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i am just a normal girl that is into trying anything once. i like motercicle riding(one of my favorite things)i am very into martal arts and i teach at a gym. i have a boyfriend who i love very much, i dont know what i would do without him. and i love giving advice to anyone who is willing. im dying for you to ask me any question you'd like or if you just want to talk thats cool cause i luv meeting new people.
E-mail: motrcrossbabe9@yahoo.com
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Location: Nevada
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Age: 17
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I know I know your thinking not one of these vday questions!!! but its ergent

you see this is my first time actualy having a boyfriend on valintines day! And i have a really good one!

He spoils me all the time and I dont have any money to spend on him! WHAT DO I DOOO!? I wanted to get him something reallly nice like maybe a gold chain or something but I have no money..

what should i do!?


signed...
the hopeless
excited
vday lover (link)
hey congradulations! i bet your really stressed out so ill make this short and sweet. i looked in a magazine just recently and it said that 73% of guys would rather get something hand-made from their girl. so make something that has to do with what he likes or just do what i did when i was short on cash. make home-made coupons that are good for one back massage or maybe free kisses!!
luv to hear how it goes.


there are these girls in my school and they bully me to often.It is interfering with my grades.help! (link)
when i was getting picked on at school i told my dad about it. i felt a lot better because he gave me permission to stand up for myself. im not telling you to get in a fight or anything like that but you shouldnt be a doormat either. cause if you do now than its just going to get worse. tell your parents about this. let me know how it goes.


i'm POSITIVE i only like her as a friend.. she was the only best friend i had in this stupid town.. so much to tell about it.. but im sure. IM me.. TxDrUmBuMxZ and we can talk. (link)
sorry i cant IM you, my computer is not exactly new. so your going to have to IM me some time im on the computer. i am always on the computer from 5pm-7pm my adress is motrcrossbabe9@yahoo.com just in case. but back to the main point, i know it sucks to lose someone you care most about. but at least she can get your addresses(e-mail, p o box, ect.)and you can get hers. give me your adress and we can e-mail eachother and talk about this some more.


I'm a female

You see, I started going to a new school this year, and everyone was mean except this one girl, who was really nice to me. But then once I started to think we could be bestfriend, she told me off and said she didn't want a bestfriend. It really hurt my feelings...but now that it's summer and she got my phone number, she's been stalking me, wanting to be bestfriends again. She's always calling me, and now she is coming over tomorrow, on Friday. She's really picky about things, and I have no clue what to do when she comes over. We don't like the same movies. She likes romantic comedies...does anyone know of any movies like that (PG rated please)? And what are some nice things to do when she is here?


Thanks! I'll rate high! (link)
well dont get me wrong but i think that these movies will do the trick:
jennifer lopez-the wedding planner
reese witherspoon-legally blond(the first one)
brad pitt-mr.and mrs. smith
those are all i can think of for now but some things you can do to be nice are little things like make her favorite food for dinner, maybe make a cologe of pistures of her and yourself.
have fun, let me know how it goes.


do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help! (link)
ok im not saying your a faker or anything but this is a seriuos matter. if this is happening to you you need to get help! they have shelters everywhere for batterd children. to find the closest one near you town you can look it up in a phone book or the internet at your school. i looked up this number and internat adress just for you:
1800-988-teen or visit breakthecycle.org
the calls are confidential
please let me know how it goes.



Im 15/f
I have 3 best friends. Well, all these guys like my one best friend and their always around her and soo many people follow her and try to be her friend! It's so annoying because sometimes she ignores me, and my crush is one of the guys that likes her, and shes always hanging out with him. My first question is do you think I should be mad at her becuase shes always ignoring me for boys and shes ALWAYS hanging out with my crush??? She also hangs out with this girl that hates me and she tells me she doesn't like her. I think thats a lie because shes always hanging out with her too and the girl thinks shes her best friend. It's werid because no boys liked her last year and she was alot different last year, she was a lot nicer and payed more attention to me. I'm not jealous but it just bothers me alot. My other best friend gets annoyed by this too. What should I do??? Please don't say talk to her because I already have and she didn't listen and I get in alot of fights with her and I don't want it to cause another one. Thanx (link)
well shannon im not going to lie or try and tell you everything will work out between your freind and yourself. it sounds like you care a lot more about your guy's friendship and are pulling a lot more strings than your friend is. i hate to bresk it to you but if you tried everything and i mean everything in the book and she still wont budge, i think you need to find a new best friend. no friendship is worth being sad and angry over. try one more time but tell her this is your last chance caouse it sounds like your fed up with her bull. write back and let me know how it goes.


weird question i know. my best friend is moving soon, and i sent her a text telling her i was gonna miss her and a bunch of other friend stuff like that. everything i said i meant in a friend way but she took it the wrong way. someone read her fone and saw the texts and thought the same thing. now every one of my friends thinks i like her. and other people i dont even know! shes gonna be gone in 3 weeks.. and idk what to do. haha its funny cause i know its not true and that rediculous anyone would think that, but sucks cause no one believes what i say. help =/ (link)
ok i am on your side on this one but you'll have to..........you guessed it talk to her. thats the only way to sourt this problem out. look her in the eyes and tell her she nothing more than a good friend. but i do have to ask you, are you sure you only like her as a friend? let me know how it goes. i like to hear from everyone.


Ok, so I was doing a "Dutch Classic" on my sister yesterday for her junior prom. That's where you do a dutch braid on both sides of the head, braid all of the hair, wind up one of the braids into a bun, pin it, then wrap the other one around and pin that too. It looks like a braided wreath around your head with a bun at the back. I had trouble because when I was rolling up the braid to pin into a bun, the tail (end of the braid, the part of the braid that doesn't get braided) wouldn't roll because the end of the hair is really sprouty. How do people roll up the end of the hair into a bun?! I really need to know!!!! (link)
it helps a lot if you get heer hair wet first. that way it stays in better and the ends will be tied together.


Alright .. so I'm gay and I'm out to my family and everything but I'm not to my friends. I want to tell them because I just want to be myself and everything. But I'm afraid I'll lose them and have no friends. What should i do?? (link)
this is probably realy hard for you to tell your budies but if you dont come clean than thier eventualy going to find out from someone else. of course your a smart person so im sure you knew that by now. if they cant apprieciate you being gay than how are they your friends? do you know were i'm going with this? you can e-mail me anytime id love to hear from you.


I'm just going to get to the point here. I'm a 13/F and I have a friend who is a 13/M. We're just friends and have been friends for about 2 yrs. Anyway I know for a fact that this guy likes, he has even told me himself. We talk to each other everyday over the phone and he like lives right beside of me. Anyway his mother usually answers the phone and she always bothers him by saying that I'm his girlfriend and all this. It seems to me his mother wants him to like me more than a friend, because she always tells him to call me and see if I'm alright. What do you think? (link)
it sounds like you and your friend should become better friends. if he's mother likes you(which is hard for me to even do with my boyfriends mom) than i dont see a reason why you shouldnt go on a date with him


ok im good friends with this guy..we tlk all the time on the fone and hang out a lot! i like him a lot but im afraid to tell him...i dont think he likes me "that way" but he keeps sending me mixed signals and a lot of mi friends think he likes me.(especially mi mom)and thinks we would look so cute together! he is the perfect guy and totally meets mi stanstards perfectly! i really like him! what do i do? (link)
what are you waiting for ask him!


hi. I was hoping one of you could help me. I used to smoke pot. not alot maybe 7 times. but i havent since april 20th(i quit). I was hoping if one of you could tell me if i have any THC in me at all. even if its like.. 2%?? after two months?? thanks. (link)
usually it only takes a month for that stuff to get all the way out of your system. congradulations on quiting.


Ok.. so last year at school... i was.. one of the big girls in the class i have one month or more to get in shape. Where can i get good excersise ideas? I want to lose 34 pounds.. HELP! (link)
if you look on the internet thare are plenty of safe and effective ways to get in shape this summer. but following through it is your choice. good luck. let me know how it goes.


Ok i am the same one who said she was raped and didnt know how to tell her parents because I was to scared...well see the thing is i am to scared to do that because the guy who raped me was my 18 year old cuzin and he said he would kill me if he found out I told anyone and well since hes my cuzin he will find out that people know very quickly even if he just finds out i told someone i was raped he will find a way to kill me...i really have no clue what to do and I am so freaked out...plz help
thanks (link)
first of all your cousin wont dare lay a hand on you. when a rapist says he's going to kill you if you tell someone thare just scared themselves that there going to get cought. i am so terribly sorry that happened to you. i know whats its like to have someone threaten you and you feel you can never escape from the fear that person puts into you. but you know what? the first step in getting over this fear is to tell someone. if you are not ready to tell your parents then tell a good friend you can trust. sometimes it feels better to know that someone is on your side, then you can tell your parents together. but please listen to me, i am begging you from the bottom of my heart to tell someone. if you dont then he's won and he just might be raping someone else. every thirty seconds a woman or child is sexualy or physically abused. your thirty seconds may have gone but someone else's will come if you dont get help now! if you need support advice, or someone to talk to please dont hesitate to e-mail me. i wish you the best of luck.


hi i wanted to get some piercings but i would like to see how they would look on me and so i was wondering if there was any free downloadable software that edits pictures & allows adding piercings. thanks in advance. i rate good/high/well. (link)
all i can say is thares a way you can see yourself in peircings but i dont think that thares a sight whare you can. just get daimond stickers at the dollar store or get no pierce earings.


Hey I always get eyeliner that smudges.... any ideas for one that doesn't or very little smudge? (link)
well, if you dont want those black racoon looking eyes what i do is use an eyeliner that is a liquid. that way where you put it is where it will stay. it takes a few tries and a steady hand but to make it easier im going to give you a little tip: start at the outer corners and work your way in. if it smudges, no prob, just use a wet que-tip to remove any unwanted eyeliner. and dont blink for a good thirty seconds, give the eyeliner time to dry. give me some feedback to let me know how it goes.


I just got a new phone, and its a nextel i730, And i want to know if it has text message cause i read the instructions but it doesn't say anything about it, so can you please tell me if it does, and how to use it. If it doesn't have text how can i get it? thanks alot, i'll rate high (link)
my phone confuses me a lot too. but i dont have a phone like yours. when i do have a problem with my phone it doesnt hurt to call or go down to the place that sold you the phone. i brake my phone a lot and knowing from experience they are raely nice and wanting to help you. hope i helped. thanks for the rating


is it such a turn off when girls are sorta shy but really pretty...or do guys like confidence and don't care about looks....or do u have to be confidente and pretty....I think i am pretty but the confidence idk....i am courious...what do guys like? (link)
many guys like many different things. its difficult to ever know what a guy likes untill you talk to him. some may like shy, some may like them pretty, or to some, it just dont matter.


how do people get boyfriends? i cant get one. (link)
to answer your question its by being yourself. you should try and find someone who likes you for you and if he likes some hobies or music that your into also is a plus. and dont be shy. guys like girls with confidence. good luck


how do i get rid of varicose veins? i rate 5's (link)
the only way to get rid of varicose veins is through surgery. they will pull the viens out! its gross i know but they also offer creams these days but thares no telling how effective it is. varicose veins are usually caused by being on your feet a lot. hope i helped




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