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How do i know if my bf is just using me?
How do i know if my bf is just using me?
We went out last year for like almost 9 months but i broke it off because i started at a new school and i couldnt handle the relationship too. He begged me to take him back and after 3 months of getting settled and really missing him...i did. But it just doesnt seem the same anymore. Now when we do see each other all he wants to do is make out, feel me up, get down my pants. Ya know. Its not like we're hanging out. Its like i'm just there for sexual stuff. What should i do? Is he using me?
female, 16.
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if you feel that there is no real love in the relationship then maybe you should talk to me. sadly it sounds to me like he is using you....try to have a long talk with him and look deep in your heart.
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He could be...it somewhat sounds like he is. I'm sorry babe. But if sexual stuff is all ya'all ever do and never really like hang out then he is using you. You gotta talk to HIM about it though. Just tell him how ya feel like that you guyz neva really hang out and talk or wutever. And if you don't like your boy doin all that shit to you like goin down your pants and feelin you up then slap him...seemz mean but thats your body and it should never be violated. Good luck hun xOx0 *Everybodiiez_Fool* <3
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tell him how u feel about the whole situation, if he really likes you he will understand.....
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ok, talk to him about this and try to talk more. he's not worth it if he just ignores you.tell him to get another girl who is comfortable with this kinda stuff.not the best advice but don't blame me, i'm just 13...
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hey sweetie. well if your feeling this way,you should deffanitly tell this boy how your feeling. I mean, from what you wrote, it doesnt really seem like this kid wants to talk, he just wants sex. DONT LET HIM DO THAT TO YOU! I know you miss him but if hes gonna take advantage of you or use you for sex, then he is NOt worth it! Tell him how you feel, get him off your mind and just avoid him and then maybe he'll leave you alone. If he has sex with you, without you wanting it but you do it anyways then get outta that relationship! But babe whatever you decide to do, just follow your heart and NEVER let a boy take adventage of you, Have fun but at the same time, be safe <33
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Dear female 16,
to be honest with you, he's using you for sure! He might like you because of your looks maybe, or maybe you protrude something that he has an attraction for. When you want to have a conversation with your bf, cover up! Since it's cold outside now, wear a turtle neck and if you wear lipstick, wear some chapstick or lip gloss. Tell him that you really need to talk and keep a distance from him because he may get lost into your looks. If he doesn't listen, tell him straight how you feel about your relationship with him.
You can also do one more thing: Dress ugly. If he's in for your looks, dress the dorkiest, ugliest clothes you can find. If he freaks out, he's in for your looks, and if he's not, ask him what's going on and why is he treating you like a sex object. If he's in for your looks, it's best you should tell him how you feel and how you should be treated. If he doesn't listen, you should break up, and don't feel sad if you broke up with him. He's not worth it.
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Well this guy might really like you to wait 3 months to go back wit you.. but i don't know how he acts round you any other time so you cant really tel.. but if your feeling used you shouldn't feel like that when your wit somebody.. so i think if you feel that way you should do something bout it instead of wondering.. but if you dont wanna do that kinda stuff all the time tell him and see how he reacts to it.. hope i helped ~DEZ~
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i'm in the same situation.. except im 14. i think he's just using you because my boyfriend is doing the same thing. talk to him about it. ask him if everytime you guys hang out, you have to do things sexually. if hes a smartass about it, break it off.. good luck!
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i think you need to make him settle down for a second and just talk to you. tell him you feel like you hardly know him anymore. tell him you feel like you never talk. if he understands and starts talkin to you more and stuff then he isnt but i would dump him if he completely ignores what you try to tell him. then i would call that, him using you.
good luck!
~~StEf~~
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Yeah he's using you. Dump him. You'll get over him after awhile. He just wants the sexual stuff. And if he doesn't get it from you it's most likely that he'll start cheating on you and get it from some other girl. Either way you'll be hurt unless you dump him. If you go out with him he'll probably eventually cheat on you and if you break up with him you might feel regret for a little but it'll turn out better in the end. Hope I helped!
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i think so from what i've gathered. talk to him about the way you feel if he can't respect you from then on maybe it's better off you do dump him sorry.
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