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hi i'm 15,male,ohio and there is this girl that i like but shes really popular and i'm not i'm hated by everyone popular and i'm not sure if she hates me and i'd really like to get to know her shes gave me her number but never sits by me on the bus and jus says hi.
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Let her get to know you. Just because she gave you her number that doesn't mean she's going to jump right in to sitting next to you on the bus and talking to you all the time. Just call her and yall can get to know each other even more. Then, see where it goes from there.
~Kristy~
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Well first of all, obviously she doesn't "hate" you if she gave her number, right? So to find out who she likes -- you have her number, call her. First try asking her about homework or something and then slowly changing the subject maybe to idk, music, fav. foods, fav. stores even? I don't know... just get to know her, and if she's talking to you, obviously she doesn't hate you. It doesn't matter if someone's popular, you should like someone for them, popular or not. I hope I helped!
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MELii
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There's only one way to find out if she likes you. You have her number - so go ahead and call her up. Maybe just ask her a question about homework or something since you go to the same school. She probably doesn't "hate" you, seeing as she gave you her phone number. Maybe she's shy and doesn't like to make the first move. And who cares about your popularity verus hers and vice versa? When two people like eachother it doesn't matter what their "popularity" level is. Go for it!
♥ Rachel
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If this girl gave you her number, then she obviously doesn't "hate" you, right? And as far as the whole "populatiry" thing - that shouldn't enter into this whatsoever!! If this girl really likes you, then she would gladdly risk her "popularity" for a shot of being with you. If you should unfortunately come to find that she's embarrassed of you, then you know she's not worth a single second of your time, tears, or effort! However, there's only one way to find out her true intentions, and that's to call her, so go get 'em, Tiger!! ;D
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Maybe she's ashamed to be seen with someone her friends hate ( no offense, im not exactly LIKED eitehr ), or maybe i'm watching too much Oprah? But I would call her, set the fact straight and if she likes you, get to know each other. Hope this helped.
*~Alexia~*
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whoa i think i know who this is... what hs do you go to? okkk about the "popular" people hating you, so what? a lot of ppl dont like the "geeks" that ive been with but as long as theyre nice and talk to me (yes, talking is gooood!!) i like them no matter what they all say. you should call her sometime and really get to know her. good luck! <3
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Well if she gave you her number then isn't that a good sign?
Okay, so she doesn't sit near you but she says hi to you. Next time she says hi, why not start a conversation with her? Ask her if she's had a good day/weekend/holiday/whatever.
If that's not possible then call her. She gave you her number, she wants you to call her. Girls don't give out their number to people they hate.
Call her, speak to her, you have nothing to lose.
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Shes proubally afraid that if she wer to talk 2 you or go out wit you in public it would ruien her repretation... and i know as well as anyone else it is hard 2 become pouplar and once you loose that rep. its hard 2 get it bak.... But if she likes you that much she will risk that chance... or you can change..
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Well... she DID give you her number!! Why don't you strike up casual conversations with her? And you sit by her on the bus. Maybe she's too shy to make that move. It's good that she says 'Hi' - she probably wants to talk to you. You could always call her around 8:00 PM. That way she will probably be done with homework, and have eaten supper, and it's really too dark to do anything outdoors. Try to get her AIM SN and E-mail address so you can get to know her via the web too. It really sounds like she wants to get to know you, but doesn't know how. Take that step and make the first move. Sometimes even the most outgoing girls are afraid to make the first step in a relationship. You can do it - be a man. Hehe. :-D
-FunnyCide
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If she gave you her number then i think it means something.. i would call her and see whats up don't be shy.. she's probably waitin for your phone call and she probably wont sit by you cause you havent called her.. ♥ Dez
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Well.... hello??? She has given you her number so she opbviously wants to talk to you. Call her up. She might not sit with you cause she's with someone else and says hi to you thinkin maybe you'll say something back. So just get to it and call her. She wouldn't of given it to you if she didnt want ya to. think about it....
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maybe she likes you but doesnt really want everyone to know..like she'll become less popular..well since you have your number then call her and just talk to her..
sorry for the stupid answer
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For a start, sod the "popular" people. I have a good friend who's hated by just about everyone whereas I happen to think they're prety damn cool. Secondly, if she's given you her number chances are she is/was expecting you to do something with it-call her or text her, just a friendly message.
I imagine she's a bit unsure as to why you haven't and so probably doesn't really know what to say hence only saying "hi".
Just contact her. The worst that can happen is that you don't get on.
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try calling her....its better if you call her when her friends might not be around... then just say you were board and you wanted to talk 2 her. start out with a simple question about her..soon you might get to no eachother... sometimes me and a guy i no, online we ask random questions.... jsut like... whats your favorite candy...whats your favorite ccolor.. soon you might have stuff in common. also if she dousnt want to tlk to you cuzz her firends dont like you then you shouldnt like her... just because she is told what to like or not and goes with her friends shows that she duzznt care at all what she thinks... but on the other side if she does ignore her frends its a thumbs up!
GOod luck! hope i helped : ^ )
~!__alexandra!
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well at least she knows ur there! you have her number give her a call sometime! if you have aim or something like that and she dose to just ask for her screen name. or just get into a convo with her. hope i helped and good luck!
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