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loosing love
Im 13 years old and im very scared. This summer my boyfriend who wasnt my boyfriend then got out of jail for drugs. He said he would change for me and I believe him. We've been goin out now and Last night he called me crying sayin he thinks he is going back to jail. All I know is that his dad and him got into an arguement and that he wants to move in with his grandparents. And He wouldnt answer me why He thought he was going to jail again. Then he said he had to go and that he loved me and he never called back. I dont know if he went to school today or not, but Im really scared and I dont know what to do about it. Should I call him and ask him about it or what? Last night I cried all night long. I tried calling 2 times and nobody answered. I dont want to loose him. What do I do?
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Dont get mixed up with him no offense this seems like bad news.. if he has a drug problem let him sort out his priorities it if he seems mature enough..then try goin out with him right now just stay away from him..its a painful subject but u will find someone so0o much better with a better life,,thats all i can do hope i helped ya!!
..*Cassandra*..
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omg! i had a similar situation it sucked...i hope everything gets better...but yeah...keep trying to call him...call his friends...or something...sorri that i couldn't really help...
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He's never going to change. I'm serious. Never.
Guys(or girls) never change. You are who you are.
If I was you I would ditch the guy and find someone better. You don't want to hear this but you're only 13. 13 is too young for this much trouble in your lovelife. And plus, going to jail for drugs is a VERY BIG DEAL. Don't remain invovled with a druggie. You'll only get hurt emotionally, and possibly physically.
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So. I don't want to be the person who tells you that this guy isn't a great catch, but I'm going to be.
A guy who is in and out of jail is not in a position to have a real relationship. Further, the fact that he's been breaking the law shows that he's not a solid or dependable person.
If you care for him, it's understandable that you are concerned about him. That's fine. Maybe he needs a friend.
But at 13, you DON'T need a boyfriend who mysteriously ends up in jail, doesn't let you know what's going on, etc. It's not a strong, safe position for you to put yourself in.
Stand back. Be a supportive friend, but set the limits. You can call or write him, but trying to be involved with a young guy who's in and out of jail will only lead to heartbreak.
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sorry to hear about this buttt...this is my personal opinion - people never change for the better..EVER! they might seem like it but they'll always have that bad thing they've done before...and they'll prolly do it again..juss drop him, get a good boy..bad boys are trouble anyhow =D
*jesikuh
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try calling him, and see whats going on.
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call him, and keep calling him until you talk to him, if he is doing drugs then you 100% don't want him in your life, i'd find out the truth and fast
*~*shan*~*
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