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should i? or no?
ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?
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nah, people just mature on there own time. You probably know yourdelf the best and if its not the right timing, youll know. its just not right. when you do know, youll know and itll be fine.
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its ok. personally, i think 15 yearolds are not ready to have sexual intercourse yet. you are just fine. you should wait a little longer to have sex. if your boyfriend cant except that you are not ready, you need to breakit off with him. he may be the man of your dreams, but is it worth it to lose your virginity when your not emotionally ready? hope your bf can understand you feelings. hope i helped
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no its perfectly fine dont do anything you arent ready for dont let anyone pressure you to do anything you dont want to..its not bad to not want to do anything ever
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Yes, 6 months is a long time. But in my eyes, thats great! If he's a good boyfriend .. he'll understand. Just wait until your ready. Don't let him or your friends tell you that you should do it now. Just wait.
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no you donthave to dont feel presured if he likes you then hell wait
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Don't do anything you're not ready to do. If all he wants is more, then dump him. Sorry to be blunt, but if a guy makes you feel guilty all the time, he's not worth it. Six months is a bit long, but there are people who've dated the same person all through high school. I have neighbors who dated each other in high school and now they're married and have three kids. There are also people who don't last two weeks. So don't worry about time in relationships. Worry about whether or not the two of you are happy, and like each other.
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It's not bad for you to be 15 and not want to do anything. Talk to him and tell him you're not ready. If he truely likes you he will understand and he won't want to force you into anything. 6 months is long now a days in the 21st century but it's not very long in the sense of things. When you're ready then you can do whatever you want, but not until you're ready because then you'll be uncomfortable. Good luck!
-- alexis nicole x3
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sweetie, i'm proud of you for sticking with your decision to not do anything past making out after 6 months. doing anything else is up to you, it's your personal choice. it's great that you are true to yourself and know what you want to do, and what you don't want to do. i suggest you stick with your gut instincts. it doesn't matter how long you've been going out, it doesn' matter if he wants to pressure you into doing anything. you're not obligated to. if you go beyond your personal comfort level and are untrue to yourself, you'll feel ashamed and lose your dignity. it's great that you have respect for yourself, which is something a lot of girls in this world lack. GOOD LUCK
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There is no time limit on when you will feel ready. You take as much time as you want. It may not even be with this particular guy...even if you date him for years. You will know when you are ready. Don't be pushed to do something you aren't ready for. :)
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6 months might be half a year but it doesnt mean a well good relationship.. no its not bad to not be doing more then making out with him.. your still young do it when your ready not when everybody else is doing it or when people think you should do it.. you'll know when its the right time to do it.. dont let people talk you into doing something your not ready for.. ♥ Dez
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dont do anything your not ready 4. talk to your boyfriend and tell him you dont want to do "more" then hat your already doing if he doesnt understand then he isnt worth it. he should respect the way you feel towards different things. hope this helps
*~Stephanie~*
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You shouldn't do anything you aren't ready to do. everyone becomes ready for sexual things at different times in their lives. It's not that 15 is too young to do anything, because it's not.. but 15 also isn't too old to still just be making out.. I know girls that are 15 that haven't evenkised a guy, and then i know girls that are 15 that aren't virgins. It's all up to you and what you feel ready for. don't let any guy pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. and besides, after 6 months of dating he should understand you well enough and not get mad that you just aren't ready yet. It's perfectly normal
<3 Heather
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do not do anything that you arent ready for. If you are not comfertable with it you will regret it forever.
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ok! i think you should tell him that your not ready. and to give you time. maybe he will understand. hopefully he will i hope i helped ya good luck bye
~*Brandi*~
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6 months is not long enough to go into all that. If you are not ready then dont! You could do litte thing like a handjob or something. It wont make you a slut or anything so dont worry about it! And its not bad that you are 15 and dont want to do any of that. You just arent very sexual and thats fine. ex_oh ♥
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Hunni,
6 months isnt that long..ok its a half of a year but its not long enough to have sex maybe let him finger you or give him a handjob OOOOOH this one is really fun....ROLEPLAYING! go to like spencers and buy the uniforms and a whip...TRUST ME!!!!! its loadza fun...dont suck his dick cuz that shit's nastyNo its not bad 4 u to be 15 and not do nothing just do what you feel like doing...But seriously try the role playing thing It soooooo FUN!
-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'
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for some people 6 months is like an eternity and for some its just the begining. i mean seriously, some people do more than that on a first date b/c theyre ready for it. if you dont feel you are ready, dont do it and im sure you dont stand alone. no, theres nothing wrong with it. stay true <3
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age doesn't matter-its how you feel about it. you shouldn't do anything that you don't really want to.
but yes, 6 months is considered a long time and most couples that have been going out for that long have gone way farther than making out.
if you think that he might not be satisfied with just what you guys are doing now, talk to him about it and tell him that you don't think you're ready. if he really loves you he'll understand and take his time with you.
hope i helped.
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First off let me start by telling you that it doesn't matter if you two were together for four years, if you aren't ready (which you honestly should be by then), then don't do it! You dont' want to regret doing things to only make him happy because if he doesn't understand that you aren't ready, then he should be ditched right then and right there. Six months is an average time for people to start becoming intimate, if they are comfortable with eachother. Give or take a year because I know people that have did stuff before they even started dating and I know people that have been together for a year and haven't did anything excpet kiss. Then, there is that one couple I know of that has been together for about a year and a half and STILL haven't kissed. But, it's cool because they are going at their own rate. Dont' worry about what your friends say or anyone else says. You wait until YOU are ready... Hope I helped! -$@)-(@r@
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You just be ready to do stuff when ur readii he should except that...! It is not bad for yOu to bE 15 nd not doIing anythiing nd 6th monthz is alritee just tell him when u are readii he should except!!!
hOpe I hElpEd x333
xOx Devin xOx
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okay i dont think y0u should do anything ... 6 months is not long my brother has been with his girlfriend for 2 years and i dont think they did anything... wait till y0ur ready and if y0ur boyfriend doesnt think he can wait then dont stay with him because he shouldnt make y0u do things that y0u dont want hope i helped x0x nikki x0x
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6 months is not a long time a year maybe lol.. Dont listen to what your friends tell you if you are not ready to do more with your boyfriend then dont do more with him. Giving something up like that should be just to anyone it should be to someone that you love and want to spend the rest of your life with. So take your time and just keep it slow with you man. maybe he doesnt want to move fast either.Hope I helped. And just remember its your relationship not your friends.♥ rate me
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Heyy*
Well I think that its totally normal that you dont wanna do anything that your not ready for. Just because other people are going "further" doesnt mean you have to. Maybe just try to explain to ur boyfriend that you want to wait..because even though you've been going out for 6 months (so have me n my boyfriend) doesnt mean that you guys totally are in LOVE..just try not to do anything ur going to regret later..
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Okay, At This age i have learned that some 15 year olds are well thinking deeper into a relationship that isnt realy the best think though. I am 13 years old and my boyfriend is 15 and i will be going out with my boyfriend for 8 months on July 3rd. I dont do anything with him because were not going to take any chances with that. My cousin got pregnate at the age you are at now. She got an obbortion becuase she didnt want it. She called it "It" and "thing" she would acualy talk to it and say it was stupid and see what your doing your makin me sick it! Stuff like that. If you are 15 and you get pregnate it will ruin your reputation and if you keep it? There goes any plans of a future. When my cousin got pregnate she lost alot of peoples trust and she lost me who looked up to her so greatly. i say take it slow and its great that you dont want to! n Wait till your old enough to fend for a baby or a sickness because sometimes babys are not born "Perfect" and what hapes you get std? and Die from it? Is it worse the chance, just for pure pleasure? As you can tell i am realy saying dont and wait. But I dont own or run your life. Please think about it. And if you do use propor "equipment"!!!!]
Lotz Of Luv...
Meg
P.S. I think its GREAT that you dont want to!
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You should only do it if you feel ready. That's different ages for everyone. 6 months may be a long time to some, but relationships progress at different times depending on the person. Most guys usually will try and do more than just making out (That's just the way they are, lol) but the ones who truly respect you will wait until you're ready.
You're young too - there's plenty of time. Don't do anything you think you might regret.
All the best. =)
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