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sisterly love
my sister and i do not get along, does she hate me?
i was playing the sims 2 downstairs. and i used her eyeliner. so she somehow got into my room. and saw HER eyeliner. she comes downstairs. with a prissy attitude. and starts SCREAMING at me! for NO REASON I JUST USED HER EYELINER! so i say "say it nicely or i wont talk" she says it nicely but not meaning it nicely.. so she slaps me with all her might!
that was about 1 day ago.. and i still see the hand mark (she does karaty, sself defence, softball etc) and i think i have anger-managements and i start thorwing shit around like i broke my moms keyboard holder (but i fixed it) i broke the lamp but i fixed it and i broke everything there like my little sisters toys... well my oldd ones and now my little sisters..
do you think my sister hates me?
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no your sister doesnt hate you. its like that with mostly all siblings.. they need there privacy and when you take something without asking or telling them they may get mad or annoyed!! she doesnt hate you so dont think that.. although it could be that time of the month ;) xox rachh
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no. your sister doesnt hate you. she may just be a little annoyed that you sort of invaded her privacy and took something without asking. it's just a sisterly love kind of thing. =] dont sweat it!
[ or she could just have PMS ;-p ]
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hey im sorry about whats going on in your house i understand about everything and i understnda about the eye liner! but she slaped you!!! wow im sorry to hear that! but i dont think she hates you its just your sisters and everyone fights but to have her leave you alone try to not use anything thats her and just dont try to leave her alone and maybe things will go good hope i helped,
<3sunny411 goodluck
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"..so she slaps me with all her might!"
WOW!! My jaw hit the floor there!! Completely shocking!! I'm sorrie this is going on. Home is supposed to be a comfortable and safe haven, not a battlefield.
I understand you simply used her eyeliner, but you said "for NO REASON". To *ME.. that's a good reason for her to be upset. Maybe she wouldn't have cared if you used her eyeliner.. had you ASKED HER FIRST. I think it's just a matter of respect. Bottom line: you should have asked her before taking and using her stuff; it's the right thing to do. Consider this a reminder for next time.
While we're on the subject of respect, I think she was COMPLETELY out of line to slap you as she did, but in all fairness, I see why she would be mad. Though I see her point, she definitely overreacted.
I'm very surprised and impressed that you managed to remain calm for a bit. "say it nicely or i wont talk" - a good approach.
To answer your question, I wouldn't assume your sister "hates" you. I don't even think you should be thinking such a thing. That's just an awful thought, and I'm shore it holds no truth to it at all. Truth is, siblings fight; some more severe than others, but it's a common occurrance. She may get a little angry or even A LOT angry, but I don't believe that's enough to diminish love, Hun. It takes much much more than that to destroy something as powerful as love.
Just remain mature when these fights errupt. It may not be as satisfying as flinging large objects at her across the living room, but ignoring it is really the proper way to go about this. Fighting only increases anger and upsets yourself more than you need to be. If nothing else, you'll be setting an example for her. Perhaps one day she'll pick up on it. :]
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