help you get thru the pain!! its perfectly normal to cry anytime you feel sad right now, and do not try and hold it in or you will feel worse. I would suggest writing in a diary! I hope everything works out!! LOVE YOU


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ok i really like this guy. (well call him P) well today we are having a 1rst of july party. i didnt have a clue who my dad was inviting but i was really hoping that he invited his family. but it turns out that its just basically a work party, even though he said its a 'get together'. but i havent seen P in 3 weeks. I really miss him and i think might even love him. what could i do to see him again? besides calling him and feeling like a stalker or IMing him.. any ideas? o and also, my parents dont know i like him. (link)
im sorta in the same situation. yesterday i called my crush stence and told him i liked him it. n it turns out he likes me too, just not enough to go out with yet, but i can handle that. Call him babe!!! Tell him how you feel!!! Hope i helped u!!


okay i have this friend but i like him as more then a friend ...we've never seen each other but we talk on the phone almost every day ...i want to find out if he likes me as just a friend or as more ..how should i ask?? ....o and i want to see him some where do any of you guys have any suggestions?

ill give every one 5's who trys to help!

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Im in the same situation tell him you like him. at least that worked for me i finally met him and we have been goin out for 4 months!! Anyway if he doesnt feel the same way u never have to deal with him again!!


what song has the words:
goodbye is the hardest
thing to sayy . because
you walk away with only
memories ' & memories;
well .. they fade away..

and who is it by?
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All i found was jagged edge-goodbye. I have heard that phrase before too! but, it was in our goodbye video and it was brought up as a quote.


Ok,i have this friend Tina. I know tina id going to become friends with my other friend. I do not want them to be friends but i no they are going to become really close. Tina always puts me in the shadow and she gets all the attension. How can i except that Tina and my friend are going to be come close..and not care? Not feel sad and left out inside? Not feel missing and alone? How can i just be happy with everyone? please help (link)
OMG i have the same exact problem!!! I would confront Tina aout it and tell her that you feel as if you are being replaced by her new friend. And i would try an be friends with the new girl. Who knows you might lover her after all.

Im me on HottChelly128 if u need anything!!


Is it normal to have hair around the nipples on your breasts? Is there any way to get rid of it? (link)
Ya, Its perfectly normal. But, I would not care if i had hair on my nipples. Does it really matter?


this might sound really bad but how do you get a boy to break up with his girlfriend. i like this boy a lot and i really think he would like me if he broke up with this other girl. what can i do to make him break and get him with me? please help!!!!! i rate high for anything! (link)
OMG you are in the same situation as me!!! I still ahve not got any good answers either, but what i am trying to do is say things to him like why does she treat you like poo alll the time?? and You are soooo sweet you deserve someone like... and describe everything about you that he would love without actually coming out saying you like him.

If you need anything else im me on AIM HottChelly128. I hope it works out!!!


Does anyone know any ways to loose weight in 3 days cause o have a dance on friday and its monday night. Any Ideas?
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I would not go on a crash diet first of all. But, you could eat more fruits and veggies instead of regular snacks. Second, I would run around teh block a few times. You might not loose much weight, but probably enough to feel confident about yourself!


Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...

well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!
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I think u should stop cutting PERMADENTLY first of all. And second I think that its cute if you love somebody, but nowadays i would not trust anyone!! But as your question goes I think you should watch this guy Mike and see what he does before you throw your heart out at him. If he is the person you are supposed to be with currently you should be able to see it. But no offence he does not sound like the ONE.


How do you cure bad breath? I brush my teeth twice a day, but I still have really bad breath!!!


Thx!!! I rate high (link)
I use a tongue cleaner.


I'm Eurasian (half Spanish/Portuguese half Chinese) and i LOOOOVE black eyeliner!!! I'm not sure whether I should line both lids or just the top. I like lining because I think it looks better than just the top but my mom thinks I look unfriendly, evil, sallow, like a raccoon (even though I smudge it with a Q-tip and I put it on lightly!) and like I come from a bad family. I'm 14, I have almond-shaped eyes (but I like have the folds over my eyelids), and brown hair. Help!!!! Sorry if this sounds self-centered, but all my friends are away, and I have nobody else to ask!!! sorry that it was so long! :) (link)
I only put eyeliner on my bottom eyelids. If your mom dosent like eyeliner go with a lighter shade, so it is less noticeable. Like medium brown. Hope i helped!!


okay well my best friend is bi. im a girl and i kno i like boys. i was also pretty sure i didnt like girls like that but then it was on my mind a lot. a lot of people at school thought i was bi because my friend snd i are so different but we're really close but not like that. shes never liked me like that. but then i got really confused when i had a dream that she kissed me and i liked it i think but i told her not to kiss me now but later. so now im kinda confused. it bothers me a lot. any helpful thoughts? (link)
I do not think you are bisexual, but you might wanna ask yourself if you are. Do you often think about kissing girls? Do you wanna girlfriend? I probably didnt help, but I hope you kno soon!


ok mi name is blake and mi best friend is mitchell!!!....if ur wondering i am a girl...i love him with all my heart..but as brother....if he died idk wat i wood do hes mi life..it wood jsut come crubling down..ok he went to maryland to visit family and he flew thr..ok..i had a dream last night and i was crien for 2 hours... i was at a funeral and he was dead...i cant get him out of my head!!...wat shood i do to get him out of mi head until i no how he is??? (link)
I would call him if he has a cell phone. If he dosen't then call his parents cell. But, I am almost positive that he is ok. Hope I helped!!




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