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Get the Spice back in our relationship!
I am 21 and my fiancee is 25.I am a female. My fiancee and I have been together going on eight years in July 2005. There is not enough love making and not hardly enough sugary stuff.(kissing, hugging, sweet nothings) He seems to be tired all the time! Well now I'm tired. Am I being to demanding? What should I do to let him know I need romance without offending him?
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Just plan a special night together. When he relizes that you did the special night for romance, he will most likely understand, and then he might do the same for you!
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Maybe make him dinner one night and *have candles* then like have a adult conversation bout how you know he's tired and you understand that cause you are too.. but tell him that you want a lil more romance like a kiss good bye and a hug.. watching movies together and him holding you.. you know the kinda things that always comfort a female and make us feel loved and wanted.. but i hope i helped and best of luck..much luv dez
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Go to the bookstore and look for books written by John Gray, Ph.D. You've probably heard of him, he wrote the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." While that is a really great book, he's also wrote a lot of other books, some of them specifically discussing sexual intimacy. I trust him because he's a very smart man :)
And, please don't feel weird about buying self-help books. You and your fiancee have been together for a long time, and this type of problem is normal. Happens to everyone. (No, you're not being too demanding either.)
Best of luck ;)
(I just read my answer and it sounds like I didn't answer your question. My point was, Dr. Gray will tell you the best way to state your request without offending your fiancee. After all, he is a man, and I'm sure he's heard it too :P)
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Why wait for him? You make the first move.Don't think any man can resist that! Buy yourself something sexy and seduce the poor man!
What does he do? Is he in school?
Maybe he's working to hard.Share a bubble bath.Have some candles.Use your imagination. If this doesn't work, let me know a little more and we'll come up with something else! Good luck
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