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Should I take the risk?
I have this guy friend and we are like best friends no dout but I knida really like him and everyone thinks he kindof likes me. I dont know if I should go out with him or not because his guy best friend likes me too and I dont want to ruin thier friendship or our friendship
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o.k i think that you should really go out with neither of them..if you go out wit yor best friend you may loose the freindship you have with him and his best friend may get jelious and wont wanna be his friend and then if ur friend really does like you and you deside to go out with his friend then your BEST friend may not like you or his friend no more so i say you should move on and find a diff. boy
thanks xOx Ally Babe xOx
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no, because if you kinda like him and he kinda likes you well you really really need to like him not kinda but if you want to i guess u could!!
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Maybe you should just not go out with you guy friend at all...there's a reason for that tho. The reason is that if you go out with your friend and you guys had a bad break up then that would ruin the whole friendship. Possibly if you DID go out with your friend...maybe it could work out. Also, about your friend's best friend, you should talk to him and tell him that you only want to be friends with him only because of the fact that you see him better that way. Im sure he would understand if you elaborated on the reasoning more.
good luck sweetie
sam
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If you "kinda" like him and he "kinda" likes you, that's not good enough. You should love someone before going out with them (or at least be close to loving them), otherwise it may very well hurt both of you when you finally realize that you DON'T love each other.
Advice (take it or leave it):
Wait until you're a little older to start seriously dating guys. Both you and them are going through puberty and hormones make life miserable. (besides, you can't get married for another five years anyway...might as well wait until there's a REASON to date!)
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im the same me and my best mate averyone says she fancys me and i really like her but i dont wont to take that risk then i took it and she fell out with me but she made mates with me in the end and there were no secrets in r friendship
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Okay Chickies--I've anwsered this question before for people...
DO NOT ASK HIM OUT UNLESS YOU ARE POSOTIVE THAT HE LIKES YOU AND IS UNATTACHED!!
Happened to me, matter of fact. And I went ahead without knowing his feelings and totally ruined our friendship.
It's a long trip down "Heart-break-repair" road, so please don't do it.
Just ask him how he feels about you. Have your friends joke around with him hinting questions that you two should go out. If he responds positivly, then move forward.
As far as the other guy? If he hasn't actually asked you out yet..then forget about him.
-luv-
Anja
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Well, i think that you should go out with both of the guys and see which one you like more. If they like you as much as they say thay do, then their friendship will not end because of a girl. Their are a lot of fish in the sea for them.
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Ok..breathe..now find out if the best friend likes you, and then if you like him, go out with him. See how it goes..the other guy will proboly understand. If it doesn't go well then you know hes not right for you.
x0o good luck
~advicechick123
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well first of all see if he wants to hang out, like on the weekend ask him if he wants to go to the movies or something, then if it feels really weird doing that, then i dont think you should go out with him, but if you guys have a really good time hanging out then def take your friendship to a relationship. if anything, itll make your friendship stronger. xox Renee
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