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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad?
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If you don't want to do those things then don't and if your friends don't like it then find some other friends. Your friends shouldn't pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
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no its not bad. im gonna b 14 and i've never done anything. just wait for the right time and person. dont do anything ull regret to make ur friends happy cus they rnt the ones that will remember it like u will.
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i can totally relate! It's not bad at all. U just arn't ready yet right??? And u don't have to do anything ur not ready foa so just wait nd if there comes a kid that u really like nd are ready, than do it, but don't let ur friends pressure u in to doing it becasue then if u do it without feeling comfortable its gonna totally suck!! Just have patience the right time will come!!
hope i have helped
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no not at all its wen ur ready dont let ne1 pressure u into duing someting lyk that xpecially if u dont want to its about how u feel n wen ur ready Millie**
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no its not badd at all your jus waiting for that special sum one....and dont let your friends pressure you wen your ready your ready...hope i helped...please rate mii thnx
* lovin Da Rain x3 *
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Never do anything that you are not comfortable with. Stay true to yourself and when the time is right, you'll know it.
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No its not bad at all... its actually very good... save urself... just cuz ur friends are ready doesnt mean u r...
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lol..bad? no its not bad it just either means ur not a skank or u havent found the right person. dont do it just cause ur friends are. do it wen u find some1 u want to do it with and wen ur ready. and if for some lame ass reason ur friends can except that..then screw em' they arent true friends anyway.
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hunni.. u should do wutever make u feel better about urself.. its fine not to wanna makeout and if ur "friends" are pressurin u into doin it then tell them how u feel and if they dont accept that then they were never really ur true friends.. i hope i helped xo0ox
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i was 17 b4 i even kissed a gurl, it sucks but it doesnt really matter...it just makes w/e u do more special
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no its not bad, if your not ready to kiss then dont worry about. do it when your ready, dont let others force you
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No its not bad and ur friends shouldnt pressure you with stuff ur not ready with Of corse when U know when the right time to kiss or make out or do anything with a guy u will Know I just went for it at my school with a guy a liked hope i helped
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nah. i'm 15 and i've never said yes to a boy WHEN HE ASKED ME OUT. we're young. save it for someone special.
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Not at all! Take your time. Don't let your friends pressure you into doing something you aren't ready for/dont want to do. Hope it all works out!
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not its not bad. when your ready to do things then go for it. dont let ANYONE pressure you into doing something you dont want to do. if your not ready then your not ready. good luck.
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*No, that is not bad. Don't let your friends pressure you into sexual things, stand up for yourself. Don't push yourself into it either, you're time will come and let it be with someone special =)*
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Nope, not bad at all. In fact, some people these days are moving just a little bit too fast. Don't let your friends tell you to do stuff. My friends did the same thing. But I didn't want to anything w/ my boyfriend so I didn't. Don't ever force yourself to kiss/make out w/ someone...especially if people are just telling you that you should. I waited a while till I first kissed someone & I think my first kiss meant alot because of it. I hadn't just went out & kissed whoever just to say I did...haha I hope you get my drift. Well goOd LuCk, *Much Lovin`* Jamison!
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no its not bad at all.. your time will come and you shouldnt do anything until you are ready.. you're friends shouldnt be pressuring you into doing anything that u dont want to do. talk to your friends about it and tell them that you're not ready.. if this doesnt help i dont no wut else to tell you
good luck
x3 amanda
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aw dont feel bad, lots of people havent made out or anything at our age [pshh i havent gotten far myself] your friends shouldnt pressure you to do anything if you dont want to, i mean it wont mean as much if you dont wanna kiss a boy or anything... a forced kiss is a bad kiss. age shouldnt make a difference- just take your time ;) we're still young! =] -ask_anything
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NO! It's not bad at all. Don't get pressured into doing something you don't want to do or you're not ready to do yet. Everyone makes out for the first time at different ages. I don't think it's right that you're friends are pressuring you into doing something you're not ready for. When, the time is right and you find that boy you want to kiss/makeout with, then that'll be your chance. Just tell your friends "You guys like pressure me into making out with someone and I'm not ready to do that yet.." Just say something like that (if you want to say something to them about it). Hope this helps and don't worry about not making out yet, it'll come! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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no not at all!! justt tell yur friends to be quiet cuz yu can wait till wenever yu want
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No it iznt bad when u r ready and comfortable to do that kinda stuff u will but dont be pressured into it only do it if and when u r comfortable hope i helped!! if u need n e thing juss ask* Caitlin*<3
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Please don't get caught up in the idea of doing stuff just so you can say you've done it. When you find someone you are into and who is into you, then it will be fun and exciting to make-out for the first time. It's hard not to measure ourselves against what all of our friends have already done, but you will have so much more fun if you are comfortable with someone who you start to "play around with", instead of finding just anybody to makeout with to get it over with. Be patient -- your time will come. When your friends pressure you about being inexperienced, just assure them that you are very picky and are waiting for the right person to learn with. Best of luck to you.
Kind wishes,
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don't do something you dont want ot do... if your friends pressure you and you don't like it then tell them to stop... tell them you just aren't ready... you'll know when you are ready and you find that one special guy.... other than that age shouldn't be a big deal unless you make it one..... your friends aren't your true friends if they pressure you.
*~*Ashlie*~*
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