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what the best thing i can do?
our gruop of friends is falling apart.wel we were invited to go to this house party last saturday but only one of us could go my freind .she went and ever since she went she just dropped us hasnt said two words all week.i dont want to lose her as a freind but i cant carry on like this?what can we?anyone got ne ideas.plse reply swn xxxx
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Sounds like you all need to talk bout whats going on...so do that and youll feel better...much luv dez
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If she dropped you she's not much of a friend. Give her another chance. Invite her someone with your 'group' and see what happens.
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I don't know why she would be acting that way.Is she all of a sudden better than you because of this party? I think not. She probably met some people that are not in your regular crowd.
My daughter had this problem with a friend in high school.The friend had this notion that if "You are friends with so and so how can you be my friend?" I thought it was crazy then and it is STILL crazy today.But for some reason there are girls out there who still do it.You know what? they eventually get over it if you just go about your business like you really don't give a shit.I hope it works out the way you want it to.
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Try to get the group together and have a little chat. Talk to them like some other people said and if you all feel you need some space then try to start hangign out with some other people. If not then just try to see whatthe problem is or try to locate the problem. Hope I helped. GOOD LUCK.
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I think you should try to organize a night out with "the group" and try to have it like old times. Talk to them about how you feel; they will probably feel the same way. Sometimes, you just have to let them go though. Besta Luck
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Tell her how you feel. And if she really is you friend she will tell you how she feels. It might be that she thinks you guys don't like her because she went or maybe she heard something said either way...it's best if you go straight to the source and you don't wait to long because that might put a bump in your relationship.
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just tell her the truth and ignore what shake said... "i refuse to help idiots"
irish
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talk 2 her and tell her that you dont appreciate her ditching you all.. if she really really cared throughout the years yall have been friends.. she would listen 2 you and most probaly start hanging our with yall again.
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I really dont even know what you just due to the fact theres no commas, and pretty much anything else. Your grammar sucks. I would help, but i refuse to help idiots, or in fact i refuse to help people that i cant understand.
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ok, i can totlly realte to your situation. What you need to do is just talk to her, the main thing is make it normal, just start out and say hi to her and see how she reacts to that. She should react fine and give a Hi back, if she was a real friend she would do that. You need to remmebr that you have to stand your ground and don't suck up to her. But u need to talk to her and explain to her wat ure feeling and if she blows you off then you need to rethink ure friendship with her. if she loves you as a friend then shell understand you.
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talk to her
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Just start talking to your friend, like you normally used to, don't act all awkward or anything. Just talk about the usual stuff you had before and try to carry on a conversation and if she still doesnt talk much, just simply (and calmly) ask her why she has changed. Explain to her how your friendship is important to you and your ohter "group of friends". hope i helped
good luck *twizz
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