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Ok, this summer my best friend and I had a fight and it ended out friendship. (it was a bitter ending, we havent spoken to eachother since) Anyways, everyday at school, she doesnt talk to me and her friend told me that she hated me. The thing is, I dont hate her back, and I wish she wouldnt hate me. I want her to know that I still care about her even though we aren't friends, and I want to see how she is doing. So I found her livejournal link and do you think i should leave a comment? What should I say?
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Well then yes you should leave a comment. Maybe it will patch things up, and when you guys are both ready you'll already have cleared the way to becoming friends again.
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Ok, if you really wanna tell her this, then this is what you write:
Hey this is ((put your name here)). I just wanted to say that I'm sorry about the fight over the summer. I know that your probably dont want to talk to me, but I feel really bad. Weve been best friends forever and it just ended. Im not asking that we be best friends again. All I want is for you and I to be cool with eachother and...you know...be able to say "hi" to eachother every once in a while. I hope that you read this and I hope that you can forgive me.
Ok, so you dont have to put those EXACT words but just make it for that effect. I hope I helped.
xOo Nikki xO
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yes leave a comment i mean one little comment could dave a friendship anyways just write this:
hello *her name*
i know this may seem weird to you but even tho we arent friends anymore i still do in fact care about you and other people are saying you hate me but i dont hate you back and i wish we never had that fight in the summer do you maybe think we could like start over our friendship?
hope i helped
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sorry.
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Well, I'm not really sure, if you guys ended, and its better this way, its only better not to bug her, and she probably doesn't even hate you, you should just go on with your life, and you said things were better off with no friendship with you guys, and telling her you care might bring her back to you and then the same thing will happen all over. So, I think that if you do decide to leave a comment, you should prepare fo the possibility of being friends again.
-TheTeenGirl
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Ya, that's a good idea bc then she can't ignore you or anything. That's really sweet of you to still care for her! so if i were you i'd just tell her just what you said: that you dont hate her back and wish she wouldnt hate you and that you still care about her even though you aren't friends. just leave it at that & if she doesn't respond, then at least you tried and left your relationship on a little bit better note than it was before. and if she does, then that's great and props to you!:) Good luck!
~Sarah~
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awww i'm so sorry. here's what i think (even tho im not there to analyze the situation, i still believe that this is the case). i think that she doesnt hate you, and shes just being immature and insecure, and that she REALLY does want to be your friend, she just doesnt want to be the first one to admit it, so she'll tell her friends that she hates you so she'll look like she doesnt care, even tho she does. i bet deep down inside she wants you to be the first one to wish you were friends again, so just be the better person and say something to her. dont start talking about the fight or why it happened, just ask her a question like hey how are ya doing, came across your livejournal. if she flips out or curses you off and says something really mean like EW I HATE YOU YOU STUPID B*TCH DONT TALK TO ME, then just be like "okay sorry, i just just trying to be nice.." and then she'll feel like an ass...hope i helped!
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Yes, you should leave a comment in her journal. Since you didn't tell us why you two fought, in your comment, tell her that you are sorry for whatever you. Even if you didn't do anything, still say you are sorry, because she may think that you started the fight. Also say that you still want to be friends with her and that you don't want her to be an enemy to you. Say something like that. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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I think you should leave a comment, if only to see how your friend stands. If she truly does hate you then so be it, but if she doesn't then maybe your friendship could be repaired.
Since I don't know why the two of you fought or how you truly feel about her (other then the fact that you don't hate her) I can only say that you could just tell her how you feel. If you're sorry, say so. If you just want to make amends, do that.
I guess something basic that you could say is, "I'm sorry that over friendship had to end the way it did. Eventhough we're not friends, I don't want to be your enemy." Or whatever.
Best of luck.
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Hey! Well, you should leave a comment but if you feel uncomfortable with that maybe you can talk to her on the phone or in person. I think you should apoligize and say you care and still want to be friends. Then say you miss your old friend ship and you dont want to throw it away and you miss being with her and telling her everything. Good luck!
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