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Boys
I have a problem with boys, none of them like me. If one of my friend's tells a boy I like them they pretend to gag and stuff. Well I was at a dance and there was this really hot boy and my friend asked him to dance with me and he said no so my other friend asked him and he said I have a girlfriend as an excuse to not make me feel upset. What can I do to get boys to like me?
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Try a new style. spash out on a new outfit and do your hair and make up. ask your friends to help you shop and ask them to get ready together befor the next dance. it will be loadz of fun doing each others hair and make up so you wont feel the odd one askin then to do it for you.
BUT....
remember you should never change who you are for somebody. you should still be yoruself!!!!!!!
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Just be yourself. There will be someone that likes you.
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Well, first of all... DO YOU EVEN LIKE IT WHEN YOUR FRIENDS TELL YOUR CRUSHES THAT YOU LIKE THEM? that may be the prob... and if you dont like it tell them!! Just be yourself around boyz, because boyz should like you for who you are and not like you for someone your not!
Hope i Helped!
MaNdY!
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You can't get boys to like you. You need a guy that will like you for you, not just because you change yourself to be more attractive. I mean, maybe now you cant find a guy who will like you, but someday you will, and thats a garuntee. Like I always say, sometimes a person who likes you is a stranger to you or one of your best friends. I hope I helped.
xOo Nikki xO
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boys are stupid...or most of them. just wait. there are actually decent guys out there...your quest now...is to find one. he'll come along sometime. don't get down because no one likes you now, or so it seems. you never know who likes you. maybe you are looking in the wrong place for a guy. just be patient.
hope i helped.
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Don't get too discouraged. It could be the boys are just jerks or something. Have confidence in yourself because boys def. notice a confident girl and are attracted to her. Maybe try to add some makeup to your look or something or try a new hairstyle so the guys could notice you in a positive way.
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it could be b/c of your attitude or how you act or your looks but you shouldnt change yourself or run after boys.. let them come to you or else it makes you look 'easy'
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Just be yourself! Be nice to them, try flirting with them. Don't annoy boys or make fun of them.
Let the guys come to you... be sure not to ignore anyone, you could look past somebody that really likes you!
Maybe next time ask the boy yourself if they want to dance. Maybe they think you're too shy for them or something.
Hope I helped and good luck! Hope things work out. -RiLeY
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Probably just have to get older. Boy's are still pretty immature when they do the gagging thing! They will change when they grow up a little.
Don't have friends ask them how they feel either.You ask or don't ask at all.That could be embarrassing for them and get a bad reaction too.
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Okay i agree with the person a few answers below me. If your so low on your appearence and how guys dont like you, start wearing some makeup. It will definatley boost your confidence up (it did for me). I'm also not saying your ugly, but it really does help. And you will find a guy that will like you for you! Guys at your age are probably really immature! If you need makeup tips just ask me:) I'l love to help you!
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HEY! DONT FOCUS ON GETTING BOYS TO LIKE YOU! REMEMBER THAT BOYS MATURE ALOT SLOWER THAN GIRLS. I KNOW BOYS SEEM LIKE ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN YOUR LIFE BUT YOU NEED TO FIND WAYS TO PUT IT LAST ON YOUR LIST! EVENTUALLY YOU WILL BE AROUND BOYS WHO HAVE MATURED AND WANT O BE WITH GIRLS FOR WHO THEY ARE. RIGHT NOW THEY ARE SCARED OF GIRLS AND GO AFTER THINGS THAT SHOULDNT MATTER. TRY MAKING SOME GOOD GIRL OR GUY FRIENDS TO HANG OUT WITH AND MAYBE YOU'LL REALIZE YOU CAN HAVE FUN WITHOUT A BOYFRIEND! JUST STAY POSITIVE! EVEN THE PRETTIEST GIRLS HAVE TROUBLE FINDING BOYFRIENDS! SO STAY STRONG AND BEAUTIFUL AND LET IT SHINE THROUGH! AND JUST KEEP THINKING ABOUT the fact that eventually a day will come when boys will interact much better! you have all the time in the world, be patient!
GOOD LUCK,
YOURS TRULY,
SHIANNE
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There's pretty much nothing you can do to make a gut like you. You just have to be yourself and a guy will come around. But until then, just enjoy being single! Being in a relationship isn't always fun and games! You're tied down to one person and you constently have think about if they would approve of you doing something. But just be yourself and you'll find a guy that will love you for who you are! And the guys that gag at you are dumbasses and immature! They probably don't deserve you anyways!
♥ Always,
Maria
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I`m not sure theres anything that you can make some one like you. Be yourself and just be who you are and if those boys dont like it then they are lame! Just have fun with your friends and you dont need a guy to make you happy! If you really want them to like you then maybe you could just change your style a bit. Get a new outfit get a haircut and wear some make-up! Thats if you want! It would make you feel good about yourself and your physical apperence will be very pretty! Im not saying you are ugly or anything because I dont know you! l0l ! x0 ` __
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It sounds to me like you may have a problem with self esteem. Instead of having someone else ask a boy to dance with you. Try going over and saying hello. Be positive and friendly,it will give them a reason to dance with you.
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