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making out?
Im 13 and me and my bf have been goin out for about 4 months now. I really love him with all my heart and he's like my soul-mate. He cares 4 me and loves me a lot to! (also 13).
I've been in a past relationship where the guy took kissing and making out for advantage.. and I still haven't really healed from it. My bf wants to make out and says he respects me not being ready. He asks me when I will be ready or if I ever will. It seems like all he wants is to make out.. Wut do I do?
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u should ask him, u need to tell him that uve been taken for advantage a few times n u dont deserve to be treated like that.. so be like if ur just w me to make out n get some then tell me now bc i deserve to know n i dont want to be leaded on anymore.. let it out! :D
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You've been going out with him for quite awhile and if he were trying to take advantage of you then he would have made you or dumped you long ago bcuz you wouldnt. I think you should make out with him. you'll like it lol and nothings wrong with it expecialy since you've been going out for a while. itz someting ppl like to do, to show affection for eachother. but if your really unconferble tell him this and he should understand or he may tell you that he would never use you. then you know he really cares. i'm sure he could be with other girl..and he could make out with them...but he just wants to make out with you. he cares about you and i dont think he would use you. byez good luck! plz rate me :)
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This has happened to me. He respects the fact that you'll kiss and make out with him when you're ready, but, if he's pressuring you to do all of this before you're ready, then say flat out that you don't want to do anything befor you're ready. If he respects this, he'll stop pressuring you. If he doens't, and he cops an attitude, then it's time for him to go bye-bye! Dump him if he keeps pestering.
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I think you need to be asking the guy this question... but sounds to me that the guy respects your feelings, but is STILL just a typical guy, lol! It's fine that you aren't comfortable with the idea just yet, though. Let him know how you feel. If he thinks any less of you for it, then forget him!
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okay.. (bottom line) <<if ur not comfteramble dont do it<< if he cant respect u then u dont need him...
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your bf justs wants to kiss you. its good that he has respect with the fact that you are not ready. but he probably is asking you when you will be becasue he is getting anxious. there is nothing wrong with that. you should just kiss him already. not all guys are the same.
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i think you should make out with him because thats kinda away of showing someone you love them..and 4months without kissing is really long.!.i hope i helped..
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All guys will want something from there girlfriend. If you have been dating him for 4 months and havent really done anything then maybe you just aren't feeling the guy as much as you thought. You said you got hurt in the past but you cant dwell on what happened before. If you trust this guy then kiss him, but if you dont feel anything then move on cause there's not enough time to stay with someone you really dont care much about. Hope this helps
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Go Ahead And Make Out . If You Have Been Dating For Awhile So Maybe He Won't Do Nething To Hurt You Like Not Go To Far. Hope I Helped
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