im having the worst problem..ok me n my bf well we had sex and i mean i love him with my whole entire heart and we went out for a year and hes my world..and well im not tryin to be mean at all here but he got with this extremely ugly girl thats like 5 inches taller than him..and he tells her all this stuff and they had sex on vday and shes denyin it all and i mean atleast he had enough man in him that he could tell me bout her n all this and i forgave him and now hes telln me he still loves me and he wants me back and i just never thought id ever forgive him but i have no idea what to do i mean today he came over and we messed around which i shouldnt have and his other girl has no idea ..but shes always with other guys too and he just doesnt care and he still likes her but he tells me he loves me and i mean i know its kinda like well hes just wantin some more but its just not like that and i have no clue what to do and im not easy its just that i think im so inlove with him. just i want someone elses advice on this ..im 14 female
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? bUtTeRfLiEs answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 12:00 am: Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're the prettiest when you have no make up on. The one who turns to his friends and says 'that's her!'
XoxBroKeNxoX answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:54 pm: i dont think its a good idea for you to be messing around and worring about these people, you should just tell him you dont want to be friends or anything with him anymore so you dont have to deal with this stuff. get a new boyfriend, but this time try not to make the mistakes you did with the guy in your story. btw the story was confusing bc it said that you and your bf had sex and now ur bf is going out with a ugly girl?? do you mean your ex boyfriend? okay well anywho long story short, enough with the guy. hope this helps somehow~ [ XoxBroKeNxoX's advice column | Ask XoxBroKeNxoX A Question ]
BlackRose18 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 5:49 pm: Well you have to think of the sides here
If he could cheat on her why cant he do it to you
BUT, if your the only girls hes doing it with then you mean somehting to him because he could go off with anyother girl right? but he doesnt, maybe he still has feelings for you and hes scared that you dont feel the same way -- Talk to him about what happened, find out whats really going on in his mind about you -- Im sure you guys can hit it off again [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
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