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well at a family reunion i got to see my cousins that i havent seen in a long time. well i got to know a male cousin of mine and we became good friends. but the whole reunion i mostly hung out with this cousin and another female cousin and we been kinda tight. well i dont get to see this cousin very often because he lives in a different state. and so whenever i see him at church its kind of a surprise and i go talk to him. but i think i like him and it's weird and i cant help it. even though he's adopted into the family hes not really a relative and its not like hes my 1st 2nd or 3rd cousin. hes a little out there but hes still my cousin. and i dont want to seem nasty or anything but what should i do. because i think its kind of gross that im starting to like him. and i dont want this to go anywhere
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This is a tough situation. Although you two aren't closely related, technically you are still cousins. I'm not sure about all the incest laws and everything but if your relationship ever turned into something serious, you could both get in a lot of trouble. Since you don't seem him much anyway, maybe it's best to just be friends with him and focus on guys who live closer (not to mention outside your family!) I'm glad you are concerned and don't want it to go anywhere because any kind of relationship would obviously be inappropriate. Hope you can get this figured out.
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its fiiiiiine, i fancied my cousin too, but he lived at other end of country.
i reckon its cos everyone says cousins arent that close and you can go out legally with a cousin contradicting the fact that you know really he is yur family.
when you get close to your cousin you start to like em, then go off em quite quickly, its really strange, but jus think about how your family would feel about it? are they the type to be cool about it, or would they hit the roof? you dont see him too often you said, so if you did go out would it make a good relationship?
jus have some fun while your young, confide in your friends and you'll find out jus how often this happens but no one really talks about it.
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heyy .. umm dont worry about it stuff like this happens alot and just i think after a while you will forget about him because he lives far away and meet a new guy and your not really cousins so its not gross or bad
hope i helped
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ok.. well so you think you maybe like your cousin, try not to think about it, and when your with him you can still hang out and be friends but i know you may not want to like date him because hes your cousin, i understand but just, see where it goes like i dont mean like how far with you and your cousin but like kind of, in life and when your around him, see where it goes and dont jump to any conclusions.. you may find out that it was just like a little temporary crush and nothing to get worked up over.. hope i helped!<3*Nicole
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Don't worry about it. :DIt's natural. I found out after I had been going with my boyfriend for a couple months that we were distantly related. But it was far so it didn't really matter. No one thought anything of it. It turned out my grandmother and his grandmother were first cousins or something..Either way it's too much trouble to figure out so it wasn't close.
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First and forepost, you don't need to get hung up over this. It's not "gross" at all. You cannot control your feelings. Like you said, you're distant cousins - so it's really not that bad. But I can understand that you don't want to feel like this about him or pursue anything with it. Just don't feel like there's something wrong with feeling that way because there isn't.
I think after a while you'll forget about him if you're both in different states. When we don't see someone for a while, we start to forget about them.. like the old quote "out of sight, out of mind" I think this is just a simple attraction because you got on really well. I think you should concentrate on someone else though and after a while your crush for him will fade away. Give it a little time. I almost guarantee you won't like him like this in a few weeks!
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