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What to i do?
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sorry if this gets long..
Well my life is kinda messed up because i live with my grandparents and they wont let me do anything i mean like walk around places, go out with guys, have a boyfriend or any thing like that.. well the thing is when you dont let a person do things they end up going behind the other persons back and doing it any ways, well so i have a sister and she is 3 years older than me and she lives with me to and my grandparents do everything for her they let her go places and do stuff and they dont trust me, they just trust her and shes really mean to them and everything and im nice but they still dont like me, well i cant live with my mom for reasons and my grandparents where saying that they didnt want me any more and they wanted to get rid of me *it kind of sounds like im a animal or something* well i hate it and i hate that they are so over protected and some times everything gets soo screwed up and i juss cry and i wanna kill my self and some times i thought about it and i dont know what to do because i dont wanna end up like some people how they are.. so can some one please help me!
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stab your sister and blame it on your sister. she'll be put in the psych ward for trying to off herself, and you'll be the sane one.
-hitler
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what you need to do is dont let them get to you. if they trust her they will be punished. you should probably find friends that treat you nice and enjoy hanging out with nice people, so she will try to get to be nice to them then just tell them shes evil. shell strive to be just like you
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Holy Cow!!! Living with your grandparents is so hard. Trust me, my cousins had to do the same thing! 1st of all don't even think of killing yourself, cause that would make the matter even worse. If your grandparents don't want you, then just...dont do what they say. Get ready, go to school, come back, do ur homework, watch tv, then go to bed! If you have AIM or AOL IM me at xKendall10x
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Hey well...I dont wanna say talk to them cause no one wants to talk to there gardians but its the best you can do! Cause maybe if you say how you feel it will tug at them inside and maybe theyll feel horible about what they did. Or you can do something behind there back and actually HAVE them find out then tell them that it was all fake just to show that thats whats going to happen if they dont let u do something! Sorry i didnt really help...it was just a thought :o/
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Whatever you do do not kill yourself. You need more help than anyone here is qualified to give you.You don't give your age so the only advice I can give is to get with someone older or go to an emergency room and tell them you're having suicidal thoughts.They will get you with someone more qualified to help you with this problem.If you have no way to go there call them. Do it now.Do not wait any longer.okay?
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anonymous -
I'm not sure on the background of the entire situation, so if you'd like to contact me further my yahoo name is vi3t_sn0w_ang3l.
But from what I see, your grandparents might be treating you this way because you're the good kid and they don't want you to end up like your older sister so they have to limit you on what you can do. Perhaps the reason they are so lenient on her is because she's older and they think she's more responsible. Regardless of how she treats them, they probably still view her as the "mature one". Most likely they're behaving this way because your the "baby" and they don't think you're capable of making wise decisions yet.
But again, I could offer a more detailed response if I knew some more info. Like have you ever made any mistakes that would lead to them treating you like this? How old are you? and vice versa.
But don't think of suicide, it's not worth it just because of the way your grandparents feel. Remember, they're old people, and old people tend to get cranky sometimes...you have a lot to live for. Don't forget that.
Hope this helps, and leave me a note in my inbox or im me on yahoo for further advice! :)
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You need to talk to your school counselor or a teacher you trust. If life is really that bad for you, then you shouldn't stay in that situation. You can't deal with this problem by yourself and you shouldn't have to.
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dont listen to them! that is jus wrong and grandparents shouldn't do that. talk to someone about it. talk to your grandparents! my life is bad sumtimes too! i live with my aunt cause my mom is gone and i cant see my dad for certain reasons. my aunt can make my life a heck but i get over it and i get happy again! when i feel like you do i play games i like, i talk to my friends, i do stuff i like to make me feel happier! sorry my answer is so long!! lol
hope i helped!
`~*Dani*~`
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