Please rate me! i like dealing with problems, one because im training to be a counsellor, and this can only help me, and two because i was my friend groups *agony aunt* when we were little girls and guys.
so talk to me, any question i'll try to help, tryin to find a photo of me thats under 15k, lol.
bexi xox
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Age: 18
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i see someone already asked a name question
but you see i am having a baby girl and need a cute name but something beautiful at the same time! any ideas? (link)
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Selphie!!! its the best name in the world i think, so cute and bubbly sounding! :)
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ok, so i like this guy a lot, but he liked this girl who is really nice, fun, and outgoing. but she has a boyfriend, and when i say boy friend i mean head over heels in love and would never cheet on him boyfriend. So, i know he has no chance with her, and he knows it too, so how do i turn it around so he likes me? (link)
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well, you gotta be there for him, and jus be his mate, and let him know that unlike other girls who are always off and inconveniently falling in love, that you will be ther for him.
it means you'll get to be mates a lot more, then you'll have more time to realise if you do really like him and all his annoying little habits.
eventually, being male and therefore a little slow on the hints, he'll probably come to see you being more than a friend, jus make sure you dont jus hold out for him, theres nothing better than a girl having a boyfriend for all the guys youve ever liked to come out of the woodwork and confess their undying love.
bexi xox
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i have been singing since i was able to talk. unfortunately, i live in a place where things like theater and singing arent that important. how would i find a way to get my voice out there to producers? any ideas?
MizzNiceGirl (link)
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well, you can ask and find out from people honestly, if you are any good or not. then you can do things like singing for charity at your local shoppin centre, school, college, etc.
send in tapes to directors, join a singing and acting school, take part in Pop Idol!
there are loads of ways to get out ther, but you need to be really good to get anywhere, if you have the money, you can actually hire a recording studio and make your own professional album, the upsides of this are that they will know you are serious about singing, and also producers and talent scouts often hang around lookin for people.
remember, kate moss was discovered when she was jus sitting in a bus stop!!!!
goodest of luck, bexi xox
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well at a family reunion i got to see my cousins that i havent seen in a long time. well i got to know a male cousin of mine and we became good friends. but the whole reunion i mostly hung out with this cousin and another female cousin and we been kinda tight. well i dont get to see this cousin very often because he lives in a different state. and so whenever i see him at church its kind of a surprise and i go talk to him. but i think i like him and it's weird and i cant help it. even though he's adopted into the family hes not really a relative and its not like hes my 1st 2nd or 3rd cousin. hes a little out there but hes still my cousin. and i dont want to seem nasty or anything but what should i do. because i think its kind of gross that im starting to like him. and i dont want this to go anywhere (link)
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its fiiiiiine, i fancied my cousin too, but he lived at other end of country.
i reckon its cos everyone says cousins arent that close and you can go out legally with a cousin contradicting the fact that you know really he is yur family.
when you get close to your cousin you start to like em, then go off em quite quickly, its really strange, but jus think about how your family would feel about it? are they the type to be cool about it, or would they hit the roof? you dont see him too often you said, so if you did go out would it make a good relationship?
jus have some fun while your young, confide in your friends and you'll find out jus how often this happens but no one really talks about it.
bexi xox
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OK, anytime i watch a movie with any type of making out or with sex scenes, i get really horny. and when i get horny it is normal to masterbate, but i am getting where i masterbate 3-4 times a day. and i like it, but my mother almost keeps walking in on me. is there anything i can do to make myself, "less horny" or something???? i rate high............... (link)
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get a boyfriend/girlfriend!!
i was like this when i was about....15, and it wont hurt ya or make you go blind or makes your hands go hairy or anything, you kinda grow out of it in time, and both men and women in my experience have a "horniness" cycle, where they have sex (or play with selves) constantly for a couple weeks, then thers a sudden drought of longing, very odd, but enjoy it while you can before you get too old to feel anything down there :)
as for your mom, if she walks in on you once, trust me she will NEVER EVER EVER do it again, without knocking first, this is from exp.
heheehehe
bexi xox
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I have writers block, I can't seem to come up with any ideas that will really work. Does anyone know of anything that might help me? (link)
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yup, go out with a camera, jus walk around, get a bus a taxi, and take pictures of remotely interesting things, and people. then develop them go home and try and fit the people to the things, and make up stories for them or to fit in with your story.
alternatively, go to many of the sites online and have a look at other works and writings for inspiration.
start a diary, read a book, ask friends, family, random questions, set them a little exam and see how they answer.
also make sure you got a character plan before you write about them, if you think of someone interestin for your story, write down everything about them, down to their favourite food, where they like to work out, and how they sit/walk/stand. they dont have to be real people, jus someone who pops up in your head, jus make sure once they've intro'd themselves to you, that you find out everything about them.
hope this helps.
bexi xox
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ohk so my mom put on some self-tanning lotion but she was out in da sun now she looks like a carrot ... its looks nice though the problem is that she didnt wash her hands after now they look orangy-brown lol ... anyways any - home remedies or anything she can do to help the color go away faster ? thnx in advance (link)
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ok, ive done this!! except mine was in a spray and i sprayed it, missed and i wondered where it had gone, in the day when i checked my curtains, bright orange where the sun had reacted with it.
man i was in trouble for that... anyways..
washing up liquid, like fairy liquid, i found that worked a treat, jus scrub it in, leave it, and rinse, should be fine, also, those lotions with little sand bits in. thing is when you put fake tan on, and you go out in the sun, because your skin is darker, it gets tanned quicker, so your moms skin isnt gonna go back to before, she probably has quite a deep tan naturally by now.
but reemmber, washing up liquid!!!
bexi xox
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I always feel as though when I talk to people I bore them or like burden them.. I feel as though everyone wishes I wouldnt be here or something.. I mean nobody really cares about me! Sometimes I feel really like i dont even speak the same language or something.. My life isnt going anywhere! I feel as though i am always doing things wrong and whats the point of even trying.. All the hope and wishes (i dont believe in anymore). there isnt any point.. I might be depressed I dont know but.. I cant seem to get this feeling to leave me.. How can I feel better? Is there any solution or anything? (link)
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yep, ive felt this way asell, you dont say whether you have many friends or not, so im assuming you have a couple.
being detached from everyone is usually a sign of depression, but before you go to the docs for a lifetime of anti depressants, try figure out why.
you got a job, college, school going well?
you need to talk to your closest friends or your family and try to socialise yourself more, trust me, i know its hard i been bad where i couldnt leave the house cos i thought i was so ugly, but if ya dont do it now you never will.
also, its jus a part of gettin older, when your five, you dream of gettin maybe gettin a ten for your birthday, then you get older and realise that kinda money wouldnt even get you a taxi to the end of the road.
personally i reckon you need to reassess everything you think you need, get rid of everything that gives you bad memories, or what doesnt apply to you anymore, and start again.
hope it helps
bexi xox
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about for how long do henna tattoo's stay on for ? anything besides not taking a shower that mite make them stay on longer ? thnx mucho (link)
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depends on the quality i guess. if you have those little do it yourself henna kits, usually a couple of days to a week, if you go to a proper salon, and they give you the lotion and you let it dry properly, then it lasts a couple of weeks. gets a bit tatty after a week though, so you might not want to keep it all that long after bits start fading.
bexi xox
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