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heyy its me again the gurl who doesnt no that boy ya well i didnt reali talk to him yet cuz he doesnt have a sn or like idn his # but when my friend from rogers comes over i mite call him thanxs alot!
Answer~Thanks for writing back! I like to hear how my advice went! Well if you have any more questions. . .Just ask them!!
ok well i realy like this guy and he was on football when i was doin cheerleadin but we never realy talked well we never talked we dont even no eachother but i realy like him and we dont go to the same school but i asked my friends to ask him questions for me and they do but he didnt say anything about not likeing me but he just broke up with his girlfriend ( who is realy ugly i mean it ) and he say no to my friends at his school that ask him questionsa what should i do ??? please help me ( were going to the same skool next year )if that helps!!!
i realy need help
My Answer**Well i don't really understand if you and i will go to the same school next year or you and him will go to school next year. . .well anywho why don't you try to talk to him or get his SN if he has one and start off there. then try talking to him in person. . . or you might want to wait if he goes to your school next year. The best true love (atleast i think anyway) is love at first sight. . . so you just might want to wait until next year so you can start off fresh. Maybe he'll be in some of your classes ( if you are in sixth grade now) because you don't have the same classes with the same people. . .you might have people that are in a couple of your classes or maybe in all of them but if you are on two different teams then you might have him in one of your other classes that you don't have all of the people from you team on . . .For example if you are on Emerald and he might be on Opal then he might be in your Home Ec. class or in you Tech class ect. . . Write back and lemme know how it goes!!
hi umm my frined is mad at me because she thinks i dont act like myself in front of her and this girl ashlee and i dont act like myself because ever since ashlee came in courtneys been inoyering me and i dont under stand i just trie to be her friend and she doesnt take me for i think she said is because i dont act like myself but i cant because i dont think she will acept me for who iam well i realy need help on this one pleasee help me please
My Answer**Well I think that you should act youself around everybody. Everybody is special in their own ways. Maybe your friend doesn't know you enough to kow how you really act. I don't know who wrote this and maybe the way you are acting in front of ashlee is the way you want to impress her or its just the way you are around her and can't help yourself. When i am around some friends or at someone elses house that i don't know very well i act the way that my friend kniws me as. But when i am arounf my really close friends or at my house i act crazy or caotic because i just want to have a good time! Maybe that is the reason why you act the way you are acting around Ashlee. Tell yor friend that you can act the way you want to act. . .**Just remember don't let anyone control you, you are your own controller** Write back and lemme know how it goes!!
sry if it is long...my two bff from rogers are startin to ignor me and i dont know y.they keep hangin out wid a bunch of gurls from iriqious and i get left out i always feel so sad i asked them if they were mad at me and they said no and so now i try to hang wid them but it always ends up them hagin wid the otha gurls.And now i am tryin to be friends wid there friends (your friends 2) but there friends are not aceptin me
lulas kelsey r.
my advice~well try hanging out with you r firends form rogers. . .for example a sleepover or just inviting them over to your house. . .and then ask them why they ignor you. Believe me, my that hang out with your friends ignor me too and that makes me mad because i say hi to them in the hall and sometimes they don't even look at me. . . but i know how you feel and this has happened to me many times before (with that group of friends) and i just talk to my other friends that i can trust. . . (you know that you can trust me, Kelsey) and tell them how i feel about my other friends and i ignor my friends that i am mad at because they are ignoring me. But i think(keyword, Think)i know who you are talking about, but they are really nice and try to stay friemds with them because you don't want to ruin a relationship with some group of girls that still talk to you. If you need me for any adivce or just to talk to just IM me or call my cell(you know it,i think) or just talk to me in school. well LYLAS!
~Molly
P.S. sorry this is soooo late my computer was broken for a little while!
ok...well i have 2 best friends and it always seems like they r doin stuff together without me and then keep talkin and talking about it in front of me and i feel really left out and i try to talk to them and then they stop for a little while but then start doing it again i dont mind if they hang out but i hate when they talk about it front of me even when i ask them to stop so then i start feeling jealous cuz one of them was my best friend first and then the other one came into the picture and so i feel like i wanna make one of them feel left out even tho thats really mean so i always try to invite one over with out the other and talk about it in front of the other person even tho thats mean but i cant stop cuz i feel so sad PLEASE HELP!!!
Left in the cold dark corner
My Advice**Well if you feel that you are being left out then try to hang out with them more often. And if that doesn't work then tell them that you are feeling left out then talk to them and tell them how you feel. then hopefully that will work because you have told them how you feel about them hanging out too much and not including you. So then your friends will know how you feel and mostlikley they will feel sorry for you, and if they don't you could do two things:
1)Try again!(and hope it works out
repeat, repeat and repeat!)
and then ask yourself
2)Are they the friends that you want to
have?
(If I were you I would recomend number 1)
Write back and let me know how it goes!
heyy its the gurl whos thing was really long n' i was mad dat mi bff was start hagin out with mi good friend from rogers well this is really long agin i need serious help mi bff from rogers again is mad at mi and i dont no y i really need ur advice now but she has another friend ova named abi n' she hates me 2 but i dn why plezz help mi
My Advice**Well you should try to make friedns with Abi,but be nice to Abi even if she doesn't like you and try to get to know her and maybe you could be friends!But I think that you should talk to your friend and just have it be you and her and then maybe she won't be mad at you. Just be nice to you friend and Abi and maybe you all could be friends.By the way how is it between you and your bestfriend that started hanging out with you best friend from Rogers?? But like i said in my advice before you can't control who is friends with who but as long as you are bieng a nice person then i think that you are a good person.
i really wanted to make the basketball team...your teacher is a mean mean mean mean mean guy! this is your bestest friend...bridgett
My advice** (well not really) well i can't control who Mr.********* picks but i am really sorry that you didn't make the team and i feel really bad. I really wanted you to make the team but like i said before i can't control who Mr. ********* picks but... I am really sad that you didn't make it and i really wanted you to because it like... doesn't make sense that you aren't on my team because like we always have been on the same basketball team. (by the way Mr. ********** isen't mean you just think he is mean because he rejected you from the team... but i know what you mean Moo-Cow):)
Theres this girl that is one of my friends and i like her alot but im afraid that if i tell her and she doesnt like me things will get aucward between us and i really dont want that.help me please
My Advice** Just tell her how you want to be friends with her and maybe you will be closer friends. . . but if she doesn't want to be friends with you ask her why and just tell her how you feel. Just believe in yourself and if she doesn't want to be friends with you then just be a nice person!!!
my best friend thinks i dont want to be her ebst friend anymore becuase i dont hangout wiht her but its not my fualt i have sports everyday afete school and soccer every weekend...is there a way i can show her were still best friend
signed: stressed
My Advice** Playing sports everyday and still trying to have time for friends can be tough...if you and your friend feel like your drifting apart try to include her with your sport life...invite her to a game and hangout afterwards...sometimes when you do to many sports you can be stressed talk to your friend and tell her how it is stressful and your not trying to not be best friends...lemme know how it goes...just make sure you let her know you really wanna be best friends you have just been busy lately...p.s. also call her more often at night and ask how her day was it will help build your friendship:)
One day i went to mi friends house to sleep over after the dake play . well another girl came over wen mi friends parents go hom b/c she was at the party they were at. so wen it was time for bed mme n 1 of the friends that were there started hittin the other girl with pillows and it was funny(as a joke) well she got mad (pretendenly) and so now we want to get her back wut should we do?
My advice~well **** (i won't mention any names) i think you will have to get revenge bc i was there and i no what you are talking about(lol) i will invite you and the other girl(not from the party)and we will make a plan and we will have a sleepover at buggerbrain's and princess' house and then we will have one more person on our side and another person to attack...(i will get back to you) ummmm. . . well i am spending 4 whole days with buggerbrain this week (wed.thru sat. aka thanksgiving break) so i will get revenge on buggerbrain with all 12 of my couins that are going to be there and when i get back we will have a meeting about our revenge on the girl that was at that party and that had a sleepover with you me and ******** (not to mention any names again) well write back!!!LYLAS
hi u dont no mi but i have a big problem and i really need u 2 read dis evan if its really long cause it is well...... mi bff from rogers is startin 2 hang out wit mi good friend in mi skool they didn really meet eachotha mi friend at mi skool just wanted mi frind from rogers sn one day i was talkin 2 hur and i gave it to hur and she started talkin 2 hur and 1 day at mi cheerleadin game they saw eachother and started to hang out than at our compition they saw eachohtha and hung out evan more it got so inoyin cause they meet on aim thats so stupied and one day mi friend from mi skool came ova mi bff from rogers called and said r we havin a sleepova on friday and mi friend from mi skool heard and was like "can i come" i was like "well idn...." than mi friend from rogers asked to talk 2 mi friend from mi skool and i said "sure" so they were talkin 4 eva i asked 2 talk 2 mi frind from rogers but mi frind from mi skool said no so i just sat thur and i was really mad than when they got off mi frind from mi skool said im sleepin ova 2 i was like great in mi head than at the sleepova it was horrilble at first it was ok but in the middle and the end was horrible i was cryin mi bff from rogers was yellin at mi and mi friend from mi skool was lauphin at mi and the next day i was cryin in the morin we had a championship football game !and we were still fighten! hur house is kinda weird (hur parents) and they left mi in hur room alone while i was sleepin and they were playin on the puter in the basement i was like gabby and she didnt listen to mi and when she heard mi hur parents were like shut the hell up to mi and i sat in hur room and called mi dad and told him 2 pick mi uo and bring mi to the game and when he came i told mi friend from rogers he was hur and she was like ok wuteva! and i left! i was cryin in the car i was so sad! at the game mi friend from rogers n mi friend from mi skool came and we still were in a fight ! at hur house before i told hur how i felt she said ok i try to help but she didn anyway at the game we made up they got back in a fight and than we made up than the gurl from mi skool sleepova mi frined from rogers house again and i couldnt! so they were like (the next day) we had so much fun and they keep on goin on and on i was really mad! now it still goes on they just had a sleepova tha otha day 2 ( i didn go) now i dont know wut to do
PLEASE HELP MI I WANT MI BFF BACK!
My Answer~Talk to your best friend and tell her how you feel and then talk to your other friend and tell her how you feel about her steeling your bestfrind away from you.Then see what they say and tell them that they need to inclde you more. . . espically when you are over at their houses and they go off and do their own thing.**But remember that you can't control who is friends with who** Write back and let me know how it goes!!