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Why are people so shallow? some people in this world like a person more they can ever imagine. But when they find out its like they nevr want to talk to you again. no1 likes each other for who they are. they only like them cuz they are attracting. why cant people except others and try getting into a relationship?
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everyone has a different perspective on this. my opinion, people just are too hung up on society... whats 'in' and whats not.. etc etc. some people dont know what its like to be with someone who will accept you for who you are, who will love you unconditionally.. because theyre too busy on looks and not personality. some have looks and personality.. some only have looks.. others have just personality... just human nature unfortunately.. its up to ones self to realize...
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what attracts the human mind is looks. you see the looks first.
then, the attraction makes you want to talk to them, so you do. then you get to know that person, and for a lot of guys, they just think your hott so they talk to you. its so stupid, i know. thats why girls should always wait for the guy to tell them if they like you or not, because a lot of guys dont want relationships, just hookups. its typical, and a lot of girls are the same way. but shallowness comes from attraction.
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For the first example of why people are shallow [when they find out someone likes them and they don't talk to them again]- that's because they are scared of the awkwardness that may come along with continued friendship. It's cowardice, really.
People are superficial because they see their friends and family be that way. So they tend to only like people for their looks, not for who they are. You can pretty much blame TV for that one, I'm serious.
People aren't willing to accept others because they think that if you don't fit the norm of popular, skinny, attractive, etc., you can't possibly be worth dating. Either that, or they are scared to accept different people and their backgrounds.
I don't judge on looks, unless the person is just really ugly and disgusting [as in not taking showers or whatever]. Mostly, I don't care about looks. I look for personality, because I think that's most important. So just know you're not alone in your frustration.
--Jack
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i wouldn't say all of that is true.. uhmm.. i mean i know what you're saying, b/c some people are really shallow.. but eventually you find the right person and they love you no matter what! and that sounds super corny lol. but it's true! and sometimes you just gotta work at it.. if you really like someone a lot then try and talk to them about it, don't hide it inside.. hope i helped!! :D<p><p>
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