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im bi and i love my boyfriend but
Ok so I love my boyfriend very much ..like alot..I mean really I do..but my friend who is a girl adn is seriously attracted to me and I like her kinda really wants to make out with me and I kinda wanna make out with her to..but I don't want to hurt my boyfriend..what should I do..and I already talked to him and he goes "I love you and I trust you and it takes alot to hurt me" sooo im sooooo lost..please help me!
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ok well dont cheat on him jus cuz he says it takes a lot to hurt him cuz once you do it you will mess errything up. i think that you are jus too curious wit this girl. dont mess something thats already good up for something or someone that might not be.
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choose from your heart! is it worth it to ditch your boy to go for the same sex after he already said that he loves you?
how long have u been with your b/f?
if it is a short time then it is up to you but if you have been with him for a long while, stay with him!
hope i helped!!
`~*dani*~`
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your bf sounds like a sweety..but i really think hes hurting inside right now. Its a lot on him and it would hurt anybody ..its also pretty awkward. Dont kkiss the girl while your going out with him. Maybe you need to experiment..your emotions speek for itself. You should dump him if your having these feelings like this. However..if you decide you want to stay with him..give him assurance that hes the one and theres nobody else. Dont flip flop because ive seen a lot of my friends get hurt because their crush would "flip flop" and put them through hell. Folllow your heart..but if you decide to go for the girl..dont do it behind your bf's back
-melissa0
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you'd be cheating if you did.
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I think the fact that you're bisexual (just fine) just makes the situation look more complicated than it really is. Think, if you only liked guys, would you just go off and make out with some other guy? Just putting the situation in perspective... I personally wouldn't cause technically this is 'cheating', but if all of you are truly okay with it, than it's all you. (Also, your boyfriend may be hurt but not be showing it, so be careful.)
good luck
xo Maddie
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If you love your boyfriend, then you shouldn't hurt him by making out with this girl who wants to make out with you and who is attracted to you. If you like her, then this is considered cheating because you want to do stuff with her. If you don't want your boyfriend to get hurt, then don't "cheat" on him with this girl.
-Karen
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Since you are bi, this is still considered cheating. If you really love your boyfriend like you say you do, you shouldn't even be having these urges to do stuff with other people. If you really don't think you can live without a girls affection, maybe you should consider breaking up with your boyfriend. This way you can make-out with whomever you want, whenever you want, without that 20 extra pounds on your back. I know I didn't help much, but I hope it made you think, good luck girl! x3
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you cant act like this. tell your boyfriend of your feelings. say you wanna make out with her but you wont unless he says its okay.
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well um.. you gotta trust your heart dont leave the one you love for the one you like- cause the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
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