Ok well i came on a trip to my cuzins house and i met his friend Robie well Robie is very cute and now i am going out wit him.Well that is all good and all for while i am here but ten again i live in California and he lives in Oklahoma. I am afraid that this is not going to work out but i want it to sooooo bad because i hella like him but what should i do i am considering moving back here but idk if i can so please help me!!!
BurnieMac answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 4:23 pm: Ok, your question is simple (How do you make boys like you?). Well, the only way to really have a relationship with a guy and enjoy it is to be yourself. Acting a different way or changing your entire wardrobe to fit others is not going to bring you happiness. In the end, if you do that, you'll end up confused about yourself and any relationships you have. The way to go is to be yourself 100%. This is the only permanent solution to your problem. Let the guys come to you; don't go chasing after them (that makes u look desparate, and even if you are desparate, that is not an attractive quality that guys look for). All in all, continue being yourself and let what happens be. Friendly advice from Caleb. [ BurnieMac's advice column | Ask BurnieMac A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 1:35 pm: I would enjoy the friendship while you are there.Continue with mail etc. when you go home.I don't think you should make dating him an exclusive thing because no way can you have a social life together at that distance.If you move back ok, go for it.But if not, don't think you'll be happy sitting home while all your friends are out living thier lives. He won't either. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
NobodyYouKnow answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 1:14 pm: Long-distance relationships (pardon my language) suck. I know they have worked for some, but it tends to be in the minority. I tried to make at least three work, none have.
That said, don't move. Stay where you are. Let him off easy on the relatiohsip end. Stay friends if you can, but don't try to foster a deeper relationship at such a distance. It will probably hurt to let what you have go, but being in a long-term long-distance relationship, only to have it fail is ever more painful- Word of one who knows too well.
Give youreself time. I know it sounds cliche, and almost insulting, but you're young yet. You have time to think about these things. Don't make any hasty decisions. [ NobodyYouKnow's advice column | Ask NobodyYouKnow A Question ]
shianne answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 12:11 pm: Hello! LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ARE VERY HARD. I WOULDNT CONSIDER MOVING BACK TO OKLAHOMA SOULY DUE TO ROBBIE! IF YOUR HAPPY WHERE YOU LIVE AND HAVE ALREADY ESTABLISHED A LIFE WHERE YOU ARE...DONT THROW IT AWAY OVER A RELATIONSHIP THAT JUST BEGAN! MAYBE YOU AND ROBBIE SHOULD HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP. I KNOW YOU FEEL SAD BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BE AROUND HIM AND HE IS FAR AWAY! WRITE AND CALL HIM FREQUENTLY. ODDS ARE HE WILL ALSO WANT TO HAVE AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU BOTH CAN SEE OTHER PEOPLE. IF YOU FEEL THAT DEEPLY ABOUT MOVING BACK THERE.,.THINK HARD AND LONG ABOUT IT! AND COME UP WITH AT LEAST 5 OTHER REASONS WHY YOU WOULD MOVE THERE BESIDES HIM!
GOOD LUCK,
SHIANNE [ shianne's advice column | Ask shianne A Question ]
sweet_apples answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:50 am: well i would say your to young but i go for older to and well since your only 13 dont make any rash desions you have your whole life and well i hate to be the bearer of bad news but most long distance relalonships dont work out but hey whats the harm in trying you can be the few whole acually stay together [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
x0xdReAmEr answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 10:51 am: i have been though the same thing! well if you really like him it would work out but if you dont really care for him that much then break up!well you guys should diffeantly see eachother alot if you live in california and if your plnning on goiing back then that would be a really good idea but think about it do u like him that much to do that? good luck! =) x0x [ x0xdReAmEr's advice column | Ask x0xdReAmEr A Question ]
Teza answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 10:49 am: Aw well you never know if this long distance relationship would work. Thers chances it will and not. While you are there with him spend a l0t of time together. Are you thinking of moving back there only because he lives there or ? If you are then I dont know if its worth it. If you really love living in Cali and want to move because of a guy then thats just not right. You would miss all of your friends and everything. But then again that isnt really up to me. Thats just my opinion. If you think you will be happier there then go ahead. You both could try to make your long distance relation ship work. Talk on the phone, AIM , or how ever. Always keep in touch. If it doesnt work out I`m sorry and you will find some one just like him someday! Sorry if not much help! x0 ` __ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 10:49 am: well.. d0nt m0ve.. because what if y0u guys drift apart? then y0u may be leaving y0ur 0ther friends.. just talk t0 him 0n ph0ne, internet, y0u kn0w things like that.. d0nt w0rry im sure it will all w0rk 0ut in the end!
xox ambs xox [ xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx's advice column | Ask xGLiTtErEdxEyEsx A Question ]
IcySparks18 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 10:45 am: Long distance relationships seldom work. Usually one person or both find someone closer. Someone they have a better chance of seeing and being with. It's hard having a bf or gf that you can't see, kiss, and hold hands with (the mushy romantic stuff). [ IcySparks18's advice column | Ask IcySparks18 A Question ]
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