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Heyy! Im about 5'0, brunette hair, and hazil colored eyes.

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Ok well this goes to my last question but ne ways I have this bf and we've been together eight months went through roughs times well I found this other guy. Who was nice comforted me and made me feel happy. He asked me out I said I didn't know cause technically me and my other bf called it quits cause we knew it wouldn't work long distance over summer. So I didn't know which one to pick but now I've decided to stay with my eight month bf and stick it out through rough times but what should I say to the guy that asked me out because I don't know how to tell him I don't want to date him while being nice. Take in also when I tell him that I don't want to date him I don't want to hurt his feelings were really good friends and he's my ex. I'll rate good!

Heyy*
Well first..I think that you should tell the guy you dont wanna date that you have a lot going through ur mind right now and you just dont have the time to make major changes in your life like that. Tell him that you just wanna stay with ur bf right now and see what happens over the summer. If you guys are good friends..he'll probablly understand. I hope I helped..
.:*Leah*:.

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ok im 15 and sometimes i feel like my boyfriend wants me to do more than just making out. But i dont think im ready and i dont want to yet. We've been together for 6 months and some people say thats a long time. But what should i do? is it bad for me to be 15 and not wanna do anything yet? is 6 months along time?

Heyy*
Well I think that its totally normal that you dont wanna do anything that your not ready for. Just because other people are going "further" doesnt mean you have to. Maybe just try to explain to ur boyfriend that you want to wait..because even though you've been going out for 6 months (so have me n my boyfriend) doesnt mean that you guys totally are in LOVE..just try not to do anything ur going to regret later..

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ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!

Hey*
Well..i think that the right thing to do is tell someone that can help..because if it was you would you want to be living hell like that? Since you guys are close and everything the best thing is to help her. If she doesnt like you for a while for telling someone, just tell her that you just saved her life..because you never know what can happen to her if you dont tell.
..I hope I helped
:heart:Leah

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