okay well my best friend is bi. im a girl and i kno i like boys. i was also pretty sure i didnt like girls like that but then it was on my mind a lot. a lot of people at school thought i was bi because my friend snd i are so different but we're really close but not like that. shes never liked me like that. but then i got really confused when i had a dream that she kissed me and i liked it i think but i told her not to kiss me now but later. so now im kinda confused. it bothers me a lot. any helpful thoughts?
Sometimes (most of the times) dreams don't mean much. But after you remember them, they can screw around with your head. Don't be afraid if you're bisexual or a lesbian or totally straight. You can be either and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
You might be having some different feelings for your bestfriend because you love her so much. I remember myself saying if my bestfriend was a guy, I would so date her. lol. Or you might really be bi. Don't get frustrating about being unsure. You'll find out over time...for now just enjoy the nice feelings you are getting. [ HyperactiveMiss's advice column | Ask HyperactiveMiss A Question ]
HottChelly128 answered Saturday June 18 2005, 9:20 pm: I do not think you are bisexual, but you might wanna ask yourself if you are. Do you often think about kissing girls? Do you wanna girlfriend? I probably didnt help, but I hope you kno soon! [ HottChelly128's advice column | Ask HottChelly128 A Question ]
Razhie answered Saturday June 18 2005, 9:18 pm: This is really confusing for you and scarry. I completely understand, when I was thirteen I had a very similar experience (Turned out that I was definately bi)
But no one can answer that question for you but you. In my opinion, enjoying a kiss with a girl doesn't make you bi, especailly not if its just a dream (I mean, kisses are really nice, period). You are bi if you want a loving sexual relationship with a girl.
Please know that this isn't a question you can answer overnight. It takes a lot of thought and sometimes a lot of time.
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