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help is it such a turn off when girls are sorta shy but really pretty...or do guys like confidence and don't care about looks....or do u have to be confidente and pretty....I think i am pretty but the confidence idk....i am courious...what do guys like?
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Well, confidence is sexy, and confidence shows. HoweveR, they'Re not TOO oveRly thRilled with the conceited snobby bitches. But having a ceRtain amount of shyness is a veRy intRiquing thing, definitely good!!!! And of couRse they peRfeR 'pRetty' giRls... but some aRe decent people and take what they can get and see the peRson foR who they aRe INSIDE.. and not just what designeR they happen to be weaRing, ya know???? Hopefully this offeRs some help to you. :) ]
In most cases, the most average, second-rate, popular, skin-deep, typical, pretty girls are the ones who attract guys. Guys are kind of arrogant and want someone they can feel above/someone to control. Deep girls make them feel dumb and threatening to their intellect. Most guys aren't even aware of this. They like to say they are attracted to intelligent, selfless girls with a sense of humor, but that's not usually true. Don't worry about guys liking you, it will only make you feel self-conscious and you get nowhere. Know that you're better than any guy. I learned this lesson awhile ago. Remember that the older you get, the more guys will appreciate you for being smart.
hang in there babe ]
in school im kinda shy and had no problem with guys hittin on me.. they thought it was cute but they knew i was really a bad ass in the inside.. ♥ Dez ]
it depends on all guys. I mean alot of the guys get passed the fact that your shy and will be more then happy to spend more time with you to make you less shy with them. As long as your trying to be confident the best you can then that is all that matters. Plus theres nothing wrong with trying to be pretty-trix ]
alrighty, in my opinion you SHOULDNT change just for a guy...but if you want to then ok here is my advice. guys DO like a girl with confindence. just think to yourself i can do this all the time and dont think about anything else. ]
guys almost always start conversations because of looks or to insult a person.personality always is second in thier books
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many guys like many different things. its difficult to ever know what a guy likes untill you talk to him. some may like shy, some may like them pretty, or to some, it just dont matter. ]
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