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bullies
there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help!
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If they slap you on one cheek,show them the other cheek.Let them bully you.If you quietly put up with it and be nice to them they will have no reason to bully you any more.Thry bully you for fun.If you yawn and be quiet it will bug the hell out of them.Pretty soon you will hear a sigh and see them leave.Look for sites on satyagraha.My friend Mahatma Gandhi invented it.It works.
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when i was getting picked on at school i told my dad about it. i felt a lot better because he gave me permission to stand up for myself. im not telling you to get in a fight or anything like that but you shouldnt be a doormat either. cause if you do now than its just going to get worse. tell your parents about this. let me know how it goes.
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try not to spend anytime alone.
Tell a really nice teacher, someone who is easy to talk to and tell the head of year or head teacher. It's their job to help you so explain to them that you are being badly bullied and something needs to be done because it is affecting your life and school work and making you scared to come to school.
Also, keep a diary of everything that is being said and done to you with dates and times, it could just be a rough time of day, morning break or period 3 for example. then if they bullying hasnt died down, take the diary to the teachers again.
have a look at these websites, you might find them helpful, The first one is the best one, it tells you how to deal with bullies in certain places.
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Ok well you gotta do something to prevent that! i mean those girls have no right to do that to you!
ok but before i help you with anything, you gotta be more specific, how are they bullying you? i mean there are lots of different way and each of them have different way to deal with them...
well these are what you can do.
1. report them to the administrator. better than getting grades down and etc.
2. if they threatens to kick your butt then tell them this in very confinently so they know that you really mean it
"Ok. Go ahead. Punch me and knock me out. i dont care, because if you do that, i will press charges on you for using violence and you will get sued and i will be living large when your family have to pay for all those damages. and i will be rich with all the money im getting when i press charges on you!"
but dont say that when you are alone. say that when there are witnesses...
and email me so i can help you more ok? because i dont want innocent people getting hurt!
PLACE YOUR OPINION !!!!!
FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT!!!!
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Beat their ass or... tell somebody around the school.. ♥ Dez
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i got bullied really bad in middle school. You have to tell a principal or it will not stop. Ignoring them does nothing. I know you probably dont want to be a "tattle-tale" but you have to. It will only get worse if you dont do something about it and dont try violence because that wont do anything either.
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Tell a teacher, counselor, or trusted adult. They will do something about it, and if it is hurting your grades then it really is bothering you and you need to take action!
Hope your grades get better!
~*Tiffany*~
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i konw what your talkn bout, and you know that if you say sumethin and try taken up for yourself they will try fighten ya. well ya just have to take chances. i would say what i have i done to you all. and go on. if they dont stop i would tell my mom to come to skool or sumethin or tell a grow up bout it.
i hope i helped and i hope those bullies leave you alone
bye
~*Brandi*~
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I never got bullied but I know how it is since the principal told me I was bullying some people.. just making fun of them and yea but Im not like that anymore. You have to stand up to the bully and let them know that you will not let them talk trash to you like that and do whatever they want. If they say something mean to you or about you say something back. You are their weak link and they think they can do that since you wont do anything about it. Dont tell the principal or a teacher because that will just start more trouble but you can tell the counslor. That is the best solution because if they do it again they could get suspended after they are told to stop. They wont go around telling the school anything but you have to watch out for yourself!! Good luck! ♥ ex_oh
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Simple....SLAP THOSE BITCHES!
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I was in your situation before. Most people will probably tell you to tell the principal. Don't. It will make them more mad and they'll bully your more and WORSE. Don't try to get them in trouble. I had my mom tell the school which was the BIGGEST mistake because the 2 girls started running around the school saying that I'm a baby for getting my mom involved. What I did was, I got my friend (who is really big and tough) to threaten the girls and she even offered to fight them for me if they didn't leave me alone. So basically, get a tough friend or cousin to beat them up or at least threaten them. It's wrong, but it DOES work.
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well i never got bullied before but i would tell a teacher or an adult because it is bad if it is interfering with your grades i would say to them leave me alone but don't fight them because fighting is never the answer and there are other ways to solve your problems then if that doesn't work then i would suggest you tell a teacher before it gets worst then it already is just walk away they are probably jealous or tell your parents they could straighten it out by going to the school and talking to the princpal or another teacher. sunshine1232 hope everything works out good.
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just be like
"i dont know what i did to you but can you just leave me alone !!!!!"
and if they say no then just show them examples of what they did....
like
YOU: "i dont know what i did to you but cant you just leave me alone !!!!!"
THEM: No !
YOU: Why ?!?!
THEM: Becuase...
YOU: Because why ....why do you (examples) make fun of me..Why do you throw paper balls at my head...Why do you spread romurs about me ?! (ect..)
THEM: .....they could tell you why or just be like cause..
YOU: say something smart..then just walk away
most people who make fun of other people have a stupid or no reason to make fun of you...lol
hope i helped
rate me
LisaLeilani
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okay i never really got bullied but 1 of my friends did and i helped her stand up to them so im sure i can help y0u... just stand up for y0ur self tell them to back off or just ignore them because usually bullies get annoued and just stop it because if they know its not bothering y0u then they usually stop hope i helped! x0x nikki
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Just tell them to leave you alone or ignore them if that doesnt work tell someone.. Sorry i cant be of any help.♥ but all i can say is ignore them
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Bullys are always cowards so you could try sticking up for yourself or telling them to go away! do you have any older brothers? because you could get one of them 2 come to your school and stand with you when they walk by they will see you have brothers and leave you alone.If you have no brothers the best thing 2 do is tell a teacher that you trust will not tell them because if they find out you have told a teacher they might begin to get worst. Only tell the teacher if they begin to become abusive.You could even try talking to your parents and changing school?
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u know how everyone says "stand up to your enemies?" well... that choice is up to you. If you feel these girls will physically hurt you then maybe standing up to them is not such a good idea. You can always go to the school counselor, (mention that it is interfering with ur grades... that always makes teachers twitch) and ask for help. if the bullying becomes physical in any way seek help immeadiately. Tell your mom, dad, or another trusted adult, but do it fast!!
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