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sorry its LONG but i'll rate 5's for ur opinions
Im 15/f
Ive posted a question about my ex"friend" recently. (she was a "friend" at the time) She was judging all of my friends and always tagged along and was boring and couldnt continue a conversation. well, on wednesday at lunch time one of my friends gave me a note so i was walking and reading it, and then i hear footsteps next to me and someone dragging their feet, it was that "friend" and she was following me around again without talking..when she came up she didnt even say hi. *shrugs*.
Anyways yesterday we had the same class together and she now has made a new friend in that class (whos racist against me and is trash to be honest) So when she had someone else she pretened like i wasnt there and didnt try to talk to me (which is a good thing) so at lunchtime when she usually follows me around she now hangs out with her trashy racist new friend. After school like at night time she IMed me and said "can you do me a favor" so i made up an excuse and said i was busy.
Today i totally ignored her cause i have other people to hang out with because i always talk to random people cause im not shy. She on the other hand had noone so she hung out with a shy quiet girl that she always judged and said bad stuff about. I sit next to that girl in the class we have after lunch so she told me that my ex "friend" was talking about how she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. (which is SUCH a good thing, finally she got the point)
Anyways sorry this was wrong but i need advice on what to do from now on cause she and her racist friend are in my group in one of our classes.
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Well I think you should not be her friend yet her "aquaintance" which means you should only talk to her during that class since you have to work with her. I know it will be hard but just try okay. I know you probably "hate" this "ex friend" but you have to show her who is the more mature one in this battle!
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Okay this happened to me kinda. I was stuck in a group with a gril i hated, but thankfully it was a short project. just make sure she does what she is supposed to do and nothing more than that. If she tries to talk to you say something like while she is asking the question " has anyone seen the glue" or something and try your best to ignor her.
Sorry buti hope i helped youin a way.
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I can understand that. There is this boy in my class, who I loathe him completely. It is terrible. He is loud, stupid (which is a bad combination to begin with), and he says the dumbest(and ugiest things). He invaded my privacy and I still have not forgiven him. I just try to ignore him and yell at him when he gets too close. Just ignore her and do what you're suppose to do.
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Arrite first off, racist people are just plain ridiculous. And that "friend" seems a little stalker-ish, Now since you have to be in a group with them, either tell the teacher you need to switch groups, or just Do your part of the project, ignore them and just get it over with. In the mean time, IM your "friend" tell her you know what she said and tell her that your glad, because you dont need a friend like her anyways.
Hope it helped!
xOxO <33
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Well, thats a nice story, but i cant realy answer your questoin. Just wait till your group time is done, then itll be over
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hmm..its gonna be a mess for a while...what you can do is ask the teacher to assign you to another group...if the teacher wont do that then your stuck..you have to work with them and just ignore them if they say something not concerning the project...if they say mean things to you...you have friends to back you up...keep on remembering that your happy she is leaving you alone after the project...rememeber stay strong through the project with your friends at your side...
hope i helped
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oh ok. i see that you sayin. umm. i guess you just have to wade it out for now because you dont wanna look like a jerk to your ex"friend" and the people around you. but after this project thing you should just avoid having them for group members. cause the whole group thing is a short term kinda thing. so you could just switch groups or wade it out. i kinda said the same thing as b4 but there isn't a whole lot of opinions in this situation i guess.
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