There is this guy that I have been friends with for a little while at school. We went to a frat party together and were dancing and having fun. Yes we were both slighty inebriated but thats besides the point. I kind of like him and when we were dancing he kissed me and we made out for a little bit. I don't know what to think of it because I kind of have feelings for him. We have been hanging out and flirting but haven't kissed again. He did make some comments like, you looked really good tonight but only on AIM. Is he just really shy or do you think it was just a random drunk thing?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CamelKnowzItall answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:01 pm: Wow...i also know that situation all to well. I dunno...its kind of hard to tell since i dont know this guy. :) lol but i think you should talk to this guy about the kiss. do it non-shulantly<sp> and see how his reaction is. say something like "man that party was crazy the other night, but our kiss was even crazier" but dont like obsess over it or make it seem to obvious that you like him...because if hes not feelin you then it would just break your heart. so just kind of watch what you say and be honest. because honesty is the best policy. and guyz def. dig confident chicks.
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perfect101 answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 8:46 pm: well i think you should ask him he totaly digs you it sounds like but maybe you should ask what the whole kiss thing was about and then decide if he likes you or he is just a friend [ perfect101's advice column | Ask perfect101 A Question ]
karenR answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 1:30 pm: you are still seeing each other so he must like you. The drunk thing may keep him from remembering all that went on.I would ask him about it and see what he says. [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
BurnieMac answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 12:23 pm: I think the guy likes you. If he continues to flirt with you after the frat party incident, I would think that he wants more than just the one time thing. The AIM thing kind of hints that maybe he is shy, but at the same time maybe not. You should probably let him know how you feel and see how things go. Friendly advice from Caleb. [ BurnieMac's advice column | Ask BurnieMac A Question ]
sweet_apples answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:47 am: well thats a toughy b/c people do some crazy things when there drunk but i dout that your drunk everyday so if you have feelings for him than let him know b/c like you said he flirts w/you and all so go for it [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
_eMiLy answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 11:02 am: I don't think it's because he was drunk, chances are he likes you. You should get together on your own sometime and go to the movies or whatever and see what happens from there.
Good Luck =)
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Teza answered Tuesday March 22 2005, 10:44 am: I dont think its because he was drunk! I think that this guy likes you or he wouldnt of made out with you! He probablly is shy and since he is talk to him a lot more and maybe when you feel comftrable enough let him know how you feel about him because im sure he feels the same way!! x0 `__ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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