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hello to get straight to the point i lost some one i loved and i dont mean a family member.im happy he moved on and im happy i have a boyfriend now to. he says i can talk to him about anything its werid to talk to him now though. and i like my boyfriend alot but i still think about my ex ALOT and i cant get him out of mine. its driving me crazy. please help
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Im sorry for your loss. DON'T forget about him! Just try to think about something else that you know will always cheer you up.
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I think the fact that you and your ex are still pretty close is what is stopping you from completely moving on. I think that you have to get some space and point this out to him. Tell him that although you still like him loads, you need to have some time apart so that you both can move on. Then try to not call him whatsoever, only txt him every once in a while and try not to see him too much or at least as much as can be helped. Spend a lot of time with your boyfriend getting to know him better and every time you think of your ex, slap your hand.
In time you should eventually realise that now you are over your ex and that you like your new boyfriend better now in a romantic way. Then you and your ex can start to spend more time together again and re-build your friendship. I know its rotten but if you really want to stop thinking about him, it's what you have to do.
Good luck honey, remember the pain won't last forever. Better to have loved and lost, than not to have loved at all.
Claire xx
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You say you are happy he moved on...I don't think you are. You can't be that happy with the new guy if you can't get the old one out of your head.Be friends with both until you can decide which one you like.
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don't ever reproduce. you clearly need some after school activities to waste your pathetically low IQ upon. I don't care what you have to say. go play softball.
-hitler
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im not sure what happen to your relationship with your ex but im sorry.. but maybe yo should try to talk to him about how you feel.. *your new boyfriend would probably get mad and wouldnt understand* but if you dont feel comfortable then write it down.. um i think that moving on is always good but you maybe should of waited longer to move on with somebody cause you apparently arent over your ex..but dont break up with your new boyfriend thats *not* what im tryin to get you to do..much luv dez x0x0
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Well you could talk to him about it. You know, why yall broke up, if he still likes you, that stuff. It should help you to get it out of your system.
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