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my best friend is mad at me because i wont break up with my boyfriend because moves really slow and weve been going out for a really long time and weve only kissed once and he is the type of guy who gets nervous to do those types of things. i like him alot so im willing to wait for him to be ready to do whatever. she doesnt think he is the right guy for me. he is a great guy and the only bad part about him is that it takes him forever to give one single kiss. do i break up with him if we dont even kiss? or do i just deal with it and stay with him? and ive already talked to him about it a few times and he says hes trying his best.
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well, doinng things to stay together isnt the key to a relationship. i mean you should just talk to him about it. its all going to be okay!! just make sure you know what you want!!
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Well i used to date a guy who took 2 years to kiss me..But even though we broke up he is the most amazing guy ever, and i like him so much!! Dont worry its deffinatly better if you wait for him to be ready =) Tell your friend how much you like him, and that your fine with waiting..but if your not fine with waiting..make the move =) if you kiss him i bet he will kiss you back!
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you shouldnt break up with just because your tells you to if you think he is moving to slow why dont you try to make the first move and just let him follow along
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He's obviously not using you which is great. If you like the guy then stay with him. All great things happen with time. I would give him a chance, because maybe when you guys do have your first kiss it will be amazing and you don't want to regret that.
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Well, first of all, you shouldnt dump someone because theyre too nervous to kiss you. That means he really likes you and is afraid that maybe you wont like the way he kisses you. Guys in love always have doubts. He kissed you once, so now its your turn! Why dont you kiss him? Its not like theres a book of "dating rules" saying that its the guy who should always kiss a girl.
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Maybe you need to take the lead foot to get the relationship to progress.. If your heart feels he is the right guy, then trust your heart... your friend doesnt know whats best for you with relationships.. only your heart can tell you that.. look deep down.. and if you wanna stay with him.. you probably need to help the relationship progress.. just walk up to him and kiss him.. pash him.. just go there.. you will be happy you did.. and he probably wont be so shy about it no more.. I was the same till a bunch of my friends made me kiss my girlfriend.. then made me pash her.. I felt better after.. and I realised kissing wasnt really such a big deal after all.. now I do it all the time.. sorry so long, and hope I help
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you dont even deserve him your lucky he is waiting why dont oyu go to a corner and get fucked by a man infested with STD's
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If you don't have the patience, leave him, don't lead him on. And your best friend needs to feel happy for you, maybe she goes a faster speed but she needs to respect the speed that you take on. And you will eventually kiss, I used to be that way, and it takes lots of time to get comfortable kissing and hugging and being really in love and not afraid to make a move on someone. And, I am telling you, that it is better to hold on, than wait for a guy that moves faster. He told you hes trying his best, so give him a chance and wait as long as he wants to wait, it will pay off. It sounds like you need a discussion with your friend, why does she care so much about what guy you date? Its not like he hurts or insults her. She needs to leave your relationship alone, and just support it instead of reject it.
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Why don't you put the moves on him rather than waiting around for him?
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