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Question Posted Friday November 26 2004, 7:19 pm

my cousin used to be this sweet inocennt lil girl and now shes horrible. shes hanging out with the wrong ppl shes already tryed smoking and she lying about everything. she keeps telling me my brother did this or that when its not true and i just want to help her out but i dont know how to talk to her or wat to say to her. im so worried about her and wat makes everythin worst is that she has a jack a** for a step father and he doesnt even care and she cant talk to her mom cause shes afraid of wat her mom may say or do. so can some one help me or least give me some ideas on how to talk to her.

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LiLAnGeLDeViL4659 answered Sunday December 12 2004, 4:45 pm:
Well, try to explain to her how everything shes done or is doing can effect her. Maybe if she knows exactly what she is doing to herself she might just stop. Just sit her down and talk to her about how your hurting becuase she is hurting herself. If she cares for you as family she should listen and look up to you if she doesn't then no affense but you just need to let her be and let her learn from her dumb mistakes. You should really tell someone if you haven't already. I can tell you haven't told her mom. Why don't you tell her? Maybe then her mom will knock some sense into her ya* know? Well Hope I Helped You Out Atleast A Lil*. Good Luck! :) If you need anymore advice just ask me and I most likely can give you more.
Shannon

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XlovelyladyO25 answered Saturday November 27 2004, 1:46 am:
sit her down and tell her straight out that you are worried about her and the decisions she is making, if you dont want to do that, then maybe write her a note. hope i helped! if you ever need advice you can always drop a note in my inbox! rate me! <33

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BloNdieSs_Kic_AsS answered Friday November 26 2004, 9:58 pm:
welltose are her decions, she prob knows what she is doing is bad if she used to b the inncoent little girl u said she was.. it sounds like she is going all this becuase of her step father and she just dosent kno how to hnadle all the stress she has.. she is probely just going to have to learn the Lesson on her own, with you being concerned and caring she is already doing better, ... if u told her mom that would just make things worse with her and if i was you id jus see what happens.. come people go tho tht stage and come out real fast..

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