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Question Posted Monday June 20 2005, 1:53 am

Ok well this goes to my last question but ne ways I have this bf and we've been together eight months went through roughs times well I found this other guy. Who was nice comforted me and made me feel happy. He asked me out I said I didn't know cause technically me and my other bf called it quits cause we knew it wouldn't work long distance over summer. So I didn't know which one to pick but now I've decided to stay with my eight month bf and stick it out through rough times but what should I say to the guy that asked me out because I don't know how to tell him I don't want to date him while being nice. Take in also when I tell him that I don't want to date him I don't want to hurt his feelings were really good friends and he's my ex. I'll rate good!

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botylisi0us answered Thursday June 23 2005, 12:00 am:
tell him u still have feelings for ur other bf

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SxyLilPoo47 answered Monday June 20 2005, 11:40 am:
Hun Listen,
CLOSELY!
Go with your ex since he treats you better...Or you can just go with him for the summer to see if a spark is tehre and if its not leave him and if it is stay with him and see what yall can make...

-HOPE I HELPED!:)
x3-Janee'

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LoveNJstyle answered Monday June 20 2005, 11:18 am:
oh boy. my friends had a case exactly like it...i was the girl helping out the guy your gonna say no to! it is really hard on them but the easiest way to do it is say you are going to try to make the other guy work out but theres nothing wrong with him. dont lead him on either...that was the girl's biggest mistake. she flirt with him like they were together then turned him down...it was sad. just be nice and dont lecture him about it. (had to throw that in) <3

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ilovepink101 answered Monday June 20 2005, 10:37 am:
well you shouild tell him your with somebody at the time..and its cool that you decided to stay with the other boy..well this boy has to relize that you dont want him and your with some one else at the time.. but your right youm cant be mean about it..you shouild tell him that it wouild be better fo you if you guys just stay friends..and that hopefully wont ruine any friendships there..well you try to do your hardest to think about what to do..and rember to do what you heart tells you to...
hope i helped...
love always,
ilovepink101

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lilaquidas18 answered Monday June 20 2005, 9:29 am:
You should just be honest with this guy tell him that no matter how many time you and your boyfriend fight you still love him and care about him and you guys have so many memories together that your not ready to throw it all away yet. Tell him that your sorry if you gave him any mix feelings and that you would like it if you can still be friends with him. Just be honest with the boy dont lead him on cause you wouldnt want the same to happened to you. And dont worry sweetie all relationships have their bad times it makes them stronger when you can work through them.. Good luck..&#9829;Rate me

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xBabyGirlox3 answered Monday June 20 2005, 8:25 am:
Heyy*
Well first..I think that you should tell the guy you dont wanna date that you have a lot going through ur mind right now and you just dont have the time to make major changes in your life like that. Tell him that you just wanna stay with ur bf right now and see what happens over the summer. If you guys are good friends..he'll probablly understand. I hope I helped..
.:*Leah*:.

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busylizi answered Monday June 20 2005, 7:45 am:
well heres a question for you, has your "8month" bf ever hurt you in an emotional way?...



get back to me on that, and i will then tell you what you should do

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