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well i was walking down the hall during 6th period to get a drink and i saw some people who i thought were my friends. well any way i said "hey whats up?" to them and the one girl kept talking to the other and so i left those two people and i walked away. Then when i was walking back from the drinking foutian all of a sudden they said hi to me i am like hi and walked away. now i am only good for them to say hi to me when they are directly looking at me. i mean like "HELLO??? ANYBODY HOME????" i mean what losers if it was strawberry or edna then they would say hi but for me or you they don't

Signed Sleeping Nature and Boney S.
^^This has to do with you too so i don't konw if you will be able to answer it^^

My Advice ~ Sleeping Nature ive told you this before SCREW THEM!!!!! they dont give a crap about us so why should we care about them? exactly WE SHOULDNT! we have done everything we can so now its up to them if they wanna be friends

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ok....i need you help on a few things...at my school theres a group of popular kids and their in my lunch period...and i sit with them..but i dont know if they like me becuase im not "popular" i have alot of fiends and is friends with 4 out of the 5 popular girls but the "leader" as some people call her...i dont think she likes me and i want her to like me but beucase im not popular she doesnt talk to me...im not a geek im just not extremely popular...how can i show the girl that i want to be friends with her without sounding obsessed??

My Advice ~ okay first of all why is everyone so obsessed with being popular...WHY DO YOU GIVE A SHIT!? but to answer your question if you think shes really worth being your friend then just talk to her alot but im just letting you know i got myself into the same problem, wanting people to like me but their not my true friends like i thought they were to just think it over if its really worth being popular and having fake friends

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ok i like this guy but he sorta likes me what should i do i REALLy like him and i wanna go out with him but i dont no all he wants out of girlz is a good lay should i go for it?? HeLp Me!!

My Advice ~ sorry it took me so long to answer this...but i would say go for it if he kinda likes you and you like him then sure why not!?! lemme know how it goes :)


Bree

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ok....im in seventh grade and theres this guy in my english class his name is brett..i really like him and we firt all the time...and the other day him and another guy came up to me and asked me if i wanted to be there partners i said yes becasue i like brett alot and i like the other guy just a little...anyways....they were trying to guess who i liked and i didnt want to say it becuase he was there so i told him he was in this class...he has 5 letters in his name and so on...so the other guy said "i know, you like brett" i just smiled and said no...and he smiled and moved next to me...i want to ask him out but isnt the guy suposed to ask out the girl??


i know this is long but i really like him...please help me

My Advice ~ okay since i know who this is so i know what your talking about...i say you ask his friend who he likes and if hes kinda shaky and stuff you know he might like you...i would keep talking to him and soon he'll figure out you like him and he might start to like you...when that happens and if it does ask him out...the worse thing that could happen is he says no and i mean that cant stop you from loving him so take a risk...lemme know how it goes ;-)

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this is the thrid time im writing back, the one about how me and the 8th grader sometimes makeout and now the brother asks me out but when i werote back the second time i meant to say i told him im not comfortable...i forgot to type NOT secondly why did you type xoxo that means hugs and kisses and lastly, i need advice i found the 8th grader cheating on me should i just break up with him or talk to him first??

My Advice ~ i understood what you meant about you not being comfortable and talking to him, and i dont know why i did the xoxo thing i just felt like it anyways if you saw the 8th grader cheating on you i would talk to him first and ask him why he did that...and if he doesnt give you a clear reason why then i would break up...lemme know how it goes

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im writing back, i was the one that wrote about me and the 8th grader that sometimes makeout when are parents go out and im unsure if i should keep doing it. The advice definitley worked i told him i was comfortable go any further he understanded and our relationship is going great thanks...but i have a problem his brother asked me out what should i do????

My Advice ~ Great! Im so glad I could help...now about his brother i think he just might be jealous that you like his brother...tell him that you like his brother but if you like the 7th grader more then go out with him i have a feeling that he is jealous, sit down and talk to him. lemme know how it goes:)


.*.Bridgett.*.

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Dear Bridgett,
You may know, but i dont know. So anyways I know this boy who i used to like but i dont anymore, but he has a mad crush on me and i hate it! He gave me a ring , a secret note, and a rock that says my name on it! I HATE IT!! It is so annoying when he is like I know you dont like me anymore but i like you, and i say i dont like you anymore so stop trying. Many times he doesn and i hate it! I need advice before i punch this kid in the face!!HELP HE IS ANNOYING ME!!!!

My Advice ~ i dont know who this is but anyway, if i was you i would just ignore him, walk away when he comes up to you, if he is your friend talk to him and let him know its annoying and it might ruin your friendship...if he gives you anything else just say "No Thank You" and walk away. lemme know how it goes :)

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There is this girl that when im with her i wish she was mine.But im afraid that if i tell her things will get aucword between us and i really dont want that.i really need help on this its killing me.

My Advice ~ I think if you really like this girl and shes your freind you should let her know how you feel, maybe she feels the same way about you...Its probably going to feel awkard when you tell her how you feel because you dont want her to look at you differently, but the worse thing that could happen is you guys are just friends...Hope that helps! lemme know how it goes:)

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okay theres this guy in 8th grade and im in 7th grade me and him and his brother who is also in 7th grade hangout alot....useually when i parent go out..an we play this game were all the lights are off and you hide well me and the 8th grader like eachother and he always kisses me and we makeout but im not sure if its right i mean im only in 7th grade but we dont have sex we just kiss and stuff.....help im unsure


My Advice ~ I think the reason your unsure if this is okay is because the parents arent home. I think its fine that you two like eachother and you kiss but just make sure nothing else happens, you probably know that guys mostly thinking about having sex...so you have to make sure that it doesnt go that far with you and him. If he ever gets to close or your starting to feel uncomfortable let him know i'm sure that if you guys are good friends he'll understand that your still young and arent ready to get to serious. Hope that helps, lemme know how it goes:)

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u didn`t answer my question earlier-i asked if you love me because i love you

who is this????

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anyways me and my friend snuck on this girls sn for AOL and we are kinda of in a pickle. My name is Maggie and my friends name is Lila and anywho we snuck on this girls sn whos name is Gabbie and well i told her because i no lieing he freakin bad, so i need your help and she said she was going to hurt me and me and lelila(sorry) run away and she punched her fist against her palm and if u say sit down and talk with her i dont think that is going to help .. SO PLEASE HELP I AM 10 GOING ROGERS AND I NEED HELP.


My Advice ~ okay since i know *who* this is...and i know who *lila* is...u guys gotta stop going on other's ppl's sns...but for now i would just avoid gabbie if she comes by you just walk away and i have a feeling shes really not gonna hurt you 2 especially in school cause there are a million teachers around...lemme know how it goes:)

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One day was walking through the halls and ooo i saw my secret crush! :) yes i was very happy but also nervous..i didnt think they ever liked me but they started approaching me. BIG square glasses high socks and a long skirt..i never thought he liked a person like that but anyway he walks up to me and says "hey sexxy i luv ur skirt" no im kidding he actually said " is this ur pencil i found it on the ground then he placed it in my hand" ooo (faint) ill never wash this hand again! but anyway he likes this other girl who flirts with him all the time n i want him soo bad what should i do? consider a makeover? or no? **PLease HelP me**

My Advice ~ Okay first of all since i know who u are lol if you ever change the way you look to be like that girl u describe i will (faint) lol but i think you should really talk to him more like if hes in your classes or lunch and let him get to know you if he knows what a great person you are most likely you'll have a chance

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i love you do you love me????????

umm...who is this?

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Okayy well theres this girl and shes relaly pretty and popular but im not..so i dont get jealous but sometimes i get a lil pissed b/c all the guys like her and shes a slut..but idk this girl cam up to me one day and called me a "ritch bitch" n i was like em u "poor horror" but i didnt mean to be rude but she like insulted me first! then i apoligized n said she wasnt poor ((because she's a slut)) but now she talks to me alot? should i trust her? should i become her friend?
**~Jess's friend alexis~**

My Advice ~ Okay i know if i was u i wouldnt consider her my friend right away b/c i mean she called u a rich bitch and i know if someone called me that i wouldnt exactly consider them my friend but if u talk to her when she talks to u and she seems like a nice person sure why not? but just be careful becoming friends with someone like that is a little risky to me (gone thru this before lol)

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Well there is this girl and her name is Leandrea. She saw that i was wearing a really cool shirt and she asked if she could borrow it. I said yes and i has been 2 weeks and everytime i walk by her she runs away and leaves me and doesnt mention anything about the shirt. WHAT SHOULD I DO TOOTS?
My friend NEEDHELP AOL u and said the advice worked and i need your help|
Sign: ShirtGone

My Advice ~ if you want your shirt back u need to sit this girl down and tell her u would really like ur shirt and why...i think the reason shes running away from u is b/c ur shirt might be damaged or ruined somehow but find out and lemme know how it goes!

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well like this one kid from back in 6th grade....now (in 7th) but hes in none of my classes but theres this other cutie but i realllllllly like this other kid but i need to talk....how......WERES THE LUV???...lol

My Advice ~ well im not exactly sure what the question is but if its how do i talk to this kid...i would start by just saying hi to him and telling him how you feel now i know it seem weird but whats there to lose? lemme know how it goes!

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theres this friend she has brown hair with blonde highlights and her name is bridgett one day in english she made me feel bad by calling me ugly and saying i was adopted i cried all night..well not really...lol...

love, mary

My Advice ~ well mary i think your exacterating and you should- haha im just kidding lol that was 2 funny!

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My friend thinks she is so popular and she thinks she smells good and buys this beatiful perfume. She acts stupid and trys to act cool but either she will get yelled at by the cool kids or i will pull her away. Today she called me a unpopular jerk what do i do??????
Signed: NeedHElp

My Advice ~ i think you should sit down and talk with your friend and tell her that popularity isent everything and if shes a good person she should be able to make friends and be noticed without being stuck up or a popular "wannabe" and i would stop pulling her away from the "cool kids" and just walk away, let her do what she wants and when shes ready to act normal and be a good friend to you thats when its okay to talk to her about how you feel. lemme know how it goes!

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I decided to write u lovely bridgett a *fake* message so u can work on ur advice skills!! just for starts..well this one may be true im sending u 2 so u gotta decide which ones true! lol okay Well i like this guy his names dan, but i like another guy his names zach but one goes to our school and one dosent..but i like both but one talks to me more b/c we are in the same school but they're both hot and there both nice and dnas coming back but then everyone will like him soo idk what to do got any ADVICE SLICk?

My Advice ~ i think you should try it out with zach since dan isent at our school so you dont really see him as often as you see zach, but if you really like dan you would need to have a strong relationship w/ him (communication is the KEY lol) until next year when he comes back *hOpE iT hElPs!*

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