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OK. I have this guy friend I like. Let's name him David. And I have this friend. Let's name her Nina. OK. So I like David a lot. But he's 17 and I'm 13 (turning 14 really really soon), and Nina is 13 too (she turns 14 in July, a little bit before me). So today David told me to give Nina his phone number b/c he is too shy to go up to her himself, but I don't want to b/c I'm a little bit jealous. Does that make me a bad friend? What should I do?
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i think you should be a good friend and give it to her even though he is to old for you or her but that is ok.
hope i helped
rkgurl13
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no, that does not make you a bad friend, its just common jealousy. and you should give her the phone number. not giving her the phone number would make you a bad friend.
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It doesn't make you a bad friend. It's only natural to be jealous, but the best thing to do is to just give her his number. It'll suck, but it's the right thing to do. If you didn't, he would find out eventually and then they'd both probably get mad at you and it would just turn out really bad. Hope I helped.
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Honestly I think this guy is too old for either of you to be messing with. I know he may seem like a great guy and all right now, but having a relationship with an 18 year old (he'll be 18 soon) is not only inappropriate but it is also illegal! You should both try focusing on guys who are closer to your age.
X0C0URT
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give her his fone number but since you like him too talk to her about it. she'll understand if shes a true friend.
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Hey there, I know your prbaly upset about it but give it to her if you know she is NOT into him!! If you known this friend for a long time know & you dont really know "DAVID" then dont risk your friendship for a guy!hope i was a help ... need nething else just ask me!
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It doesn't make you a bad friend -- it makes you totally normal to feel like that. You really like him, and he's showing interest in your friend. Who wouldn't be jealous?!
But you've got to put this all in perspective. She's your friend. He's your crush. What's more important to you? In your situation, as hard it may be, you should probably give her the number. I just don't think a guy is worth risking a friendship over, and he also might get mad at you if you don't. She might not even like him that way. And if she knows you like him, well, I'm sure she'll respect your feelings and not call him.
Of course, it's really up to you. That's just what I'd do. And it's not easy, trust me there.
Good luck.
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SOrry, david probably doesnt want to go out with people that are as immature as you. TOo big an age difference.
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In under a year he will be a pedophile, his number will change and the only number you will be able to give her then is a cell number after someone catches him having sex with your friend.
Ugh, goddamn. How do you kids function?
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well does she know you like him? and yes you should give him the number and if shes a real friend she'll talk this out with you and be understanding about the situation you in. hope i helped! <3*Nicole
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Its natrual to be jelous youcant hold it back! so no your not a bad friend.....as hard as it may be you should give her the #.....isnt he a lil old tho?
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