my b/f goes to NH every weekend and has a lot of friends up there .. a lot of them are girls .. i am obviously wicked jealous because he is seriouisly very cute/hott.. so girls would like him.. anyways, some girl keeps callin me from his phone and asking for me then hanging up.. she did it yesterday and at 9 in the morning today .. its really pissing me off - what should i say to him when he gets back!? HELP! i dont wanna come off like a bitch but i want him to know that im not takin his shit anymore and he cant just walk all over me like that ..sry its long
Mackenzie answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:58 pm: Dude, that's bullshit! And you'Re Right.. you d.e.f.i.n.i.t.e.l.y should NOT have to put up with that cRap!! I say just flat out tell him, so he Really undeRstands what the problem is.. don't confuse and pRolong things by beating aRound the bush; get stRaight to it and be *BOLD*! You can do it!! I have the utmost faith in you!! Hope I helped!! =D [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
Scorpios1112 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 2:03 pm: Just tell him when he is gone you keep getting prank calls from his friends where he is. Say it calmly and not spur of the momnet.. see how his trip was first and make him happy he is back and then just tell him you dont want these girls calling you from his phone. [ Scorpios1112's advice column | Ask Scorpios1112 A Question ]
exyweetee99 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:30 pm: grl u betta tell ya boy bout it b4 he does somthin w/ dis grl..tell him how u feel..he should kno how u feel..would u want him 2 tell u??if so tell him...
SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:23 pm: Tell him that what he was letting his lady friends do to you was very stupid and immature. If he really liked you the way you think he does, he would've never let them do that. N also tell him that when they were calling you and hanging up on you, it really pissed you off. If he respects what you're saying to him and understands you, then he's a keeper. If he doesnt then drop him... [ SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL's advice column | Ask SeXyBLuEyEzGuRL A Question ]
Mandee answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:12 pm: Having his friends do that to you isn't right, so let him know that. Maybe when he gets home you can "Hey Sweetie! I'm glad you're back, but I was kinda of confused because on your phone there were all of these girls asking for me and then hanging up. And I'm sorry but I just can't take that. I can't let you walk all over me and I don't want those girls calling me in the morning. Can you talk to them about it and tell them to stop?" Something along those lines lol. The main thing is to let him know and understand that you mean what you say. Because he shouldn't do that to you and his friends shouldn't either. He probably knows you are somewhat jealous of them and don't like the idea of him being around all those girls and he's just making it harder on you. So I would just talk to him and try and see if you all can work something out. Good luck with your boyfriend!!! Love Always, Mandee [ Mandee's advice column | Ask Mandee A Question ]
Bri!* answered Sunday August 15 2004, 12:09 pm: I think you should just tell him strait up....tell him something like this. Tell him that whenever he goes to NH all of his friends(girls!)call you...even from his phone. And that they act kinda immature & try to make you jealous. Tell him that it bothers you & that you wanted him to ask them to stop. Well, hopefully I helped <3 [ Bri!*'s advice column | Ask Bri!* A Question ]
Swtkisses04 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 11:34 am: That is really messed up that girls are even useing your boyfriends phone and calling you!I would def.Not take that shit.Talk to him about it and tell him its one thing to have girls as friends but it is another to be having them call you from his phone hanging up like they are.If he gets mad about it oh well he should respect you and not walk all over you like that.Let him know that your not the type that is going to let him do that stuff to you.Hope things work out and i hope i helped a lil bit.Good luck!:-) [ Swtkisses04's advice column | Ask Swtkisses04 A Question ]
wakegurl21 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 11:24 am: I would ask him why the girl is calling you. And if she keeps callin try to talk to her to see what is up. If you do get jelous about all the girls he goes to NH with then ask if you can go with him sometime, or have him stay with you for a weekend. Hope this helps [ wakegurl21's advice column | Ask wakegurl21 A Question ]
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