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Ok I went out with a guy named kasey... and I knew everyone thought he is a bad person.. and He does bad stuff and everthin.. but he really treated me soo good.. Like I was lyin down on a bed.. and he picked me up and was like carryin me.. and I had my legs around his waist.. and my head on his shoulder.. and he just like started dancin with me.. but he was like holden me.. and then he wispered in my ear.. I love you .. and kissed me.. and then I new.. I really loved him (or I thought) and I really thought i did.. and then he broke up with me.. and I was sooo hurtt I cryd and cryd and I couldnt controle myself I was dyin.. and i had started cutting again and I wouldnt stop.. and then the next day he asked me back out.. and I said yes.. and then I looked in his pro and go why am I not in your pro.. and he goes I was jk.. so he was kiddin bout asken me out.. and I was sooo hurt I grabbed a nife and was bout to slit my throat.. but sunday had her bf call the cops on me.. and they came to my house and came in my room and found me holden a nife to my throat...
well here is the problem... I am now in a relation ship with a guy named mike.. and everyone says he is a player.. and has cheated on his gfs alot.. But I really like him.. and I want to believe he wont hurt me and stuff.. Well he is gone for 3 weeks camping with my friends bf.. jimmy.. so me and my friend are goin up to visit them friday.. Im not sure what to do cause I really dont want to get hurt again and I want to give us a try and all.. and I want to believe it will work out.. What do I do HELP!
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wellm you had a rough time lately!!well you shouildnt belive what everyone says...in less you actually thinks hes cheating on you!!!!well you shouildnt worry about..and dont take things to far whena boy breaks up with you...with the cutting thing..you dont ever do that because of a boy...you dont do that period..i no that your hurt really bad and you need someone..and cutttings the first thihng that comes to mind but you shouildnt do it...well whatever you do dont cut or EVER put a nife to your throat..god wanted here for a reason..not for you to slit your throat or cut your self...well about that kasey dude hes a huge jerk ...and he sounds like a trouble maker..so leave him out of your life...wel your new boyfriend...dont blow it because everybody saying crap...you belive what you wanna belive..and if you belive hes chaeting you need to do something about it..well hope i helped...and you go on tht camping trip and have fun!!!!!
love always,
ilovepink101
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ok some relationships are just going to hurt, i mean not all of them are going to end perfectly, and your past experiences need to make you cautious but not paraniod, i'm not saying you are or anything but you need to be careful of who you go out with because you need someone who will really take care of you, i would stick with the guy you have for now but be careful and listen to your friends because they always have good advice, i hope that if this relationship doesnt work out that you find an amazing guy who loves you as much as possible and takes complete care of you, every girl needs a guy like that
good luck
<3 donny
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Ok, YOU NEED TO STOP CUTTING. It is a serious thing. You can get help for it if you can't stop, but you HAVE to stop cutting. You're not only hurting yourself by cutting, but I'm sure you're hurting others too. And why did you say yes to Kasey if he broke up with you before? And now you're going put with Mike. Hun, you've gotta stop going out with guys that are players. I really think that you should either not date for a little while or date a guy who you know is nie and caring. And if you must date players, then don't date at all for a little while. I have nothing against Mike, but looking back on your reaction to the last guy that broke your heart, I would get out of the relationship. What if you weren't stopped this time and actually did kill yourself? I would have to say not to continue in that relationship and to lay off relationships if you can for a while and stop cutting too. I really hope I helped and that you will stop cutting. You have no idea how happy I'd be if you told me you'd stop cutting. I hope you follow my advice too.
Luv, IceAngel13
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okay.. well your obviously not very independant.. you cant rely on a guy for your happiness.. itll only make you do things you will regret later, or in your case..you wont have time to regret because well.. you could KILL yourself. Relationships seem like theyre WAY to much for you to handle right now. Unless you want to end up in a psychiactric (spelling??) facility or DEAD you need to get out of the relationship and change your outlook on life. Its the best way to get your life back on track.
hope i helped.
Ami*
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I think u should stop cutting PERMADENTLY first of all. And second I think that its cute if you love somebody, but nowadays i would not trust anyone!! But as your question goes I think you should watch this guy Mike and see what he does before you throw your heart out at him. If he is the person you are supposed to be with currently you should be able to see it. But no offence he does not sound like the ONE.
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"almost everyone is going to hurt you. you just have to decide whos worth it." you should give him a chance but he is likely to hurt you if hes hurt other girls. seems like you've had quite some drama with guys. im really sorry about that. try to work it out with this guy but if it doesnt then dont sweat it.
good luck!
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