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my suppose to be best friend talks junk about me
this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!
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I wouldnt belive either because daneille can just be saying that so you wont hang out with her anymore!!! And your other friend could be sayin that just so you wont be mad at you! So i wouldnt belive any of them but just smile and nod lol
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Well, heres the thing. No friend talks about other best friends behind their backs. If she really did call you all of that then shes not worth being your friend! Nobody deserves to be treated like junk, even if they talk junk to other people. So, what I'm trying to say to you is::Drop her. Otherwise, just tell her to stop talking about you and your other friends behind their backs. I hope I helped. Tell me how it turns out.
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well try talking to her just be like i know you talk about other pepole and someone said that you talked about me is that true becuse i really want you to be honest with me
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to give you an honest answer, i would ditch this girl. i know it would be hard to just stop being friends with her because shes your best friend. and you don't have to ignore her completely and stop talking to her. just, stop confiding in her. because she is obviously too immature to handle a best friendship. best friends NEVER talk smack about eachother behind their backs. EVER. i believe that everyone deserves a chance to be beleived, so give her the benefit of the doubt this time. maybe she didnt really say those things about you. but if it happens again, you know its time to move on. this friendship is fake. it has no SUBSTANCE. no TRUST or LOYALTY or TRUTH. thats what you want in a best friend. and they're hard to find, beleive me. but when you do find them, its out of this world, and you know they will never intentionally put you down behind your back.
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When she least expects it, have one of your other friends get evidence that your "best friend" is talking about u behind your back. She wont admit it to your face!If that doesn't work canfront her face 2 face and dont let them leave until they tell u the truth.
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You have much to much talking behind backs here!
Don't repeat to your friends what this other girl is saying. Just stay out of it.Pretty soon everyone is going to be mad at everyone including you! Everybody needs to make an agreement to knock it off.
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If she's talking to you about other people behind their backs...how do you know she isn't talking to other people behind YOUR BACK as well? It seems to me like she is. In this case, your friend Danielle is probably correct. What should you do? DUMP HER! You are too good for all of her negativity.
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Your right, I would believe Danielle. If shes talking crap about other people she probably is talking crap about you too. And besides does Danielle have any reason to lie? I think you should just stop being friends with her. There are people out there who are willing to be a good friend to you and not talk crap. Good luck.
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Honestly, I think she really could be talking about you behind your back because if she is talking about your friends behind their backs to you then she could be doing the samething about you.
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Your right, I would believe Danielle. If shes talking crap about other people she probably is talking crap about you too. And besides does Danielle have any reason to lie? I think you should just stop being friends with her. There are people out there who are willing to be a good friend to you and not talk crap. Good luck.
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