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Question Posted Monday February 21 2005, 8:26 pm

Well, I'm a little unsure if I should be upset or not.
Okay. Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months now and I found out a few months ago that I was not his "first" (talking about making out.) He was mine without a doubt. But it's not just that i'm not his first that upsets me, it's with who. It's this girl from another school named elena. She's a slut and she knows it. My boyfriend "didn't even like her" he claims. But, what concerns me is that if he didn't like her, what if he made out with me and he "doesn't even like me." Am I upset over a stupid thing? Because if I am I want to not ruin our relationship over something so stupid.
Once again,
Retro_Romance <3


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Teza answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 9:37 pm:
dont worry so much. who cares if he kissed another girl before its not a big deal and its not like hes cheating on you or something. but he obviously likes u because u guys have been going out for 6 months ! x0

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bUtTeRfLiEs answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 5:00 pm:
I think you're over-reacting. You shouldn't care what your boyfriend did in the past. It doesn't matter now. He's with you. It's not like he's still with this chick. So don't worry about it!
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"Life isn't about looking back, it's about taking steps forward."

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duckylama123 answered Tuesday February 22 2005, 2:11 pm:
I think That you are getting upset about a silly thng. So wat if your bf kisses another girl. All that matters is that you like him and he likes you

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icey0990 answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:18 pm:
As long as hes not acting weird and the relationshio between you and him are going well...i would forget it. People do stupid stuff..(myself included) and everyone has regrets. Hes with you now and thats the important thing. Dont let it ruin your relationship..6 months is a long time..(my record anyway) so keep it going
-melissa

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Ask_me_a_question answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:52 pm:
This is a common problem... it's pretty normal to be worrying about this, even though it doesn't matter much. You've heard this a zillion times, don't think about who he's kissed before, he's kissing you now. As for 'not really liking you' its unlikely, darling, althought I don't know the situation in its entirety. So do your best to put the past behind you, and enjoy what you have now.
xo Maddie

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Karen answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:46 pm:
Sweetie, there is nothing to be upset about and you don't have to worry. If you think your boyfriend just made out with you if he didn't even like you, then why is he still with you? He likes you and this happened in the past and you don't have to look back at his. Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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BARBiE_D0LL_x3 answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:39 pm:
If he's been with you for 6 months, he must like you! So don't even worry about that! I know how you feel, I felt uneasy because my boyfriend had had sex when he was 8, and I was still a virgin when we started going out. But that's way bigger than a kiss, in my opinion. Honestly, if this girl is known as a slut, he probably didn't like her, and being with him for this long, he should be 100% truthful with you. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we are completely honest with eachother. So I'm pretty sure you have nothing to worry about! Plus, he's with you now, not her! Hope I helped, good luck! x3

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xXtashmahottieOo answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:39 pm:
dont be like this ovcouse he likes you. you do have a reason to be upset but come on he didnt mean it that way. and by the way i luv your Screen name! Mwaazz good luck feel betta Dianee

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angieroonie answered Monday February 21 2005, 8:37 pm:
he obviously likes you. he's been wiith you for 6 months. stop worrying

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